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aquaguy91
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posted July 02, 2022 12:08 AM
  
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Best of luck with your boundary work! Mine have come a long way. I think Pluto square my Sun had a huge influence on this! I had to tell people "no" more frequently because I was quite spent with being a workaholic. If I could get a bit quackey here...last year I did a lot of solar plexus work. With yoga! At least once a week. Has Uranus made a conjunction to your Taurus moon yet? I feel like Uranus conjunctions can kind of help with boundaries too. Yeah my mom is "never wrong" most of the time, and is big time into gaslighting all kinds of people. She got on my last nerve about my cousin being my matron of honor. Where I snapped and was like "seriously what is your problem with her!?" Gas lights galore. Everything she texted me back I just kept stating. "I don't expect you to take any actual accountability"
She acted like I was hostile when she kept implying that my cousin doesn't actually want to be my matron. But she cut it out after that.
I also had to learn to stay calm and cool when my boss is stressed and projecting.
(weed really helped with that) I have a great relationship with my sister but I had to tell her that just because I get more time off as a teacher, does not entitle her to me watching her kids. There is so much shite I don't have time to do when I am teaching. I get irked when I say no and people ask "why?" Because it just seems like entitlement to me. Like this one friend would be like "you have the day off don't you?" If I did not pick up my phone. I told my in-laws "no" to more dog sitting. They asked my husband privately why I said "no."
Yes, Uranus has crossed over my moon. Oddly enough, I fully regained my sense of smell after losing it when I had covid back in August of last year when Moon-Uranus was exact for me. I have also been a lot more style conscious since Uranus crossed over my moon. In the past I didn't really care about that.
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aquaguy91
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posted July 02, 2022 12:27 AM
As a followup to my last post, I'm really digging Uranus in Taurus. I just ordered amazing handmade soap on Etsy that just happens to be made by a lady in my area. I didn't notice it when I initially ordered it. She homeschools her kids and her soap business is how she supports her family. She also makes really good soap so I am going to keep buying from her. I think that is Uranus in Taurus. A lot of people are using their creativity and tangible skills to make money with the help of the internet. I also notice that gardening has been becoming more and more trendy for the past few years. IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer
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posted July 02, 2022 07:16 PM
I have been told I may not have long to live.
To say that news sucks is a drastic understatement👽
That puts an entirely different spin on how I look at many things.
Trying not to just give up. Hard to look forward when there may not be a forward for long.👽
Wondering if I am just taking up time waiting for the end that is not preventable whether soon or many years from now.
I hope I have years but at the moment all is a huge series of wtf what ifs.👽
I hope all of you do not have to be in my situations to find ways to cope and live your lives.
Take care aquaguy91 and GalacticCoreExplosionV2 and Stawr,
and anyone else facing theses grievous life
challenges.
Wishing you all the answers you need to move forward and onward and to love and trust in each your own selves.
I learned that I am my own best friend and love and trust me.Good luck to you all💖🌈😎 ------------------ Take a look at my
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Randall
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posted July 03, 2022 05:01 PM
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Stawr
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posted July 03, 2022 09:44 PM
That breaks my heart Lexx! Thank you for your tremendous kindness, and cheering people on and up, you deserve to be blessed for that.  IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted July 03, 2022 09:57 PM
Glad Uranus crossing over your moon are going nice.
(lol I used Uranus and Moon in the same sentence)
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Lexxigramer
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posted July 03, 2022 10:50 PM
Randall💞 and Stawr💞
Both of your expressions of caring
kindnesses towards me
is very muchly appreciated💞😎🌈
Love and Blessings to you both💞🌈
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aquaguy91
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posted July 04, 2022 10:41 AM
Sending you good thoughts Lexxigramer.IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer
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posted July 04, 2022 06:39 PM
Thank you aquaguy91 😎🌈IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 04, 2022 07:30 PM
I'm really struggling lately. I only feel bad emotions and don't see a way out. Life sucks.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 04, 2022 07:41 PM
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aquaguy91
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posted July 05, 2022 01:33 PM
One of the things that makes me so angry is when people talk over me and don't even listen to me or consider my thoughts or perspectives. If you want a toxic screaming person full of rage, cut off a person with Moon and Mars in the 3rd house and don't let them say what they want to say. I have so much rage inside of me from being talked over and never listened to. So much rage. People are really ####ing challenging to deal with. I just wish people could be polite and treat others with respect. Life would be so much easier and so much more pleasant if people could just be civil and polite.IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer
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posted July 05, 2022 06:57 PM
Yes indeed💙IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted July 05, 2022 07:45 PM
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
One of the things that makes me so angry is when people talk over me and don't even listen to me or consider my thoughts or perspectives. If you want a toxic screaming person full of rage, cut off a person with Moon and Mars in the 3rd house and don't let them say what they want to say. I have so much rage inside of me from being talked over and never listened to. So much rage. People are really ####ing challenging to deal with. I just wish people could be polite and treat others with respect. Life would be so much easier and so much more pleasant if people could just be civil and polite.
