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Topic: Rage Turning Into Depression
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 06, 2021 08:42 AM
  
I have really tried to become emotionally healthier. I am trying to accept my feelings, rather than labeling them "bad" and me bad.So, today someone was a jerk and I felt rage. Then, I got scared and felt depression. Wow, I really saw how they went together. I would love to hear the experiences of others! ------------------
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Graham
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posted March 06, 2021 10:55 AM
Modern life is overflowing with jerks ... some residing in wankerty wankerton, and some insisting that it is a mistake to fuel the delusions of those from wankerty wankerton.However, there will always be those who are kind-hearted enough to find a humanitarian way of dealing with whatever type of jerk they have the misfortune to encounter. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted March 06, 2021 11:03 AM
But we have to face, or speaking for myself, I can be a big jerk too  ------------------
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Graham
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posted March 06, 2021 12:24 PM
Face what though?The fact that this is a forum on which someone from wankerty wankerton is a moderator? ... That threads get moved without Moderator's ensuring that the OP understands why? ... That members who never listen to anyone open threads complaining about others not listening to them. ... That it is ok for members to abuse other members? ... That Al Capone was just a victim of a difficult childhood/adolescence? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 06, 2021 12:34 PM
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Graham
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posted March 06, 2021 12:54 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
If person rubs you wrong, the best thing to do is not to engage them. Want to Read Simple, Fun,[b]Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE.
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Is that not the point though ... Nobody knows what an angry person is talking about if he/she has been obliged to internalise his/her anger until it either creates depression or is released via an irrational outburst that "nice" people/polite-society find disturbing? [You have changed the comment in the post I was responding to here. ... Originally, your comment was that you did not know what or whom I was talking about.] IP: Logged |
Graham
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posted March 06, 2021 12:57 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
If person rubs you wrong, the best thing to do is not to engage them. Want to Read Simple, Fun,[b]Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE.
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No. No. No. ... That is the equivalent of allowing no-go areas in a civilised society, and a cop out for the authorities whose role is to ensure that there are not any areas where people dare not go. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted March 06, 2021 01:13 PM
So, an authority has to follow you around and make everyone treat you the way you want to be treated. Good luck with that ------------------
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Graham
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posted March 06, 2021 01:31 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
So, an authority has to follow you around and make everyone treat you the way you want to be treated. Good luck with that
The thread that has tipped me over the edge is at http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum27/HTML/002708.html Moderators do not need to follow me around, as I can take care of myself. ... However, moderators need to consider carefully if it is ok for the baby from wankerty wankerton to engage in bullying behaviour that is intended to stop another member from exercising their right to speak freely on this forum.
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Graham
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posted March 06, 2021 01:37 PM
Has any moderator ever tackled this issue of not allowing no go areas to develop on the forum ... or taken AQUAGUY to task for attempting to intimidate other members? ... Or have they persuaded themselves that he does not do that, and (even if he did) he is just a victim of a difficult childhood/ adolescence?IP: Logged |
Graham
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posted March 06, 2021 01:46 PM
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Originally posted by Graham:
The thread that has tipped me over the edge is at http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum27/HTML/002708.html Moderators do not need to follow me around, as I can take care of myself. ... However, moderators need to consider carefully if it is ok for the baby from wankerty wankerson to engage in bullying behaviour that is intended to stop another member from exercising their right to speak freely on this forum.
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aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 06, 2021 02:37 PM
Graham,
Let me put it to you simply. I'm a nice guy and can get along with most people. However, I don't get along with passive aggressive sociopaths who try to p!$s in my face and say it's raining. You have not been kind to me. You have not been respectful either. You have been a passive aggressive little a$$hole and I have no problem telling wretches like you to take a hike off a short pier. Go cry about it! You know I'm grieving a major loss and you are middle aged, so you should have a certain level of empathy and maturity. But you don't! That's why you are trying to escalate a conflict with someone who is hurting in another thread after the last one was closed. You want problems and your behavior in this thread makes that very clear. I have not tried to "intimidate" you. I have simply called a spade a spade. You perceive it as intimidation because you are a weak gamma male who can't handle when a man calls you on your nonsense. I see through you. Everyone sees through you. You are a sociopathic **** stirrer. If you have so many problems with this forum, go elsewhere! It's not hard. I have asked you twice to not post in my threads. I don't like you. I don't like your passive aggressive behavior. I don't like how you provoke conflicts and then play the victim. I don't like how you try to drive a wedge between me and people here. That is gamma male behavior 101. You don't know the kind of relationships I have with people here. I have more history and credibility here than you. Again, cry about it. Also, Wankety Wankerson was an inside joke between me and several people here years ago. I put it as my place because I thought it was funny. Why don't you make another reference about that, Grahma male? You are a pathetic human being. I have nothing else to say to you. There is nothing to say to a sociopathic troll who is trying desperately to play the victim. We see through you. You aren't clever. Go away. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 12308
From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 06, 2021 02:54 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I have really tried to become emotionally healthier. I am trying to accept my feelings, rather than labeling them "bad" and me bad.So, today someone was a jerk and I felt rage. Then, I got scared and felt depression. Wow, I really saw how they went together. I would love to hear the experiences of others!
