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posted February 24, 2015 10:26 PM            

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My mother, when drunk, told my sister to just be calm, and that would show me up. I wasn't going to share anything like this anymore, but it's been all over here for the past few years - it isn't anything new. I remember wondering why she'd eased up, and it ended up blowing up in their faces, because I was *fine* when I wasn't being picked on. I found out about their little plan, the night she finally blew up at me, for some reason.

I couldn't help but react - I was dealing with it every day and night, except for the odd few weeks (two or three times) when she went North to be with her now-husband. But I was punished for my reactions - just as I've been with reactions online, too, to crap going on. I do prefer when I'm feeling calm enough to not react - I used to be much better at letting things go, but that also can send the idea that you will put up with anything, and I won't.

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From: Female bird from France
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posted February 25, 2015 03:06 PM            

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Usually when someone finds pleasure in remembering people's 'meaningless' mistakes. It's because the dude or the gal in question has little confidence, so, by bashing other people about stupid things "helps" them to feel a bit 'better' than tehir classmates or workmates. That's very typical actually and very human (also lame).
I can't understand why would someone with enough self-esteem would need to bash others to boost his/her own ego.

I can be rude too, I guess
But the reason for that would never be something very stupid and mundane (also simple) like critizing and whining about meaningless stuff.

Actually, I would be the worst boss ever, if someone would be late at work... I would barely say something about it ( oh my gosh, I can't believe I'm telling this )

- Maybe because I like to sleep, a lot

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From: Female bird from France
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posted February 25, 2015 03:08 PM            

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Well ... actually I think I'm rude in EVEN MORE meaningless contexts

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From: Saturn next to Charmaine
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posted March 04, 2015 09:15 PM            

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Rude people suck.

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posted March 04, 2015 09:42 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:

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I posted something similar on another site. And I did walk away.

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posted March 04, 2015 09:55 PM            

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