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posted December 23, 2015 07:18 PM            

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I haven't been here for awhile because I'm going through some really harsh stuff..Worse than two years ago..Jupiter in virgo hasn't helped me at all..I hope to check in from time to time..It's really bad for me now.

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posted December 24, 2015 01:49 PM            

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Sending you heaps of positive Energy.

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posted December 25, 2015 09:06 AM            

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Be well.

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posted December 26, 2015 05:42 PM            

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I hope things will get better and we'll hear from you soon

I haven't visited here for a long time myself...

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posted December 26, 2015 06:48 PM            

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Will keep you in my thoughts.

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posted December 27, 2015 05:50 PM            

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Keep us updated.

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posted December 28, 2015 12:14 AM            

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Dee, I hope everything improves soon.

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posted December 29, 2015 10:46 AM            

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I need help bad..

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posted December 29, 2015 02:17 PM            

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What's wrong?

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posted December 29, 2015 03:05 PM            

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First off excuse the upcoming block of text I'm typing on a tablet..I had to go on disability. I have degenerative disk disease and arthritis in my hips.I need a hip replacement but I am putting off the surgery getting nerve block injections..My situation with my husband got worse.He crashed my car and I only had basic insurance which paid for the other car not mine mine was totaled..He got another vehicle but refuses to let me use it..He has the only key parks it where I can't get to it and there's nothing legally I can do..there's more

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posted December 29, 2015 03:11 PM            

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I have been away from this site mainly due to my health issues.the car issue happened last Tuesday..I haven't been out of the house since.I live in a very rural area. Meanwhile he found a girlfriend in town,a twenty something single mother with three kids.He moved some of his things over there..He didn't give our daughter a Christmas present and she told me he returned mine..He hasn't talked to either one of us in a week..He actually walked in here Christmas eve with a bag of food walked by us and took it upstairs for himself..there's still more

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posted December 29, 2015 03:18 PM            

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I have been calling the police the women's shelter and everyone no one can help.He's filing for divorce which is fine,but meanwhile were stuck here and he's not paying the bills.It's freezing outside we got another snowstorm today.I'm running out of heating oil.the internet will be off soon and so will the electric.the other night he came down and cut all the plastic off the Windows and some of the Windows only have screens.I have called everyone for help

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posted December 29, 2015 03:22 PM            

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I called everyone there is no help.I called sis,it will take two months for my payments to go up..I just want to be able to take my daughter pets and myself and leave the state..but I have no one to help us as he has kept us isolated these years.I'm going to have a nervous breakdown over this

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posted December 29, 2015 03:41 PM            

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I even willing to leave all the furniture and just take boxes of our stuff myself Daughter and pets and find something furnished that take pets..But I have no vehicle,no way to get out.And it's freezing in here.

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posted December 29, 2015 03:41 PM            

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I even willing to leave all the furniture and just take boxes of our stuff myself Daughter and pets and find something furnished that take pets..But I have no vehicle,no way to get out.And it's freezing in here.

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posted December 29, 2015 04:52 PM            

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Randall can you move this to another forum

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posted December 29, 2015 08:42 PM            

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Dee, how is it they won't accept you in the shelter? And don't you have any family besides your sister? There must be a solution. Perhaps someone from here can help?

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posted December 30, 2015 02:09 AM            

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Ayelet,i don't know why the shelter can't help.we had to go two years ago they only let us stay two weeks. They told us we had to leave because they were repainting the rooms.then told us to go home it's better to work things out at home....I don't have a sister it's me and my Daughter

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posted December 30, 2015 03:00 AM            

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I know where the sister confusion came from..when i Said i was getting ssi disability it came out sis..I'm typing on a tablet and sometimes it changes the spelling of the words.

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posted December 30, 2015 03:50 AM            

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After calling everyone yet again for help I was again told to call the police. Someone told me it's entrapment..Being he won't give me access to the vehicle..I walk with a cane due to my physical condition and the driveway and whole outside is filled with ice and snow I can't get out..Being he was home today all the police did was come and talk to him.I knew it would be useless nothing changed .

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posted December 30, 2015 11:34 AM            

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Moving to Sweet Peas.

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posted December 30, 2015 11:59 AM            

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Thank you Randall.

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posted December 30, 2015 12:57 PM            

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Wishing you all the best Dee X

Keep your head up

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posted December 30, 2015 01:22 PM            

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Suppose you could get out, can you support yourself and your daughter? Could you take a cab, perhaps, and go with her to some inn until things worked out? I am very surprised about the police, the shelter also is useless... Perhaps going to a shelter in another town/city? You may get help from someone outside to get out, maybe from movers or a cab driver? I don't know, I am just trying to think of a possible solution, even temporary. You may talk to the police again, even though they let you down. Tell them the situation haven't changed and you are trapped. Or if you can get help from someone outside to get you and your daughter out of there... isn't there any social workers' service that might help?

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posted December 30, 2015 02:13 PM            

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The police called today to check on me..They want to know exactly why I need to get out..Do I want to go to the store? Where do I need to go? Questions like this.I'm not dealing with the police anymore here...The shelter is one umbrella group that runs the whole northern part of the state I live in...I ha e thought of taking cabs and going to a motel but that would put me in a position of backsliding on any forward movement....thank you Ayelet for taking an interest

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