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Topic: When manipulation doesn't stop
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DaniPepper87
Moderator Posts: 3631
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 08, 2015 08:01 AM
  
I know the feeling. Grandma was like that, and now I have my mom in the same way... I told her that a good friend is pregnant, and her hubby posted a pic on Facebook with her... My mom said: just don't be there to make another baby for him. That hurt me a lot, my mom is calling me a ***** !!! Not for the first nor for the last time....IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 61226
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 08, 2015 08:14 AM
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DaniPepper87
Moderator Posts: 3631
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 08, 2015 08:28 AM
Ami, I can't bear this anymore... And that got worst after my grandma's passed away. I do everything shw wants (almost everything, I do have my responsabilities too). I'm worry with daddy, he can't be nervous and this situation can even kill him!!  IP: Logged |
Charmaine
Moderator Posts: 354
From: Venus Next To Randall
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted April 08, 2015 11:37 AM
Sorry to hear, Dani.  I don't think my sis has borderline personality disorder but I'm not a professional to judge but! If you start physically hurting people or try to poison them because you see them as a threat then that is more than borderline. That's all I have to say.. IP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 6788
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 08, 2015 03:44 PM
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Originally posted by Charmaine:
Sorry to hear, Dani. I don't think my sis has borderline personality disorder but I'm not a professional to judge but! If you start physically hurting people or try to poison them because you see them as a threat then that is more than borderline. That's all I have to say..
Physically hurt, and poison? No way.
My sister physically hurt me, and she did her best to poison me emotionally and mentally. She stole a lot from me, and really, from my whole family, too... but I was the one punished for it. If you mean poison in that way, then yes - I've dealt with it, but not done it. IP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 6788
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 08, 2015 05:00 PM
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Originally posted by Charmaine:
She's not scared. She's selfish, manipulating and twisted. You won't understand unless you're in such a situation with such a person.
I missed this before. I WAS in situation with such a person. My sister. And I was accused of this, because she was happy, getting married, and supposedly not in need of therapy. My Dad witnessed what she was doing, behind everyone else's back. She would quickly stop when she noticed Dad was there. When he wasn't? I was fair game, and since mum was drunk a lot of the time, she got away with it. Still, she DOES sound scared. If I didn't relish my privacy elsewhere, I would point you in the direction of recent posts of a woman I know on another board, where she explains what it's like to be in a certain head space.
I do wonder if something about the pregnancy triggered something from the past. I can tell you how it feels to be accused of things that aren't true - I was responding to what was happening to me, and she drove me crazy. I DO understand. I also understand that she was scared of something, and she took it out on me. I had to be punished, for something that she assumed. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 61226
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 08, 2015 08:45 PM
Dani I understand a horrible home life. For me, the worst part was no one would confirm my reality. If one person would have told me that my mother had problems and it was not me, I would have been OK. For you, the pain of it shows in the charts and the charts will ALWAYS play out imo I get help from studying my mother's chart. It is like she didn't really have a chance. Did I ever look at your mother's chart alone. Post it in Beginners if you want. You are not alone. Even if we are just online. I am here and many others on LL love you and care for you  ------------------
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