posted November 16, 2023 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
From an astrology perspective
I have 11th house Sun w/ good and bad aspects. I've had all time highs and lows in this department.
I also have 3 things in Aquarius (sun, n. node, MC)
Very Uranian dominant (along w/ pluto and mars in my big 3)

Plus through most of my 20's Uranus was transiting my 11th house. And recently Neptune has started transiting my 11th house in my 30's.

I need a lot of freedom in my friendships. I can have a few very good friends that I consider like a best friend. But if somebody wants to do the whole salt and pepper, pb and j, constant contact I will run.
I need people who respect that I have a family, fiancé, work life, other friends, errands, appointments, a spiritual life, and I need to spend time with just myself too. I love when I can go a long time with out seeing someone and we can pick up where we left off.

I am kind of getting my social groove back. After a rough couple of years as a new teacher and college work. Plus that one girl blowing up my phone so much! It was draining!
I will sometimes tell my fiancé "I kind of feel bad for not inviting them to the wedding." then fiancé will say "no you don't" and then I'll laugh.
Stawr:"I kind of just don't want to hang out with them anymore I feel bad saying that.
Fiance: No you don't

Tomorrow I am seeing my friend I haven't socialized with in 6 years.

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posted November 16, 2023 04:41 PM            

I’m please to say that my lifetime of people-watching continues to pay dividends. 😁

Thanks to FB, I have friends from 2 of the 3 primary schools I attended. I also have friends from 2 out of the 2 secondary schools I attended. Many still remember that “miraculous” year with me.

Due to distance, I haven’t seen some in decades. I like everyone better as adults. We have a lot more to talk about now, decades on.

I have friends from uni as well, which also was decades ago. Generally, people don’t expect to see me in person unless they live in my neighbourhood. Friends allow me to get on with my own life. Thanks to technology, we can stay in touch very easily. 😁

posted November 16, 2023 04:43 PM            

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Originally posted by StrangeCat:
I had no real friends up to the age of 15.5 years, when my P/SA Sun ticked over into Leo and was within orb of my MC. That was a miraculous year for me - always the NKOTB, I had been bullied all year long. I was probably written off by the whole class of 50 kids when I took part in an “open to public” musical, where I had the lead and most scenes because no one else wanted to subjugate their ego to being directed by everybody!

I’m please to say that my lifetime of people-watching continues to pay dividends. 😁

Thanks to FB, I have friends from 2 of the 3 primary schools I attended. I also have friends from 2 out of the 2 secondary schools I attended. Many still remember that “miraculous” year with me.

Due to distance, I haven’t seen some in decades. I like everyone better as adults. We have a lot more to talk about now, decades on.

I have friends from uni as well, which also was decades ago. Generally, people don’t expect to see me in person unless they live in my neighbourhood. Friends allow me to get on with my own life. Thanks to technology, we can stay in touch very easily. 😁

Since my SA Moon (me, women, home, emotions) moved into Libra, I’ve attracted many Scorpios and Pisces. You’d think I’d attract many Librans but no, in typical Libran fashion, I’m attracting people that “harmonise” with my natal chart. Food for thought.

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posted November 19, 2023 04:47 PM            

Many of my youthful friendships have endured in whatever fashion because meeting is not a prerequisite of endurance.

I draw the line at online romances though. Even if I were available, these would not appeal to me.

I had a stalker for years who was convinced that the more he persisted with eavesdropping on my conversations, rifling through my mail and sieving through my files on phone, the closer we got. His continued presence first irked me, then highly distressed me (it made me consider suicide just to permanently get rid of him), then annoyed the hell out of me. In the end, I simply turned away.

posted December 16, 2023 09:45 PM            

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Originally posted by StrangeCat:
You sound a lot like me and I have Uranus conjunct AC aspecting all inner planets except Venus. 🤓

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That is so interesting, haha Uranus on your rising is very fitting with your username!

posted February 04, 2024 01:08 PM            

We have Jupiter (me) conjunct Sun (her) in Cancer.