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Topic: Bullying
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Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 3554
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 06:49 PM
  
Just forget it. WAS NOT MEANT TO BE ABOUT ME. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 04, 2014 06:52 PM
I wasn't trying to get personal, Barbie. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 3554
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 06:54 PM
I'm stating generally. I wasn't referencing to myself. I've just had it. Like I'm almost ready to quit here. I'm sick of anything that I share here thrown in my face or used against me. It's disgusting to me. IP: Logged |
birdy
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From:
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted April 04, 2014 06:58 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I'm stating generally. I wasn't referencing to myself. I've just had it. Like I'm almost ready to quit here. I'm sick of anything that I share here thrown in my face or used against me. It's disgusting to me.
Ive seen you make fun of someone's age here awhile back you disagreed with. Ageism is bullying too. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 3554
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 06:59 PM
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Originally posted by birdy:
Ive seen you make fun of someone's age here awhile back you disagreed with. Ageism is bullying too.
I'm not denying that I haven't gone back and forth with anyone. But it's only when they start it first with me. I'm merely defending myself. What's wrong with that? More fights and bickering thanks. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 04, 2014 07:04 PM
Boohoo.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
Moderator Posts: 1340
From: The Beach
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 04, 2014 07:07 PM
I don't agree with personal insults. I try really hard not to resort to anything like that. But going back and forth about opinions and beliefs is just conversation and people communicating which can be a good thing. Sometimes people learn from other people with some debate and disagreements.
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earthypisces
Knowflake Posts: 496
From: Greenville, South Carolina
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 04, 2014 07:21 PM
Ignore it? Maybe you should take your own advice.And you are entitled to your opinion, maybe you'd be better received if you weren't so obnoxious.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 8206
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 04, 2014 07:23 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I'm stating generally. I wasn't referencing to myself. I've just had it. Like I'm almost ready to quit here. I'm sick of anything that I share here thrown in my face or used against me. It's disgusting to me.
I wouldn't use this against you. In fact, when away from that particular thread, I won't even mention the topic. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 3554
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 07:31 PM
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Originally posted by earthypisces:
Ignore it? Maybe you should take your own advice.And you are entitled to your opinion, maybe you'd be better received if you weren't so obnoxious.
I've yet to be obnoxious. I can't help that I come off strong and passionate about things. If you don't like it then you ignore it. Stay away from me. It's that simple. Go troll somewhere else. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53641
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 04, 2014 07:42 PM
Barbie
You act obnoxious and then cry foul. I am telling it as it is, so you can learn, hopefully.
I have learned a lot since I came on LL and I have gained enough maturity where I can have my own website and deal with people attacking me and still retain my cool-95%% of the time.You can face yourself and learn or run away and blame other people. The choice is yours. ------------------
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7thGuardian
Knowflake Posts: 1151
From: Transylvania
Registered: May 2012
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posted April 04, 2014 07:51 PM
Is this is a joke?If i act judgmental in a critical way (in a way that hurts others with my opinions) - be it a "judgmental belief" to which others react (as it goes against their moral standards) - should i play the victim card and act - as if i'm bullied for displaying such judgmental behaviour? For example, one could act racist with its believes - and say something like: "Black people should go back to Africa! It's not natural for them to be among us white people - mixing with our kind and produce impure half breeds. They were brought on our lands - to be slaves and they should have stayed that way - or go back to where they came from." So hey - if that's someone "belief", you shouldn't be allowed to disagree with his judgment or you'd be a bully. Cause based on your logic Barbiegirl19 - if that's his belief, that doesn't make him judgmental. I'm aware that you expect others to see you in a bright light - the way you chose to see yourself, but sometimes you behave like a monster - and people react to that behaviour (obviously). And when they show you the mirror - instinctively, you refuse to accept what you don't like about yourself and start playing the victim card in a manipulative way. You feel even more inclined to behave in such way - now that you have an ally who support you even when you feel like spreading hate. You were the one doing most of the bullying in the other tread - the others were trying to be more respectful in their opinions - even though, some were concern directly when it comes that subject - "since it was related to them".
My 2 cents. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 3554
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 07:55 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Barbie
You act obnoxious and then cry foul. I am telling it as it is, so you can learn, hopefully.
I have learned a lot since I came on LL and I have gained enough maturity where I can have my own website and deal with people attacking me and still retain my cool-95%% of the time.You can face yourself and learn or run away and blame other people. The choice is yours.
