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Topic: "Can Narcissists Change?"
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 61771
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 22, 2015 12:10 PM
  
It is not personal, Barbie. Please, stay on topic. Personal attacks are not needed. If you don't like someone, it should not be brought on the Forum. Thank you so much! ------------------
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Odette
Moderator Posts: 5262
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Registered: May 2012
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posted April 22, 2015 12:20 PM
Sigh
If I was in either of your shoes I would just ignore and stir clear of the other's threads (and posts, in general) - for at least a while, until things cool down. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Moderator Posts: 5594
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 22, 2015 12:23 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Sigh
If I was in either of your shoes I would just ignore and stir clear of the other's threads - for at least a while, until things cool down.
I've done just that and aren't shown the same respect. This is ridiculous. I don't go following her around but apparently she's that infatuated that she can't help herself. This is exactly why I don't post anything here. My LL days in general are slowly receding. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 61771
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 22, 2015 12:28 PM
I try to ignore when people make these veiled comments like I am a Narc, which is what she is saying and trying to laugh at the "joke"
I do try to ignore but it is really not right, so I bring facts to it and she can't keep up with the facts, so she throws more mud.
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BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 2799
From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 22, 2015 12:29 PM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I've done just that and aren't shown the same respect. This is ridiculous. I don't go following her around but apparently she's that infatuated that she can't help herself. This is exactly why I don't post anything here. My LL days in general are slowly receding.
I'll be back later with some more NPD stuff but if you want to close the thread I completely understand. The other option: make a thread in HH, last time I checked we can tell people not to post in the thread .  You shouldn't have to do that, but there is another option in case you want to talk more about it without being harassed. Ami: what about the Aqua Sun female comments? The jab at me in your book thread? Blue hearts don't make you innocent- you start with people all the time. Barbie does NOT have to justify herself here, she has said on several occasions she is interested in psychology and described her aunts experiences as well. IP: Logged |
Odette
Moderator Posts: 5262
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Registered: May 2012
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posted April 22, 2015 12:31 PM
I didn't want to get involved but it's upsetting to see this time and time again. I know that you each feel like the other person is the cause of the problems between you. But I have to be honest - from an outside perspective (at least from my perspective) - it seems like you are both contributing to the general negative vibe between you - with antagonism going back and forth. It doesn't matter who started it. I understand that when you feel like another person was a jerk, and they "started it" - you also feel like nothing else is your fault. But the thing is - these threads wouldn't spiral if you didn't both contribute to the "argument" (the passive-aggressive argument) - again and again. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 61771
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 22, 2015 12:35 PM
But the thing is - these threads wouldn't spiral if you didn't both contribute to the "argument" (the passive-aggressive argument) - again and again. That is true, Odette. ------------------
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Barbiegirl19
Moderator Posts: 5594
From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 22, 2015 12:37 PM
See, typical narcissistic behavior thinking that the world revolves around you. You are not my God. I don't sit around obsessing or thinking about you, Ami. This topic was never once made for you. It's unfortunate that you're that cruel and do such things but I don't. I'm not you. This subject is one that I'm deeply interested in and look forward to learning deeply in school. I was very interested in hearing what others had to say about it and as soon one of your groupies commented at a post you were right there derailing it, ruining it. I've ignored every thread that you've made since that Libra Moon thread and since then you've done nothing but antagonize me with your passive aggressive behavior. It ends now. I will continue to ignore you and would appreciate the same in return. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 61771
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 22, 2015 12:42 PM
BarbieI tried to be your friend and then I wrote the Libra Moon article and you turned on me like a vicious dog. I think people can disagree and still be friends but that is not how you see it, so I learned a lesson and I got wiser about being friends with people. It would be nice if you didn't keep trying to snipe at me because I don;t to you. I moved on because what happened, happened. Why keep trying to make jabs at me. If you don't like me, why do you have to go out of your way to be nasty for no reason? ------------------
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