posted April 04, 2014 08:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
No one attacks me, Barbie. If someone is a jerk, I ignore. Hence, there is no attack. It takes two to have a fight. If I don't fight, the person dangles in the wind

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posted April 04, 2014 08:28 PM            

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posted April 04, 2014 08:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
It is not passive aggressive. It is not allowing anyone to control my agenda. It is not allowing anyone to make me do or say things I don't want by trying to pull my strings. It is freedom but I don't do it perfectly and screw up a lot but it is my goal.

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posted April 04, 2014 08:32 PM            

I do have my triggers and a few people can push them by insulting my heritage but these few people seem to have disappeared and so I have not been provoked much but when I am, I hope to deal with it calmly in a cool and collected way.

If not, you are the victim of anyone who wants to pull your strings.

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posted April 04, 2014 08:41 PM            

Do you have an answer for this? I know you were following that thread.
Why was that not handled?

Yet you'll close threads prematurely if someone ticks you off.

 posted April 04, 2014 08:18 PM             quote:Originally posted by birdy:
And JO B used it against Barbie yesterday not to mention told her to F off.

Venusian moon used it against me a couple days before that. 
And much more... 
Why don't you recognize that?
Where have the mods been? The JO B incident was in sweat peas of which Ami Ann is a mod of but she's too busy in here joining in than to be fair.

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posted April 04, 2014 08:51 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
And YOU... Ami Ann made a bully thread also... Right here in sweat peas.

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I know but that was about innocent newbies being bullied for no reason. That was different.

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posted April 04, 2014 08:54 PM            

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posted April 04, 2014 08:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I know but that was about innocent newbies being bullied for no reason. That was different.

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posted April 04, 2014 08:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Anyway, my bottom line view is Barbie instigates and then runs away calling it bullying.
If you provoked people to be jerks, it is not bullying. It is provocation.

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People can't handle a strong personality.

posted April 04, 2014 08:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Anyway, my bottom line view is Barbie instigates and then runs away calling it bullying.
If you provoked people to be jerks, it is not bullying. It is provocation.

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posted April 04, 2014 08:59 PM            

While I like and care about both of you for various reasons, and I can respect our differences, I have to say that I agree with everyone else here.

The disagreements we've had are water under the bridge as far as I'm concerned, but I do think that you both need to look at how you come across to other people and realize that the entirety of LL isn't just singling you two out to pick fights with.

I realize that you'll probably both take offense to this, but I don't mean it that way. I care about most people here, and you guys are no exception. I like certain things about most people here, and you guys are no exception.

But I really do think that if anyone needs mod intervention, it's often one or both of you, not the other way around.

And it's not just mods that you guys get into conflicts with, so please don't try to play that card again.

It's not that anyone hates Barbie (at least I don't). It's that she truly does appear to instigate, and you both seem to project your own behavior onto the people you're (constantly) arguing with.

I'm sorry if my saying this offends either one of you, but I do think that it needs to be said.

Ami can stand up for herself. If no one had responded to Kero's initial comment (or had ignored it, as Barbie likes to advise others to do when they're annoyed by her comments), this might not have snowballed into such a fiasco. It probably would have died off before now.

posted April 04, 2014 09:07 PM            

I know you have a good heart.

Even during these things I know we are taken differently than we intend. I feel her and I more so but everyone is.

Bottom line.....

I am this person. I won't change that. This is me.
Also, there needs to be no keeping track but what's happened with Jo B and VM should never be tolerated.
If we're also guilty, so be it. I'll control that although I'm confident that I've never stooped quite THAT low.
of it should be tolerated, period.

posted April 04, 2014 09:12 PM            

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