Who's crying here? Lol because it sure as hell isn't me. I'm not blaming anyone here. You and no here but DeepFreeze know me on any personal levels. Don't judge me. You don't know me. I'm keeping my cool. If I weren't believe you and every one on this website would know. Don't preach to me. Save it please. I maintain and can fight my battles. I'm "obnoxious" because I stand up for what I believe in and don't back down. Take your jealousy elsewhere. This wasn't about me. I didn't create the thread for myself and because everyone thinks it's about me I'm done with it. So go run and hide away again please Ami Anne. I don't need your teachings. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 3554
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 07:58 PM
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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
Is this is a joke?If i act judgmental in a critical way (in a way that hurts others with my opinions) - be it a "judgmental belief" to which others react (as it goes against their moral standards) - should i play the victim card and act - as if i'm bullied for displaying such judgmental behaviour? For example, one could act racist with its believes - and say something like: "Black people should go back to Africa! It's not natural for them to be among us white people - mixing with our kind and produce impure half breeds. They were brought on our lands - to be slaves and they should have stayed that way - or go back to where they came from." So hey - if that's someone "belief", you shouldn't be allowed to disagree with his judgment or you'd be a bully. Cause based on your logic Barbiegirl19 - if that's his belief, that doesn't make him judgmental. I'm aware that you expect others to see you in a bright light - the way you chose to see yourself, but sometimes you behave like a monster - and people react to that behaviour (obviously). And when they show you the mirror - instinctively, you refuse to accept what you don't like about yourself and start playing the victim card in a manipulative way. You feel even more inclined to behave in such way - now that you have an ally who support you even when you feel like spreading hate. You were the one doing most of the bullying in the other tread - the others were trying to be more respectful in their opinions - even though, some were concern directly when it comes that subject - "since it was related to them".
My 2 cents.
You and everyone else kept bringing me up so I stood up for myself and will until the day I die. Agree to disagree. If I'm such a monster then why am I still here? If I'm such a bad person why I am I still registered. I'm not a "monster", there are far more people on this forum who are a lot worse than I am. I hold my ground and stand up to those that wouldn't expect it. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53641
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 04, 2014 08:01 PM
You are obnoxious because you INSTIGATE. That is different than just saying your opinion. You can run away but this lesson will follow you until you face yourself. Take care
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Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 3554
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 08:02 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You are obnoxious because you INSTIGATE. That is different than just saying your opinion. You can run away but this lesson will follow you until you face yourself. Take care
What are you talking about? Again please don't preach to me. Fix yourself first. I'm not an infant or a toddler. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 1477
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 08:03 PM
1) If YOU all read into it that it was about her and the other thread... That's on you. YOU made that assumption - she didn't say it and I promise to that she's not bashful. If that's what it was she'd tell you flat out, not best around the bush. 2) since you want to make it about her and then call HER a bully. Why is she always attacked? Also she is always outnumbered. I have yet to see a bully pick on multiple people at the same time. 3) I suggest that you'll neither maker assumptions about her or attack her.
A the end of the day you look like idiots. If I was new here and saw how you guys are with her I'd think you were some buttholes. Honest. Look at yourselves IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 1477
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 08:05 PM
Look at this thread... Who instigated? lol Not barbiegirl19
She asked a question IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53641
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 04, 2014 08:06 PM
This is what I am talking about Barbie. You act obnoxious when you express a point of view. You act arrogant. You act dismissive of other people and "in their face".Then when people don't like it and act back in kind, you say they are bullying you. You are drawing this antagonism to you by how YOU act and then you cry foul. I am sure this pattern is throughout your life, so you can face it or think everyone else is a jerk.
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Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 3554
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 08:10 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
This is what I am talking about Barbie. You act obnoxious when you express a point of view. You act arrogant. You act dismissive of other people and "in their face".Then when people don't like it and act back in kind, you say they are bullying you. You are drawing this antagonism to you by how YOU act and then you cry foul. I am sure this pattern is throughout your life, so you can face it or think everyone else is a jerk.
You should be thanking me for taking the heat for YOU. I'm not at all arrogant. I can't help that I know myself, who am I and that you don't, do you? YOU don't know me so don't judge me. This shewolf isn't howling for your help. I'm a Cancer Mars you of all people know what that's like. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53641
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 04, 2014 08:14 PM
You didn't take any heat for me because I didn't get any heat. I expressed my personal point of view. I did not antagonize anyone. I did not act obnoxious. I have to say that it took me 6 years and lots of pain to learn to do this, though  ------------------
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DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 1477
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 08:18 PM
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Originally posted by birdy:
Ive seen you make fun of someone's age here awhile back you disagreed with. Ageism is bullying too.
And JO B used it against Barbie yesterday not to mention told her to F off. Venusian moon used it against me a couple days before that.
And much more...
Why don't you recognize that?
Where have the mods been? The JO B incident was in sweat peas of which Ami Ann is a mod of but she's too busy in here joining in than to be fair. It just proves that you all love to hate her.... For some stupid reason. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 3554
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 04, 2014 08:19 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You didn't take any heat for me because I didn't get any heat. I expressed my personal point of view. I did not antagonize anyone. I did not act obnoxious. I have to say that it took me 6 years and lots of pain to learn to do this, though
Uh did you not see Kero's response? Had I not commented it'd be you attacked and not me. I expressed my personal view and was ganged up on. I'm not obnoxious. There is difference between defending yourself(when constantly referenced) and being obnoxious and I always seem to have to defend myself and my "craaazay logic". You don't know what I've gone through personally so don't assume that you do. So why don't you take your own advice and Take Care IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53641
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 04, 2014 08:23 PM
No one attacks me, Barbie. If someone is a jerk, I ignore. Hence, there is no attack. It takes two to have a fight. If I don't fight, the person dangles in the wind  ------------------
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 53641
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 04, 2014 08:25 PM
Kero does not bother me, nor do most people. There are a few people who I let push my buttons and I attack back. I have not reached sainthood yet. What fun would I be if I were Saint Ami  ------------------
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