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posted October 12, 2013 09:02 AM            

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No?

This song is for [b]all us Capricorns!

Frozen

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Indeed. I'm pretty darn frigid myself. But I always enjoyed the sex part. So, I had to deal with that strange paradox.

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posted October 12, 2013 09:06 AM            

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nvm

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posted October 13, 2013 08:56 PM            

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If I'm supposed to go all the way, I want it to feel like the merging of two souls and such idealisitic crap :/ I can't help it.

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posted October 13, 2013 09:31 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I don't know. You strike me as pretty frigid.

Someone hurt you real bad?

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posted October 13, 2013 09:44 PM            

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Its been my experience that a lot of earth dominant women have lots of weird issues with sex. Which doesn't make sense because you would think sex is an earthy thing but I guess not. Not trying to stereotype but alot of capricorns and virgos are the worst imo. I have tried dating these women and I lost patience with them because they didn't have a sexual bone in their bodies. It wasn't just a lack of sex itself they didn't even want to talk about it! No sexual flirtation, nothing! I hate to be a downer but most men need sex and if a woman is anti-sex we lose interest real quick.

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posted October 13, 2013 09:47 PM            

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Maybe they weren't that into you

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posted October 13, 2013 09:58 PM            

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Maybe they weren't that into you

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I expected a catty response like that. No, That wasn't the case.They were very upset when I parted ways with them. Thing is,it wasn't a lack of sex itself that ruined it for me, it was the lack of sexual energy coming from them, they were repressed. Just to give an example, I dated a virgin who was commited to waiting for marriage and I didn't mind at all because I didn't get completely sexually stonewalled by her.I could sexually flirt with her and she would respond positively. But those other girls? They acted like I was a deviant if my sexual side came out at all.No guy wants to deal with that.

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posted October 13, 2013 10:17 PM            

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I'm surprised you have any male friends at all... since obviously - if they are hetero they won't flirt with you either.
Don't you lose patience with them?

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posted October 13, 2013 10:18 PM            

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LOL I know a girl with a cap stellium that's a nymphomaniac, we always talk about her sexual escapades, it's always brought up at some point..

You didn't answer my question either :s
What do you do when you're fooling around with your boyfriend?

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posted October 13, 2013 10:18 PM            

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I know a nympho Cappy girl as well.. but she has Venus conjunct Mars in Pisces - and trine her Scorpio Moon

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posted October 13, 2013 10:20 PM            

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She has mars in libra conjunct jupiter in the 8th house.

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posted October 13, 2013 10:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I'm surprised you have any male friends at all... since obviously - if they are hetero they won't flirt with you either.
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Hahahaha you are a comedian aren't ya? No, you dummy. I just dont want to date a girl who hates sex.

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posted October 13, 2013 10:33 PM            

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Kerosene, huh? I'm wondering what made you think I had one. I don't.

aqua, I don't hate sex. I would be more than willing to do it if I had a boyfriend. I guess you just needed to whine

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posted October 13, 2013 10:37 PM            

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Sure haha that's why you always reference your lack of libido and the fact that you are emotionally closed off.

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posted October 13, 2013 10:39 PM            

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Btw, never said you yourself hate sex, I was talking about the girls I was involved with.

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posted October 13, 2013 10:42 PM            

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Ehem. Now focus. There are days when my sex drive is asleep and that's it. It's not like I don't have it at all. Nor I'm emotionally closed off all the time.

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posted October 13, 2013 10:45 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Btw, never said you yourself hate sex, I was talking about the girls I was involved with.

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Right, after all a day without complaining about women is a lost day ^^

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posted October 13, 2013 10:49 PM            

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well this very thread was started because you were questioning if you were asexual. I have also read lots of things you have said on the matter in the past and I definitely get that impression.

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posted October 13, 2013 10:54 PM            

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I started questioning it because...

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It said you can be asexual even if you have libido and can reach orgasm. The critical point is the desire to have sex with another person.

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If I ever end up in a relationship that will mean, among others, that I'm very attracted physically to my boyfriend. Why the hell would I avoid sex then? I would need some time in the beginning but that's all. I'm not saving my virginity for marriage.

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posted October 13, 2013 11:11 PM            

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From what I've seen you seem to be open to the idea of having a boyfriend yet really emotionally guarded at the same time.IMO, you are an attractive girl and probably have lots of guys interested in you yet you don't have a boyfriend. It seems to me that you are either pushing guys away because you have a deep seated fear of emotional and physical intimacy or you are asexual and just don't want to have sex.

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posted October 13, 2013 11:18 PM            

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Yes, I'm guarded. And I have my expectations. And I'm ok with being single. And yes, I might be asexual. We will see. Anyway, I can't say the theory of sexual intercourse puts me off.

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IMO, you are an attractive girl and probably have lots of guys interested in you

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posted October 13, 2013 11:26 PM            

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Yes, I'm guarded. And I have my expectations. And I'm ok with being single. And yes, I might be asexual.

[QUOTE]IMO, you are an attractive girl and probably have lots of guys interested in you

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I could have sworn you posted your pic here before, Maybe I'm confusing you with someone else. I'm just trying to understand your situation. So you say you would be open to dating and having sex with a guy if you were attracted to him. Have you ever been sexually attracted to a guy before?
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posted October 13, 2013 11:32 PM            

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if you were attracted to him

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Yeah, and 100 other things

If I'm asexual then there's no point in getting involved, at least not with a sexual man, even if I fell in love. I'm not that naive.

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Have you ever been sexually attracted to a guy before?

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No guy I've met made me wet (weee, it rhymes). I said that already.

I've never shown my face here
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posted October 14, 2013 01:30 AM            

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I've read the thread and it sounds to me that you just haven’t met the right person.

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posted October 14, 2013 03:30 AM            

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The important question would be if you experience sexual attraction or not. Do you? If you don't, then congratulations, you're asexual! Nothing else matters. Do you need an emotional bond before you feel sexual attraction? That would be demisexuality, like Odette brought up.

There's also something called grey-asexual...means you are asexual but there are some little notes that come along with it like:

-you might not usually experience sexual attraction, but can experience it sometimes
-you experience sexual attraction, but have a low or nonexistent sex drive
-you experience sexual attraction and drive, but not strongly enough that you want to act on them

And so on. Sexuality is fun.

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