posted January 26, 2014 12:07 AM            

I was expressing how I felt on SweetPeas. It was not a threat.

In any event - I deleted the posts because I don't want to argue. There is no point.

I'm not sure why you said that you could have "quoted" my post.
I just copied it so I could paste it here if you want it posted.
There's nothing to hide in my post.
I just didn't want it up there since I didn't want to continue an argument.

posted January 26, 2014 12:25 AM            

I also feel like you are misunderstanding me here.. but in any event - I don't want drama or a discussion, because I don't feel like you are 'open' to anything other than the things you believe to be true.
Or perhaps you are open with others, I'm not sure. But with me, I don't feel like you are.

posted January 26, 2014 12:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
And this is why I tend to stay away from here(meaning Sweet Peas). Some people really abuse having "mod" privileges...

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posted January 26, 2014 12:49 AM            

Pixie, to me, is as real as can be, Odette is exploring, chatted w/both of them, no issues

For me, pacem and benedictus, it strikes me that..well..I'll be quiet now

There is a very talented Dancer moving to Vivaldi's 4 seasons on my other screen atm, so gentle, and Classy..squabbles mean very little to me ATM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g-JDIFVHjZQ

Wow..she does it right, I've not been to a strip club in yrs, if they moved like she does, I'd go back

posted January 26, 2014 02:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
why did you close the thread

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I didn't close the thread. I can't.

I believe Randall did as he'd just posted in another forum right about the time the thread got shut. So take it up with him.

If it wasn't him then it was one of the moderators of this specific forum, which are as follows:

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Sweet Peas In The Rain
(moderated by Lexxigramer, Ami Anne, charmainec, Venus)

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posted January 26, 2014 02:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I apologise for the comment regarding your age, because that has nothing to do with anything

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I feel about the same toward you as you do to me, Odette. That aside, I'm not 21. I'm bemused that you think so. Nevertheless, you're right it had nothing to do with anything, just another way to go after me instead of my opinion.

posted January 26, 2014 02:41 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I didn't close the thread. I can't.

I believe Randall did as he'd just posted in another forum right about the time the thread got shut. So take it up with him.

If it wasn't him then it was one of the moderators of this specific forum, which are as follows:

[QUOTE]Sweet Peas In The Rain
(moderated by Lexxigramer, Ami Anne, charmainec, Venus)

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My bet is Ami Anne.
She's been known to close threads AND currently "fighting" on this forum is on her brain.

posted January 26, 2014 02:46 AM            

And I know Randall did close at least one without explanation.

posted January 26, 2014 05:41 AM            

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Just another way to go after me instead of my opinion.

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Actually I wrote a post in reply to your opinion which I lost, so I couldn't be bothered re-writing the whole thing.

I'm pretty sure someone mentioned you were 21 or in your early 20s, but it must've been a typo. Either way - I am not ageist so that was a stupid thing to say.

& I'm not sure why the thread was locked... *shrug*

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posted January 26, 2014 08:59 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Ami is quick to close them but I'd be surprised if she passed up the chance to slam me before she did.

And I know Randall did close at least one without explanation.

Still, now I'm curious: who closed the thread?

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I am gonna say it straight out since you brought it up, Pixie.

I think you bully people and I think you bully new people.

You tried to bully me but gave up because you got no place but I see you bully people time and time again.

A bully is a coward. Bullying new people really, really, really bothers me.

I have no respect for that and it gets me very angry!

I will intervene, at times, when I see it, but I don't see it all the time and I don't want to intervene all the time and start new fights but it is a lousy trait to have and you should consider what I am saying.

Take care

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posted January 26, 2014 09:11 AM            

If someone won't stop harassing me, I will eventually make them sorry they did but I have a slow fuse and it takes a very long time.

However, that is not a bully.

If someone hates Jews, I will be repulsed by them and not want to engage with them.

I am sure my revulsion is obvious.

However, a bully really sucks, ESPECIALLY bullying new people.

I am done

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posted January 26, 2014 10:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
I closed it. Heated discussions are kept open, so they can resolve, but once it moves toward insults, they can get closed.

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That is a perfect way to do it.

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posted January 27, 2014 08:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I am gonna say it straight out since you brought it up, Pixie.

I think you bully people and I think you bully new people.

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Pixie is no bully.

ETA:

It'd be nice if Randall asked you to back up that allegation with some proof, rather than allowing Pixie to be slandered.

You say she makes a habit out of targeting new members and roughing them up? Tell everyone where you saw that happening.

posted January 27, 2014 10:51 AM            

Other people have just told me.

I am not the type to run down people's posts.

I made my point and by her silence she agreed.

Now, let me add that everyone screws up in one way or another.

No one on here is perfect. People are imperfect in different ways but if someone was going to FOLLOW someone around for years, they would find times that that person was a jerk at some time or another.

Everyone is a jerk, sometimes, unless someone is a saint and I don't believe in saints.

That being said, I think Pixie's bullying will stop because it was identified.

If she owned it, that would be cool. I don't expect that cuz it is an embarrassing thing to own and she does not seem like the kind of person who is able to own that.

I understand that. People act out of their own pain.

I only called attention to it cuz she mentioned me AND because I have a special heart for newcomers.

If she just harassed older member, it would not get under my skin.

The newcomers are very precious to me. They are the lifeblood of LL. I want to see LL grow and flourish as much as I want that for my own website.

I love LL. I am a very loyal person to anyone who has been kind to me, especially when I was weak and not able to defend myself, which I was when I first came on LL.

Randall has been very kind to me, putting up with my many,many screw ups on the way to having a little more maturity, now.

I would not be able to have my own website, if it were not for him.

I would not know how to handle it and you do. I get attacked about 8 times a day, just from people wanting to be jerks.

You have to know how to deal with it or you implode or explode and ruin the whole thing.

Hence, I want LL to grow and burgeon as much as possible.

Newbies are the key to that, imo

Newbies bring life to LL. They bring new ideas. They bring new personalities.

When I have seen Pixie time and time again bully a new person just to be mean, I have been enraged.

Now, I am saying it.

I don't feel like I want to diss, Pixie, personally, even though it may seem this way.

I don't want any new people to leave due to bullying! This really, really, really matters to me!

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posted January 27, 2014 11:05 AM            

I'm not saying you are mean. Maybe I don't understand you when it's just your way of communicating. I've seen you offer lots of constructive advice and being kind to various members here so I took it that you just find me annoying or something. :/

posted January 27, 2014 11:15 AM            

For everyone else, we screw up in one form or another. We have our pain that makes us lash out.

Online, it is like road rage, more so cuz people are behind the safety of computers.

I am one of the rare ones who has apologized many times on here.

I have been here for 6 years. I thought it was 5, but it is 6.

I have apologized many times because I have screwed up.

Once I bullied girl, just to be mean because she really, really annoyed me.

Lala called me on it and I apologized and the girl and I became friends.

So, everyone screws up and often, perhaps.

To own it is the thing. If one owns it, that build character and that builds respect from others.

People may not like you but they will respect you and that is much, much, much more important than being liked imo

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