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Faith
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posted April 28, 2014 12:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sibyl:

I feel like threads on this forum constantly refer back to age-old dramas that I know nothing about and I find myself thinking that people should just get over it. Either get it out (the real issue) or leave dead dogs lie or whatever that saying is.

What happened? I wasn't even here yesterday.

'Wasn't me...

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Ami Anne
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posted April 28, 2014 12:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Put up your chart with ERis in it, S. I will put myself on the line here but I have a good track record

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posted April 28, 2014 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Put up your chart with ERis in it, S. I will put myself on the line here but I have a good track record


Oh well

I'll take this down later :-) No quotes please :-)

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posted April 28, 2014 01:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's kind of tiny. Didn't know what asteroids etc to add so I just did all of them B-) Hopefully you can still read it.

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posted April 28, 2014 01:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
What happened? I wasn't even here yesterday.

'Wasn't me...


I'm not referring to any specific event, Faith :-) More like the last month.

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posted April 28, 2014 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Eris sextile Sun--1 degree.

Sextile NN--exact.

Quincunx Pluto--1 degree.

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posted April 28, 2014 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sibyl:
I'm not referring to any specific event, Faith :-) More like the last month.

I wasn't here last month either, I was on sabbatical. Whew!

Honestly there is a lot of "bad blood" on this forum that doesn't get expressed. I mean, it could be much nastier, all things considered. I'm amazed that it's as mild as it is.

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posted April 28, 2014 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awesome, Ami. So you were right?

And what does that mean?

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posted April 28, 2014 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
I wasn't here last month either, I was on sabbatical. Whew!

Honestly there is a lot of "bad blood" on this forum that doesn't get expressed. I mean, it could be much nastier, all things considered. I'm amazed that it's as mild as it is.


Well, I wouldn't really know. Which I guess is part of the problem. I probably haven't been here for most of it, and so find it very confusing. Couple that with a memory not much better than what MoonWitch describes, and I really can't relate much. It's always hard for me when people bring up old arguments. No matter how incensed I was in the moment, chance is I have already forgotten.

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posted April 28, 2014 02:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Eris like to stir up trouble lol

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posted April 28, 2014 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Eris like to stir up trouble lol


I don't THINK SO I can take on this eris/xena thing any day! Hear my lion asc ROAR.

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posted April 28, 2014 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just being honest, you seem to like to provoke and then sit back and watch the trouble, which is classic ERis.

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posted April 28, 2014 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ Sibyl--
Hey, your Sun and North Node are conjunct my Mercury and DC! I figured as much. I always appreciate a positive Mercury flow with people.

Also, our ACs are conjunct. Nifty!

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posted April 28, 2014 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sibyl:
Which I guess is part of the problem. I probably haven't been here for most of it, and so find it very confusing.

It's one of the reasons I signed up for this forum and waited about a year, lurking, before I actually posted. I couldn't figure out the relationship dynamics amongst the regulars and didn't know where I would fit.

A few times, I've been annoyed that someone got snippy with a member who seemed to have nothing but good intentions. Not much later, I myself wanted to get snippy with that same person with the "good intentions."

Those of us who don't forget who's who...those of us who keep long memories...are of course going to operate differently than those of you who don't pay closer attention to the social dynamics.

I am about 90% polite, 10% b*tch. Not a terrible batting average.

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posted April 28, 2014 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Violets:
Leo ACs for the win!

Always!

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posted April 28, 2014 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Just being honest, you seem to like to provoke and then sit back and watch the trouble, which is classic ERis.



Hm... That's an interesting perspective. I have never been told that before though it makes me think. I like to challenge people, though I guess you could equally see it as provocation. I know I don't always express myself well. I can't really see myself disengaging though, but I will give the matter more thought.

Do you have any specific examples?

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posted April 28, 2014 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Actually, you don't disengage and sit back. I was thinking about that and realized you don't do that.
Eris likes to stir the pot and that seems to be my observation of you on here, S.

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posted April 28, 2014 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
Always!


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posted April 28, 2014 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
It's one of the reasons I signed up for this forum and waited about a year, lurking, before I actually posted. I couldn't figure out the relationship dynamics amongst the regulars and didn't know where I would fit.

A few times, I've been annoyed that someone got snippy with a member who seemed to have nothing but good intentions. Not much later, I myself wanted to get snippy with that same person with the "good intentions."

Those of us who don't forget who's who...those of us who keep long memories...are of course going to operate differently than those of you who don't pay closer attention to the social dynamics.

I am about 90% polite, 10% b*tch. Not a terrible batting average.


I see what you mean It would probably be smarter for me to do as you did, but that's just not me It would burn me up from the inside. I could not keep quiet I'm that annoying person everyone grew up with who always had to have an opinion and kept waiving their hand in class. Haha.

I was on here sporadically years ago (probably 2007-2009ish), but I'm ashamed to say I've forgotten every single person.

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posted April 28, 2014 02:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Violets:
@ Sibyl--
Hey, your Sun and North Node are conjunct my Mercury and DC! I figured as much. I always appreciate a positive Mercury flow with people.

Also, our ACs are conjunct. Nifty!



Really? That's great. And not surprising! I'm convinced we would have allot of fun if we met.

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posted April 28, 2014 02:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Actually, you don't disengage and sit back. I was thinking about that and realized you don't do that.
Eris likes to stir the pot and that seems to be my observation of you on here, S.

Yes, I can concede that. Thank you for pointing it out.

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posted April 28, 2014 02:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyway, I'm having people over in a sec, so if I suddenly disappear that's why

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posted April 28, 2014 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sibyl:

Really? That's great. And not surprising! I'm convinced we would have allot of fun if we met.

Same here!

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posted April 28, 2014 03:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks S. I am super impressed that you can face yourself. Bless you, my Friend.

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posted April 28, 2014 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If people are going to feud I would prefer that they do it right out in the open and not be sneaky about it. I was lucky in the sense that my two main forum enemies were open enemies and I'm even luckier that both of them have left the building. I havent really had any trouble or major conflicts with others since they left. They fueled alot of the conflicts I had with other people.

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