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Odette
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posted January 15, 2016 08:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 15, 2016 08:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 15, 2016 11:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are very sweet, and I'm kind of feeling annoyed on your behalf. And on my own, if this guy is messing with you.

Is this the same guy you mentioned a month or two ago?

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posted January 16, 2016 05:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol!!! Thank you Teasel

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posted January 16, 2016 07:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

The Merc/Pluto is a really nice connection--deep, understanding between the minds, deep intuitive understanding of each other

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posted January 16, 2016 08:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His being so insecure may be his Chiron/SN. This could be a kind of deep pain. How sure are you of the time of birth for him? If you are pretty sure, this is in the House of career and the House of his father, so he may have deep insecurity there. The insecurity is more like "breathing" to him than something he is more aware of, in his conscious mind, I think.

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posted January 16, 2016 08:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here is his issue. His Moon is o degrees Pisces--super sensitive. This does not have to be a bad thing but you have to understand how he operates. He is like a fine race horse. He will take things much more to heart than another moon sign. They can't help it. It is their make up

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posted January 16, 2016 08:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is, also, his issue. His head and his heart WAR. So, if he feels hurt/insecure, he takes it very much to heart and then kind of gets locked in about how to act. He kind of gets stuck inside himself and may act weird, as you are relating. You may take it as manipulation, but it may be kind of his free falling into insecurity.

In time, you and he COULD come to understandings of the "signals" of the other.

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posted January 16, 2016 08:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Having said that about him and I took a very brief look at his chart, due to trying to baby my wrist, I don't think this synastry will go anyplace.

His Sun is Unaspected to your chart.

Your Moon makes few aspects to his.

I have seen clients with these aspects and the relationships are FRUSTRATING and very sad, in that the people cannot seem to find simpatico, no matter how hard they try.

Also, the very strong Saturn conjunction may make for feeling like a prison, in time.

I know you are a very free spirit and would not like to be controlled, feeling like you were living in a vise, feeling parented or parenting someone.

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posted January 16, 2016 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just coming back to look a bit more. He is very sexy but he has a lot going on with his Mars, so how he goes after things may be kind of whacky/disjointed and you may be feeling that.

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His Chiron/SN squares your NN and it looks close. this is a pivotal/hot point for him. I think this one aspect could ruin the relationship.

Your NN is your THRUST in life. You have a lot of drive, get up and go etc.

His pain would be thwarting you.

Chiron hurts badly and I hate it near the NN.

Also, his NN is Unaspected to your chart, so you will never understand his purpose/thrust in his own life.

I cannot see this relationship going any place serious

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posted January 16, 2016 05:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Ami! That helps me put things in perspective. I really appreciate it

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posted January 16, 2016 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll remember the good things and move right along!

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posted January 16, 2016 05:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The other thing about fate is that you have Karma conj mercury. Mercury is a mind planet, not a sexual one, relationship one etc and it seemed as if this played out lol

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posted January 16, 2016 11:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 17, 2016 03:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 17, 2016 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 18, 2016 04:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 18, 2016 06:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a similar kind of weird thing with a woman. We had Venus square Saturn (I was Venus) and mars conjunct Saturn. (I was Saturn).
Long story short, we still cross paths once in a while when we can't avoid. We don't even make eye contact.
It's nearly 4 years ago that this happened. There wasn't even a relationship, sex, or any intimacy. I think we both felt it was more but never said so.

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posted January 18, 2016 08:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Odette

I think you can have a relationship with him, now that you know the basic outline of it, in your own mind.

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posted January 18, 2016 09:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think that's true Ami... I think this can work out between us, as long as we don't get romantically involved...

DopGang - Why is it you can't make eye contact at all? Did something negative happen between you? Or you weren't very close?
^ You don't have to answer if it's too personal.

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posted January 19, 2016 06:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL
That's cute.

Yes, it's complicated. She gave mixed signals. Finally one day when she essentially used her brother-in-law to relay a message to me, I thought, "I can't deal with people like this".
It seemed sneaky and dishonest. (Relaying things through others) So I was not very nice at all.

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posted January 20, 2016 06:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I admire your patience and understanding. I admit, I'm a little too harsh and demanding.

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