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Odette
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posted June 01, 2014 06:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's unfortunate... but... what can you do?

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Padre35
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posted June 01, 2014 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
edit, I shouldn't be posting at 4 AM lol but good luck with everything Padre!

Thanks! Was once told my anointing will take me farther then my talent will catch up to!

Though I'm not a wealthy man, I do somehow manage to be around the wealthy and hear lots of different things.

Wished what she said was different than what I've heard many many times before, sadly it is and was not all that different from what I've heard many many times before.

Still wounds me tho, even to this day

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posted June 01, 2014 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
It's unfortunate... but... what can you do?


Dammit Odette, do not feed my cynicism so effectively!

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posted June 09, 2014 10:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

So uhm, yeah, Dad came through with the cash..to drop 136k on a "cheap" house in her words, that needs 50-60k in repairs

Then she was shocked the seller's agent wanted her to sign a buyer's agent contract that basically chiseled her agent out of her share of the commission.

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posted June 09, 2014 10:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So her realtor didn't get a commission?

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posted June 11, 2014 07:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No commission?

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posted June 11, 2014 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
So her realtor didn't get a commission?

The seller's agent was attempting to suborn one agent out of the share of the commission.

That did not happen in the end.

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posted June 14, 2014 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah, so the attempt failed?

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posted June 22, 2014 12:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ah, so the attempt failed?


Apparently, me and Ms Narcissism have hit a crossroads, to be blunt, am and are and is tired of her ****

The results will be inevitable, ppl who know me and know my chart know exactly what will happen..Mr Scorpio, when he finds someone tiresome and there is no value there, via condios muchacha

That effite snob can start stepping forthwith and post haste, she offended me and my values, GTFO..like now

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posted June 22, 2014 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm Proud of You.

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posted June 22, 2014 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
I'm Proud of You.


Please do not be, for myself I've far went away from the "she's hawt!" and began looking at the person herself

That is one of the things about being a Scorpittaruius, optimism v cynicism v decisiveness

One thing I have learned, when the Word comes down, that is how it is

Stil love her, and would open a vein at need, she is not for me

Another thing I've learned is it does not matter how physically beautiful she may be, if she is a trainwreck..move on

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posted June 22, 2014 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's why it's good to take things slow.

Then you really get to know the person.

There are far too many unhappy people in the world, and it goes beyond yourself and the couple.

Much more is involved with time.

Just good to be Sure.

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posted June 22, 2014 01:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
That's why it's good to take things slow.

Then you really get to know the person.

There are far too many unhappy people in the world, and it goes beyond yourself and the couple.

Much more is involved with time.

Just good to be Sure.


Funny thing is, it is not like she does not have a list of men throwing their dumb ***** at her

It is more her slanders, accusation and otherwise self centerdness that really puts me off, she can weigh 105 pds and work out like a maniac..there ain't no beauty there

It has taken all of my control to be gentle towards her..I try to focus on her good qualities..**** that, have had enough

Nope, not me, shake the dust off of ones shoes and move on

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posted June 22, 2014 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In the end, only you can answer that.

It doesn't matter who else is involved, in the end it comes down to the two of you.

Is this what you Truly want?


As John Lodge says

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Through all that life can give to you
Only true love will see you through
And will stand beside you now in what you say


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posted June 22, 2014 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ellynlvx     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn is your Friend.

Is that Mortar Strong?

(We have Earthquakes.)

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posted June 22, 2014 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Saturn is your Friend.

Is that Mortar Strong?

(We have Earthquakes.)


Not so much Elly, for me I look for loyalty and a sort of simpatico, there is none there to be found

I would happily bleed or donate a kidney for those I love, she is not one of them.

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posted June 26, 2014 09:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted June 26, 2014 10:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Aw geez..here is what happened

Went to market some Ecigs the connection was not there, the one provided by Ms Taurus.

Walked like 5 miles uptown

Meanwhile, Ms Taurus was being hit on hard by a realator, then had a moment of..clarity..then got drunk..then was ****** at me..then slapped a "friend" who of course came back for more of the same.

I know her nature, relentless self focus, afraid to be alone, no one is good enough for her.

Mr Padre..does not play that crap..ever.however, being the sort of good listener/challenger of her pov, she can neither love me, nor whatever


If my fellow LLanders want to read more just chime in

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posted June 26, 2014 11:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like to hear more....why are you putting up with this?

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posted June 27, 2014 12:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 27, 2014 12:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:
In what sense Bella?

It is not as if I'm a desert of female attention, quite the opposite, perhaps to much of it.

My compassion leads me astray BF


There just seems to be big differences in value systems between the two (at least what I've read on here). You are very patient with her considering all the off putting characteristics she has displayed.

Then again I don't really know what exactly the situation you two have right now. Are you together still or moved on?

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posted June 27, 2014 12:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
There just seems to be big differences in value systems between the two (at least what I've read on here). You are very patient with her considering all the off putting characteristics she has displayed.

Then again I don't really know what exactly the situation you two have right now. Are you together still or moved on?


Then again Bella, if I claim to be a Christian, then jettison someone when we disagree, thus "Padre" does that make me a liar or a hippocrite, or both?

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posted June 27, 2014 12:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

To the question at hand, picture yourself of living a life frugality, and intense physical pain via self choice working out

Nice front pocket full o'cash and your only desire ie "entertainment" is to have dinner parties in a place that ppl will respect you

When in your own mind, you come from a "slum"

Then one realizes, one would be alone, so all of that in the end means nothing if one is alone..meanwhile the very thinking that brought that pocket full o' cash has now absolutely kicked any thought out of one's life of...Love

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posted June 27, 2014 06:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sibyl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Then one realizes, one would be alone, so all of that in the end means nothing if one is alone..meanwhile the very thinking that brought that pocket full o' cash has now absolutely kicked any thought out of one's life of...Love

To be quite honest, I sometimes worry this is going to be me.

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posted June 27, 2014 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sibyl:
To be quite honest, I sometimes worry this is going to be me.

Really depends Sibyl, women can have this sort of tunnel vision that just excludes love or even relationships b/c they are soo focused.

Relationships are traded in for the short term validation of hookups

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