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Topic: Is it wrong?
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10034
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 12, 2014 11:43 PM
  
to keep something from someone you love?
I would feel really hurt if they were in my situation and did not tell me because I would feel as if I was not there for them...
So yes, I'm aware of that but sometimes you keep things from people you love because you want to protect them from it.Is that a noble excuse? cause I have this philosophy that **** happens and you just try as best as you can to move on and take it as other experience that will make you stronger!
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Sibyl
Knowflake Posts: 520
From: Uranus
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 13, 2014 06:04 AM
You shouldn't keep secrets. They will come back to bite you in the ass. IP: Logged |
CatMote
Knowflake Posts: 724
From: Fighting Neptune for his trident
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted April 13, 2014 09:02 AM
yeah, you SHOULDNT keep secrets...but this world isnt so idealistic.
this is a case by case basis kinda thing. if you feel you should keep the secret, keep the secret. sometimes knowledge isnt something that should always be spread. ignorance is bliss. ------------------
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Violets
Moderator Posts: 3204
From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted April 13, 2014 10:48 AM
I think it would depend on the situation...
Hope things are okay for you.Personally, I get really upset when people close to me don't tell me things. I don't want protection, I want things to be out in the open. So I suppose it also depends on the person you're keeping something from, as well as the situation. IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
Knowflake Posts: 1659
From: past, present, and future
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 13, 2014 02:33 PM
Its not a good idea, you should try to be upfront as possible, because some way or another they might find out eventually on their own or by accident. And then when that happens you have some pretty nifty explaining to do as to why you didn't tell them in the first place.IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
Moderator Posts: 2407
From: UNITED STATES, BABY
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 15, 2014 01:17 PM
^I just learned that from watching 90210!!  ------------------
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" Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present."
-Joan Rivers "Be who u r
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MsPrism
Knowflake Posts: 1448
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 16, 2014 03:53 AM
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rajji
Knowflake Posts: 1422
From:
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted April 16, 2014 04:00 AM
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MsPrism
Knowflake Posts: 1448
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 16, 2014 04:16 AM
It's not wrong but there isn't really a noble excuse either, I don't think.I would hate it if my partner kept a secret too. Not so much my family or any friends. Although, if the person just wasn't ready, I would be fine with "I will try to tell you but not now. I need more time." Then it would be fine, not great but I'd deal for them. And pain is a great teacher, sometimes we have hard lessons to learn and the only way we can learn them is through being vulnerable. Hell, most of the time it's when we're very vulnerable. So keeping it from someone you love may not be allowing them to grow from the experience they have with you. In the end, it's your choice. I love you, Kero. IP: Logged |
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