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Topic: When Your Partner Lies To You
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FruitTreeFresh
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 18, 2013 10:32 AM
  
Speaking of lies, will you (guys) lie to a girl and tell her she's a hot chick?LOL pardon me. I came across an article on stereotypes. Here is the excerpt:
[b]#5 The woman who thinks she’s hot stuff. This woman is the butt of all jokes on a guy’s night out. Ever met a girl who thinks all guys are attracted to her or trying to hit on her wherever she goes *even though you know for a fact that no guy is actually interested in her*?
Well, this stereotype is that girl. They crave for a guy’s attention all the time, and pretend like it’s the guy who’s actually trying to win their attention. Guys hate women who think they’re hot stuff when they’re really far from it. [/B] IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 6361
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 18, 2013 11:43 AM
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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
Speaking of lies, will you (guys) lie to a girl and tell her she's a hot chick?LOL pardon me. I came across an article on stereotypes. Here is the excerpt: [b]
[b]#5 The woman who thinks she’s hot stuff. This woman is the butt of all jokes on a guy’s night out. Ever met a girl who thinks all guys are attracted to her or trying to hit on her wherever she goes *even though you know for a fact that no guy is actually interested in her*? Well, this stereotype is that girl. They crave for a guy’s attention all the time, and pretend like it’s the guy who’s actually trying to win their attention. Guys hate women who think they’re hot stuff when they’re really far from it. [/B][/B]
Why would I do that?
Either the girl is hot or not. What incentive do I have to mask my opinion? Pardon me too. I speak only for myself and not other guys. <Flame suit on> If I don't find the girl hot, I don't go out. Period. As for "do I look fat in this dress?" that doesn't even warrant a response. You look fat if you are fat. You don't look fat if you are not fat. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 7743
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 18, 2013 12:33 PM
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Originally posted by FruitTreeFresh:
Speaking of lies, will you (guys) lie to a girl and tell her she's a hot chick?LOL pardon me. I came across an article on stereotypes. Here is the excerpt: [b]
[b]#5 The woman who thinks she’s hot stuff. This woman is the butt of all jokes on a guy’s night out. Ever met a girl who thinks all guys are attracted to her or trying to hit on her wherever she goes *even though you know for a fact that no guy is actually interested in her*? Well, this stereotype is that girl. They crave for a guy’s attention all the time, and pretend like it’s the guy who’s actually trying to win their attention. Guys hate women who think they’re hot stuff when they’re really far from it. [/B][/B]
Yes. A lot of guys are atleast willing to have sex with women they arent attracted to.IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1070
From: Midwest
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 18, 2013 01:20 PM
It generally doesn't even come up. Not when I talk to women. I know of one woman right now and have seen many in the past who run around trying to get all the guys attention. This woman at work has big fake boobs and she just runs around flaunting it.
I ignore those women. There's another woman at work who's not attractive. I don't think so anyway. When she was first hired a few years ago she kept complaining that this guy was staring at her or another guy. It got a few of them talked to.
Then one day she complained to my coworker that "Jeff" kept bothering her. My coworker just laughed and said, "That's impossible dear. Jeff is gay." Which is true. That was the end of that! Since then over the next few years she's never said anything about it. LOL IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 6361
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 18, 2013 02:36 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Yes. A lot of guys are atleast willing to have sex with women they arent attracted to.
I didn't think of that..... :/
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FruitTreeFresh
Knowflake Posts: 327
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 19, 2013 02:42 AM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
Then one day she complained to my coworker that "Jeff" kept bothering her. My coworker just laughed and said, "That's impossible dear. Jeff is gay." Which is true. LOL
Hahahah! Awkward silence..
I can't stand girls who are too showy to garner guys attention. Their body language tells, especially.
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juniperb
Moderator Posts: 7640
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 19, 2013 09:28 AM
Aquacheeka,, is this guy the same you spoke of before who is a slob ?------------------
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Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 2884
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 19, 2013 02:48 PM
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Originally posted by juniperb:
Aquacheeka,, is this guy the same you spoke of before who is a slob ?
No, this isn't the same guy. My boyfriend now is actually very clean and very responsible when it comes to helping out with chores. Also, he's not video-gaming or smoking weed all day I didn't mean to insinuate that, I was just using an example (blaming your partner for self-destructive behaviour).
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charlie
Knowflake Posts: 1161
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 19, 2013 04:39 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
There's no return.It's over as far as I'm concerned.
2nd this. I might hang on for a while but mentally I am done-done. Actually, I have the ability to just "switch" and am capable of turning into a friend over night. IP: Logged |
juniperb
Moderator Posts: 7640
From: Blue Star Kachina
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 20, 2013 02:54 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
No, this isn't the same guy. My boyfriend now is actually very clean and very responsible when it comes to helping out with chores. Also, he's not video-gaming or smoking weed all day I didn't mean to insinuate that, I was just using an example (blaming your partner for self-destructive behaviour).
I`m glad he isn`t the same guy! Too often people can`t see them selves clearly and will foist the blame for bad behavior unto another.
Families, relationships or friendships, it is common behavior patterns 
It`s a tough position when you love someone but I wouldn`t let it go. One time always leads to another and that`s very unhealthy for you both.
Good luck! ------------------
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