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Topic: dammit! I need healing again.
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Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 1188 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 13, 2013 04:50 PM
I am truly fed up of hearing psychics tell me that I need to heal from a past relationship - my marriage, which ended many years ago. Well, I thought I had. Besides shouldn't scars heal over time? Unless I heal, they say, I will not attract the right kind of relationship. In the past couple of years I have followed advice and practised a variety of self-healing techniques - visualisations, affirmations, forgiveness techniques to rid myself of the scourge. But, it seems, to no avail. Maybe what needs to be healed needs cognitive behaviour therapy or such like. Regression therapy maybe? Anyhow, to compound the problem, I have just ended a relationship, so that means I have two to take care of! I feel defeated. Any tips? IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 2821 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 13, 2013 06:06 PM
I tried to pull up a Sabian for you, and it just wouldn't seem to flow right.It drove me nuts! Okay, just went and pulled this one for you: ARIES 15 AN INDIAN WEAVING A BLANKET IN THE LIGHT OF THE SETTING SUN
The traditional skills of life can symbolize the story of both the past and present. Take time out to create something that is not only useful, but contains the symbols of your story. Also, some things need doing, just because they need to be done. Weaving security and independence. The fabric of one's being. Traditional pastimes and skills. The warp and weft of life. The Caution: Underestimating skills of self-expression in comparison with intellectual skills or allowing dull routines to overcome you. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum3/HTML/003271.html Is Creativity the Answer? (All Threads in Her Weave...) IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 1188 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 13, 2013 06:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
ARIES 15 AN INDIAN WEAVING A BLANKET IN THE LIGHT OF THE SETTING SUN The traditional skills of life can symbolize the story of both the past and present. Take time out to create something that is not only useful, but contains the symbols of your story. Also, some things need doing, just because they need to be done. Weaving security and independence. The fabric of one's being. Traditional pastimes and skills. The warp and weft of life. The Caution: Underestimating skills of self-expression in comparison with intellectual skills or allowing dull routines to overcome you. Is Creativity the Answer? (All Threads in Her Weave...)
Thanks Ellynlvx, This seems to say to me that the task cannot be rushed. It needs to be carefully woven together - security and independence are two words which seem to have particular meaning. Yes, I need to feel secure in myself and get my independence back (if I ever had it in the first place). So, no quick fixes perhaps, but it still leaves the question 'how'. Unless, it IS actually telling me to be creative, as in creating something artistic. Love the picture - beautiful colours IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Knowflake Posts: 2821 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 13, 2013 07:15 PM
It was for you, so whatever meaning you get out of it is relevant. I probably should have put the other ones up on the Sabian Thread. They seemed to have more relevance with the atmosphere surrounding me at the time, though. Tried three times, too. Know that my Heart is with you. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 35665 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 24, 2013 08:38 PM
How goes it?IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 1188 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 25, 2013 05:03 PM
Thanks for asking Randall, but I'm damned if I know. Is one allowed to swear on Xmas day?I suppose being irritable and annoyed (for the moment) is one step better than feeling low down and miserable. Time may heal, as they say. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 35665 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 26, 2013 02:19 PM
It will get better.IP: Logged |