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Topic: This so called "friend" with a big mouth
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MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1403
From: Dreaming of you
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 20, 2015 03:27 PM
  
This man is so moody, it's insane.This morning, he was in the same elevator I was in, along with another guy and some girl I work with. Apparently something went down between them yesterday because the guy apologized to him in front of us (in the elevator) and the guy I have a crush on literally ignored him the entire time. The guy was like: "I'm really sorry man .. blah blah". He just ignored him. That was embarrassing. Then, he saw me at lunch and he didn't even say hi. He starred at me, I smiled at him, then he looked away. Then, he sat to have lunch alone (which never ever happens, he's a Leo, c'mon) outside. This is petty drama. I understand he's moody, but there's no point in ignoring someone who isn't involved in this drama IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 3372
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 20, 2015 06:31 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You get smart when you have been betrayed or maybe you are just smart, in general 
I learned this lesson in middle school. A friend thought it was okay to tell a group of people I liked this guy, including his new girlfriend. WTH And ever since then, never again. If people know the guy I have a crush on I keep it to myself. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted April 20, 2015 06:50 PM
Why not tell the person directly?
That would solve this problem. IP: Logged |
Odette
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Registered: May 2012
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posted April 20, 2015 07:26 PM
Oh! Well dw you'll have no problems with him if he's a Leo  Leos are very romantic at heart and they react well to confessions of love lol So if he hears about you liking him, he will like you all the more!Being moody sounds like Cancer in his chart... I'm sure he was just having a bad day and all will be fine
You are overthinking it! IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted April 20, 2015 08:01 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Oh! Well dw you'll have no problems with him if he's a Leo Leos are very romantic at heart and they react well to confessions of love lol So if he hears about you liking him, he will like you all the more!Being moody sounds like Cancer in his chart... I'm sure he was just having a bad day and all will be fine
You are overthinking it!
True!
Be flirty. He'll love it! IP: Logged |
Odette
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Registered: May 2012
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posted April 20, 2015 08:12 PM
MineAgain - I just realised I replied to your other thread on Leo/Scorpio in Soul Unions. Sorry! For some reason I had it in my mind that it was a different poster. My Pisces Mercury is to blame hahaAnyway... About Leos.... Leo is associated with the 5th house of fun, dating, romance and good times - Some would say romance is as natural as breathing to Leo. So they are usually very likeable to the opposite sex and most women don't have issues with them. However - since you are a Scorpio and the signs are square - you can feel a disconnect where you guys are not always on the same page. You said you acted cold towards him most of the time. I don't think that's a good idea. You should try being more open and friendly. If you put up a wall, Leo will feel rejected. They won't look past the wall to understand all your emotional baggage and your reasons for being guarded as a water sign might.
They will simply feel like you are shutting them out and are not interested. It's possible that they would still chase because sometimes fire sign men have a strong desire to prove themselves. But once you are in this ballpark.. you are more like "just another challenge", rather than a woman he could truly love and connect with.
In my experience Leos fall in love with women who care about them - and who show them that they care. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted April 20, 2015 08:12 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
True!
Be flirty. He'll love it!
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MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1403
From: Dreaming of you
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 20, 2015 11:53 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Oh! Well dw you'll have no problems with him if he's a Leo Leos are very romantic at heart and they react well to confessions of love lol So if he hears about you liking him, he will like you all the more!Being moody sounds like Cancer in his chart... I'm sure he was just having a bad day and all will be fine
You are overthinking it!
Yeah, he's got Cancer Venus. He takes things way too personally sometimes. My ex had a Cancer Moon and he acted the same. These folks can pout for days. IP: Logged |
MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1403
From: Dreaming of you
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted May 04, 2015 03:31 PM
Update: She really messed up on the day I wrote this thread. He's been ignoring her and I ever since. He only talked to me once two days after this episode, but he's been avoiding me like the pleague since. He doesn't even look at me anymore. When I look at him to say "hi", he doesn't even reply. Well ... IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1319
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 09, 2015 05:32 AM
MA!Sorry to derail the thread, but I just wanted to ask you how things went with my recommendation on Fiverr. I hope she gave you some clarity/peace xxx IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted May 09, 2015 09:48 PM
I doubt that he is avoiding you over whatever she said that day.I mean - how old is he?
If he is genuinely avoiding you over this, then he is still in HS mindset.
I just can't imagine (I am 29 years old)... being at work... and having my co-workers behave this way.
To be honest, I would sit both of them down (your "friend" and him) - and tell them they are behaving like complete idiots, and they are making me extremely uncomfortable at work.
I'm not even joking ^. This is what I would do lol But - let's not jump to conclusions! You said earlier, that he was generally in a bad mood and completely avoided someone else in the lift, and had lunch alone.
So maybe he has his own problems, not connected to you.
Is he friendly and normal towards others? IP: Logged |
MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1403
From: Dreaming of you
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted May 10, 2015 06:03 AM
I think he was probably having a bad day/week. She told me he doesn't say "hi" to her anymore and blatantly ignores her. However, I bumped into him a couple of times and he's always smiling at me and always says "hi". She is immature for her age (25). He's only 21 so it makes more sense. She's the problem, not him. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 13, 2015 02:30 PM
Glad you came to some resolution on it, My Friend.------------------
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MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1403
From: Dreaming of you
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted May 14, 2015 11:10 AM
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Originally posted by ikja:
MA!Sorry to derail the thread, but I just wanted to ask you how things went with my recommendation on Fiverr. I hope she gave you some clarity/peace xxx
Hi Ikja! Thank you very much for sending me the link to this "psychic". However, I ended up not talking to her because events in my life happened such as I sort of forgot about the man I had been pinning over. I sort of found peace gradually to the point where I feel I no longer need to talk about him. Thank you for telling me about her though, I will definitely talk to her if need be!
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MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1403
From: Dreaming of you
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted May 18, 2015 02:13 PM
This has less to do with the friend situation, but I need some "spiritual" insight ...Something really eerie happened today.
Either I'm a really good psychic or there is much more to this than just a mere attraction. Yesterday, I found myself thinking about how I've never seen him wear yellow/mustard pants to work (he's very much into bright colored pants). Today, he showed up wearing mustard pants! Furthermore, I was very dark thoughts on my way to work this morning. For some reason, I kept thinking about him having an accident/motorcycle dysfunction on his way to work. Well, when I checked FB at lunch time, he had just posted a picture of his damaged motorcycle! He damaged it on his way to work this morning. It was so damaged that he wasn't able to ride it home this evening! Is this odd? I've never had this happen with anyone, except my Pisces "ex". I can never tell what's going on with my friends no matter how hard I try, yet with him (just like with Pisces), it happened sort of "organically". I'm either very insane or there's something there?! IP: Logged |
MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 1403
From: Dreaming of you
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted May 20, 2015 01:49 PM
Can someone please close this thread?He quit his internship early, this story is no longer. Thanks! IP: Logged |
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