Ami,
This is a good topic. I have experienced this since my mom passed away. I have had way less patience with people. My grief often manifests as anger. It's something I have been working on, but it's a lot harder to deal with it when sociopaths come in my threads and make passive aggressive and antagonistic posts to trigger me. The best way I have found to deal with it is to avoid people who trigger you during your dark spells. That's why I put a lot of distance between myself and this forum after that same sociopath came after me in December. I thought it might be safe to post again after a few months, but that same sociopath tried to pick a fight in the first thread I made in a long time. That same little sociopath is in this thread now playing the victim when they are the ones trying to sow discord and hurt a person who is already hurting. I experience rage when I see evil people being evil, but anger is never pleasant or good even when it is "righteous." IP: Logged |
Graham
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Registered: Apr 2019
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posted March 06, 2021 03:00 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Graham,
Let me put it to you simply. I'm a nice guy and can get along with most people. However, I don't get along with passive aggressive sociopaths who try to p!$s in my face and say it's raining. You have not been kind to me. You have not been respectful either. You have been a passive aggressive little a$$hole and I have no problem telling wretches like you to take a hike off a short pier. Go cry about it! You know I'm grieving a major loss and you are middle aged, so you should have a certain level of empathy and maturity. But you don't! That's why you are trying to escalate a conflict with someone who is hurting in another thread after the last one was closed. You want problems and your behavior in this thread makes that very clear. I have not tried to "intimidate" you. I have simply called a spade a spade. You perceive it as intimidation because you are a weak gamma male who can't handle when a man calls you on your nonsense. I see through you. Everyone sees through you. You are a sociopathic **** stirrer. If you have so many problems with this forum, go elsewhere! It's not hard. I have asked you twice to not post in my threads. I don't like you. I don't like your passive aggressive behavior. I don't like how you provoke conflicts and then play the victim. I don't like how you try to drive a wedge between me and people here. That is gamma male behavior 101. You don't know the kind of relationships I have with people here. I have more history and credibility here than you. Again, cry about it. Also, Wankety Wankerson was an inside joke between me and several people here years ago. I put it as my place because I thought it was funny. Why don't you make another reference about that, Grahma male? You are a pathetic human being. I have nothing else to say to you. There is nothing to say to a sociopathic troll who is trying desperately to play the victim. We see through you. You aren't clever. Go away.
No body "likes" those who refuse to allow them to continue behaving like a child at the age of 30. ... And allowing you to intimidate by throwing tantrums is not a price I am prepared to pay for being liked.You need to grow up (a lot); become more self-aware; stop assuming that it is the responsibility of others to to guess that when you talk of being at MacDonald's you are about to explain why you cannot return to the workplace and learn how to listen to others. In the meantime though, the other moderators and members of this forum need to also stop allowing you to behave in a way that is almost certainly hindering you in the outside world ... even though you believe that is not so.
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Graham
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posted March 06, 2021 03:07 PM
http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/sociopath Sociopath ... a person who is completely unable or unwilling to behave in a way that is acceptable to society. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 12308
From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 06, 2021 03:12 PM
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Originally posted by Graham:
http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/sociopath
That describes you, bub. You won't STFU and disengage because you want problems. You are a terrible person and everyone sees through you. Again, you are a middle aged man trying to cause more pain for someone who is already grieving. That makes you a piece of sh##. IP: Logged |
Graham
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posted March 06, 2021 03:17 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Graham:
[b] http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/sociopath
That describes you, bub. You won't STFU and disengage because you want problems. You are a terrible person and everyone sees through you. Again, you are a middle aged man trying to cause more pain for someone who is already grieving. That makes you a piece of sh##. [/B][/QUOTE]
---------------------------------------------------------------------------Why do you assume that you are the only one who is grieving? And, if two or more members of this forum state here that they too consider me to be a sociopath, I shall comply with your suggestion that I leave. In the meantime though, I stand by my view that no-one here is helping you by allowing your delusions and tantrums to go unchallenged. Moreover, if you/others are assuming that your appalling behaviour is due to grief, and will end when you are no longer grieving ... note that my mother died 27 years ago, and I am still grieving for her. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 12308
From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 06, 2021 03:54 PM
What delusions? You don't know me, dude. I also never said, nor did I imply, that I'm the only one grieving. Quit being a disingenuous little prick. My point about my grieving was you know I'm grieving, but yet you continue to try to antagonize me. Again, that makes you an a$$hole by anyone's standard. Anyone with a heart would avoid trying to argue with someone in my situation. You don't have a heart. You don't have empathy. And you aren't displaying the maturity of a middle aged person. I have already asked you multiple times to not post in my threads. The fact that you are still here escalating the situation shows the kind of person you are. If you were a decent person you would not have tried to continue an argument here in this thread after the other one was closed. Decent people don't act the way you are acting. Decent people don't try to cause more pain and stress for hurting people. Please leave me alone. I don't wish to interact with you anymore. Quit playing your games. I see through you. Leave me the f### alone!!!! I don't care to hear anything you have to say. Your "insights" aren't grounded in compassion and goodwill. You are a mean-spirited wretch who is trying to push a hurting person over the edge. You are truly evil.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 06, 2021 04:02 PM
Your behavior is appalling you piece of s###. Quit projecting!! Leave me alone!!!!! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 06, 2021 04:14 PM
In the meantime though, I stand by my view that no-one here is helping you by allowing your delusions and tantrums to go unchallenged. This is ridiculous. Who died and made you God? ------------------
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