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Topic: How To Deal With Your Enemies.........................
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Violets
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From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 09, 2014 09:43 PM
  
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Originally posted by dadoo:
Nah, I just thought I'd display my amazing talent at geometry 
^ Hahaha Man, I wish I had Moon trine Neptune.
The only grace that my Asc gets is from Neptune though, so I'll take that (and Eris, whatever that means?!). Although yeah, I can see how NN conjunct Dsc could be frustrating. My PoF being conjunct my Dsc is a little exasperating, but I like the fact that it's conjunct Mercury. Wait...your PoF is probably conjunct your Mercury too, haha. IP: Logged |
Catalina
Knowflake Posts: 1572
From: shamballa
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 10, 2014 02:41 PM
All too often the fact that people speak their mind is seen as argument, and argument as enmity. this is a Discussion Board and if you bring a topic and get upset because people present counterviews, where is the discussion?I don't come here thinking I have to make friends of every member. That kind of need became obsolete years ago. Nor do I come to inflame, but I do have a natural flair for seeing both sides of issues and a dislike for dogmatism. And a big mouth too I admit! I don't feel the need to babysit people when speaking my mind.. But I generally miss fights here, when people refer to them I am in the dark...why, do you think? I think perhaps, Ami, you have learned you don't have to control every post on the board, and that has translated into less felt "enmity" for you. Congratulations, that is a huge step! IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted April 10, 2014 08:12 PM
I don't think that I have enemies. If people who think of me as an enemy, want to feel that way, that's fine. It just shows that they don't know me at all. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53818
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 10, 2014 09:04 PM
I think perhaps, Ami, you have learned you don't have to control every post on the board, and that has translated into less felt "enmity" for you. Congratulations, that is a huge step!
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Violets
Moderator Posts: 3204
From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 10, 2014 10:13 PM
This is how I deal with my enemies.
Just kidding. Sort of.
I'll probably edit this and repost it in my venting thread.  http://youtu.be/K0YI0UUazkU Generally, I express my opinion, take a stand if need be, even if there are repercussions. I wait...and allow the other person to "hang themselves", so to speak. They usually create their own karma, so I don't really need to add much. But it takes a LOT for me to consider someone an "enemy". Like years and years, or just being in my face relentlessly for a good while. I'm pretty patient, generally. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
Knowflake Posts: 1448
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 10, 2014 10:19 PM
Just friggin SO MANY thumbs up for the Dead Weather!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zj7jTtyCmOU I deal with my enemies by staring at them until they leave. IP: Logged |
Violets
Moderator Posts: 3204
From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 10, 2014 10:20 PM
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Originally posted by MsPrism:
Just friggin SO MANY thumbs up for the Dead Weather!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zj7jTtyCmOU I deal with my enemies by staring at them until they leave.
Ah! I wish we lived in the same vicinity (or even the same continent)! And I do that as well sometimes, hahaha. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 10, 2014 10:25 PM
I think that would be useful, you Pisces woman! My NN is there, so teach me the ways of the force.I laughed so hard at this that it hurt.  EDIT I show my enemies that picture and we become friends. IP: Logged |
Violets
Moderator Posts: 3204
From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 10, 2014 10:30 PM
Gahhhh! That made me laugh hard. Out loud. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 10, 2014 11:06 PM
But it takes a LOT for me to consider someone an "enemy". Like years and years, or just being in my face relentlessly for a good while. I'm pretty patient, generally.
Me too, but some people will not freaking stop!
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Violets
Moderator Posts: 3204
From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 10, 2014 11:35 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Me too, but some people will not freaking stop!
That's true, I suppose... I can only think of a handful (maybe three, maximum) of times that I actually outright hated someone and considered them "an enemy". The first person I just avoided like the plague, because she was seriously crazy. The one time I did have it out with her (on the street, I might add) I was ready to beat the crap out of her after years and years of being subjected to her crazy, manipulative behavior...but someone intervened. This was over a relationship issue many years ago. Another person I simply waited out, and confronted them with painful facts whenever I had the chance. That person was a Taurus, and I had more stubbornness than she possessed, apparently. That person had seriously wronged me in a very tangible way, and had created a ton of pain in my life, while I had done nothing to her. The third person I simply refused to work with, because she was also crazy (and working in a group home, taking care of schizophrenic adults and telling them about how her boyfriend had abused her the night before, screwing up their meds, etc.). I walked out on my shift and left the administrator to work it, and was fired a month later (after expressing my concern over her incompetence repeatedly, only to be ignored because she was "pretty", and knew how to shmooze the administrator). That girl got fired not long after, for being...well, crazy. Myself, on the other hand...I already had another job, and it paid better. These three examples are probably why I'm so quick to cut people from my life if they seem to be "crazier" than I am. We're all crazy in our own way, just don't drag me into a bunch of drama. That's my wonky perspective, anyway.  Actually, another was a coworker. Her birth(day) was the day before mine, but my God she was overbearing. She would try to tell me how to do my job, as though she were my superior, when we were on equal footing. A lot of the time I would just snicker and tell her that there was no policy to back up what she was telling me, and that I could do whatever it was however I saw fit. And then she would burst into tears.  She eventually got fired for going against policy in a very big way. So...eh. IP: Logged |
Violets
Moderator Posts: 3204
From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 10, 2014 11:47 PM
But anyway, I say that if people just won't quit, and they consistently try to get in your face, just let them "hang themselves". Or take a stand and suffer the repercussions if necessary, but know that if the other person is seriously in the wrong, they'll have their own repercussions to deal with.
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Violets
Moderator Posts: 3204
From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 11, 2014 12:11 AM
Ami, I'll post your song for you. Cuz I love ya, and you've never done anything whatsoever to offend me.  http://youtu.be/otCpCn0l4Wo Even if we don't always share the same opinion, I've never felt like you've tried to push anything on me, which I appreciate. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53818
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 11, 2014 07:45 AM
Thank you Violet ------------------
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 11, 2014 07:46 AM
My all time fave song. Love you, Violets!
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YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 6927
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted April 11, 2014 07:51 AM
I eliminate my enemies.  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted April 11, 2014 08:00 AM
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Violets
Moderator Posts: 3204
From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 11, 2014 11:01 PM
I've never actually prayed for this, but I still thought it was hilarious (and accurate).  IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 1610
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 12, 2014 12:12 AM
I try to stay more zen these days for the most part lol. It's like the whole Aries/Libra axis... People understand our individual identity by defining or fighting against others. But having "enemies" is usually just a projection of something we have unresolved internally... Which is something I've had to learn/still am learning as a 7th house Sun  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 12, 2014 07:53 AM
Wow Ian, that dude knew his thang ------------------
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted April 12, 2014 07:53 AM
Thank you FM ------------------
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 12, 2014 07:53 AM
Thank you Violets ------------------
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