One thing that helps me with this is shouting and screaming in an empty room to let all the rage out. Basically expressing and acting out whatever I want alone (yeah its kinda like masturbating) makes me feel extremely calm after the release. Has to be done daily though. It is a technique of catharsis. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 05, 2022 08:22 PM
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Originally posted by Lexxigramer:
Yes indeed💙
How are you doing? Please keep us updated. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 05, 2022 08:23 PM
And just think. I have the same big 3 as Eckhart Tolle. Lmao IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 05, 2022 08:24 PM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
One thing that helps me with this is shouting and screaming in an empty room to let all the rage out. Basically expressing and acting out whatever I want alone (yeah its kinda like masturbating) makes me feel extremely calm after the release. Has to be done daily though. It is a technique of catharsis.
I'll actually try this.IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer
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posted July 05, 2022 11:38 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
How are you doing? Please keep us updated.
I actually got myself outside today with my rolling walker😎
Only the like 3rd. time since last Summer I think.
Hard to believe that I was once a professional arm wrestler and power lifter at Gold's and was in fitness ad for it and GNC
Health store.😎
I could lift 600 pounds in a squat and did an crunches whilst hanging by my knees from a bar and whilst clutching a 90 pound weight to my chest to add resistance 😎
Ahhhhh at least I have those memories of over 1/2 my lifetime to date ago.🏋️💪🤸♀️
and could do back flips and much more😎
No updates still waiting for someone to help save my life.
The medical community has far too many greedy idiots who think they are gods🤬
Anyhow just wanted to share some nice happy times memories since I have no other news but that I went outside al by myself today😎☺️🌞💞🌄
And stayed out until
After dark💞🌆
Enjoying all the fireflies💚😎💞
Okay done hijacking your thread again💙
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posted July 05, 2022 11:43 PM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
One thing that helps me with this is shouting and screaming in an empty room to let all the rage out. Basically expressing and acting out whatever I want alone (yeah its kinda like masturbating) makes me feel extremely calm after the release. Has to be done daily though. It is a technique of catharsis.
oh my yes yes yes yes yes😎🤬😎😱🤬
It is very cathartic and in many ways quite orgasmic I agree😎
I do it often😎
Usually more than once a day but I have to scream into a pillow or I would freak out the neighbors.👽
It helps to imagine murdering the things that enrage one.
Just take it out on the pillows and such and beat the stuffing out of them if need be.
Then hint........
Seriously........
Laugh and it can be fake laughter until it turns into real laughter at the absurdly of it all😎😄IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 06, 2022 12:38 AM
No worries! I'm glad you were able to get out and enjoy some fresh air. It's been so humid. I'm ready for fall and Halloween specifically! I have decided I want to be Pinhead from the Hellraiser trilogy. I'll just have to shave my beard.  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 06, 2022 12:05 PM
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Lexxigramer
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posted July 06, 2022 07:21 PM
aquaguy91 😎
I love Halloween too😎🎃
Sigh
wanted to get outside today but
humid yeah betwixt small humidity
increasing rain showers.🥵💦Going to attempt a twilight outing
soon as it will be 8 pm and the
fireflies will come out to dance😎💞
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aquaguy91
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posted July 09, 2022 01:57 AM
One thing I've noticed is women feel incredibly free to ask me very rude questions like "Why do you look so angry in your photos?" or "Why don't you smile?" These questions vex me to no end because I do smile in photos. The caveat is that my smile reflects the fact that I have Saturn conjunct Sun and Moon opposite Pluto. I also have my big 3 in Aquarius and Taurus and neither of those signs have particularly loud emotions. I hate everything about American culture. It's so fake and inauthentic and everyone hates people like me who aren't like them. People in other countries don't expect everyone to have big goofy fake smiles 24/7.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted July 09, 2022 02:06 AM
And the ironic thing is I usually don't like photos of the women I like because they usually don't look the way they look in real life. It's like they don't even look like the same person most of the time. The image they present in photos is not the same as the women I know in real life. For better or worse, I'm me. I don't try to be anyone I'm not. I just wish one woman could appreciate and understand me instead of asking me dumb questions that make me feel frustrated and even more alone.IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted July 10, 2022 12:16 AM
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
One of the things that makes me so angry is when people talk over me and don't even listen to me or consider my thoughts or perspectives. If you want a toxic screaming person full of rage, cut off a person with Moon and Mars in the 3rd house and don't let them say what they want to say. I have so much rage inside of me from being talked over and never listened to. So much rage. People are really ####ing challenging to deal with. I just wish people could be polite and treat others with respect. Life would be so much easier and so much more pleasant if people could just be civil and polite.
Ugh and then these people complain that no one wants to talk and engage with them. Like my mom who is the only extravert in the family. I can only talk about positive emotions. And oh yes she talks over me and my dad at dinner time, and then we are suppose to feel sorry for her when we aren't interested in talking to her, and she will be passive aggressive if I am not chatty enough.
Hmm maybe if ya allowed people to be themselves people would not avoid or shut down around you. The times my husband talks over me I tell him I've had spoiled 3 year old talk over me all day from a culture that does not respect women. I do not have a tolerance for it from you after my day. IP: Logged |
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