posted April 07, 2006 03:34 AM              

I've been doing a lot of information searching on synastry lately. However, I was wondering about the significance of asteroids like Eros, Psyche, Cupido, Amor, Aphrodite etc. in synastry. Are asteroids as important as personal planets? Also, what aspects do you pay attention to - only conjunctions and oppositions or also squares, trines, sextiles, etc.?

How significant would the following aspects be for instance:
MY Eros square HIS Sun
MY Eros trine HIS Venus
HIS Eros trine MY Saturn
HIS Eros square MY Uranus
MY Psyche conjunct HIS Mercury
MY Psyche square HIS Mars
MY Psyche conjunct HIS Neptune
MY Psyche opposition HIS Ascendant
HIS Psyche sextile MY Neptune
HIS Psyche trine MY Pluto
MY Sappho trine HIS Sun
MY Sappho square HIS Venus
HIS Sappho sextile MY Mercury
HIS Sappho trine MY Venus
HIS Sappho sextile MY Jupiter
MY Cupido conjunct HIS Venus
MY Cupido trine HIS Saturn
HIS Cupido conjunct MY Neptune
HIS Cupido square MY Ascedant
MY Amor opposition HIS Jupiter
HIS Amor square MY Mercury
HIS Amor square MY Jupiter
HIS Amor square MY Uranus
MY Aphrodite opposition HIS Sun
HIS Aphrodite sextile MY Sun
HIS Aphrodite conjunct MY Mars
HIS Aphrodite square MY Neptune
HIS Aphrodite opposition MY Ascendant

posted April 07, 2006 06:13 AM              

These are most significant according to me to indicate a very happy relationship:

Your Eros/Cupido conj/sextile/trine
his Psyche/Aphrodite/Juno

Your Valentine conj/sextile/trine
his Valentine/TrueNode/Ascendant/Moon

His Valentine conj/sextile/trine
your Valentine/TrueNode/Ascendant/Moon

I wont consider Sappho in synastry.

Amor will work but I have not studied it yet.
Possibly Amor aspect True Node or Moon would be very significant.

A girl whom I love very dearly, with her I have these asteroid aspects.

1. Her Eros trines my Psyche
2. Her Valentine conj my True Node
3. Her True Node conj my Valentine
4. Her Amor sextile my Amor
5. Her Aphrodite conj my DNA
6. Her Psyche septile [52 degree aspect indicating creativity] my Eros.
7. Her Aphrodite trines my Cupido/Chiron
8. Her Cupido sextiles my Cupido
9. Her Moon sextile my Amor.

posted April 07, 2006 04:01 PM              

For example, when I have Amor conject Sun of the other guy, I will love him without any condition. I am willing to give and give to him a lot.

I saw when someone has Psyche aspect another person's ASC or Sun, the owner of Psyche would feel "destiny love" with another person.

In Uranian Astrology, we use Cupido a lot especially in solar arc. It is not about love. It is more about "Union". For example, if your own natal chart has venus conjunct progressed cupido, you probably are moving to your couple's home to stay together or you have happy ending at that moment.

Anyway, what is DNA? I am still curious about feeling of Valentine too. Any ideas?

How about Psyche trine Eros but in Composite instead?

posted April 09, 2006 01:09 AM            

If you are looking for information on some of these Asteroids in synastry I suggest you check out Kim Falconer's site. She's a fantastic lady and teacher.
http://www.nrg.com.au/~d-falcon/Eros.htm

Click on the Forum section and you'll find so much info you''ll be reading for a long time...lol

posted April 09, 2006 03:10 PM              

"Psyche trine Eros in the composite? I would think that the couple would be heavily attracted to each other after the marriage. "

I am just wondering why it has to be AFTER marriage?

By the way, I am still curious about meaning of VALENTINE What is specific kind of love effected by this asteroid? Could you please explain since I heard about this one the first one from you........

Thanks

posted April 09, 2006 08:28 PM            

My guess is that it's easy to be attracted and find joy in the courtship stage, but after marriage, when the veils literally come off, and it's life, it's harder to see the beauty in each other as much when you deal with the not so beautiful spects of daily life together.

posted April 10, 2006 06:30 AM              

About Asteroid Valentine, it resonates to the frequency of Saint Valentine who represents sacrifice for the sake of love.

posted April 10, 2006 06:37 PM              

Thanks for clarifying the meaning of Valentine.

posted April 11, 2006 11:52 AM              

i've noticed it active in several different relationships where hero worship was evident. significant apollo connections appear to generate unconditional love.
http://www.zanestein.com/apollo.htm

In the CAO Times ephemeris the keywords for this body are: "fixation, intensity, crisis-mastery, exaltation, commitment, challenge." It also says: "The liabilities---especially with conjunctions---are tunnel vision, blind spots, irrational awe, imbalance, obsession." These keys seem to be quite valid, especially the second part.

posted April 11, 2006 01:39 PM              

Sorry that my English is not good and my astro-chemistry is not good too
So, do you mean that Eros and Psyche aspecting each other is better? How about if they are aspecting each other in composite instead

Thanks

posted May 12, 2008 02:42 PM            

Your Eros/Cupido conj/sextile/trine
his Psyche/Aphrodite/Juno

Your Valentine conj/sextile/trine
his Valentine/TrueNode/Ascendant/Moon

His Valentine conj/sextile/trine
your Valentine/TrueNode/Ascendant/Moon

WOW those are some hot aspects... so l look at my synastry. Anyone else wanna revive this thread and share theirs?

Mine were:

((Your Eros/Cupido conj/sextile/trine
his Psyche/Aphrodite/Juno))
MY EROS TRINE HIS PSYCHE 2deg
MY CUPIDO SEXTILE HIS JUNO 2deg

((Your Valentine conj/sextile/trine
his Valentine/TrueNode/Ascendant/Moon))
MY VALENTINE TRINE HIS AC 1deg

((His Valentine conj/sextile/trine
your Valentine/TrueNode/Ascendant/Moon))
HIS VALENTINE TRINE MY ASCENDANT 2.5deg
HIS VALENTINE TRNE MY MOON 2deg

Also

my cupido opposes his armor
his aphrodite conjunct exact my juno
his venus conjunct exact my eros
his valentine trine my jupiter
his aphrodite opposes my sun/mercury
his psyche sextile my sun/mercury

His moon and valentine in my 4th house
his eros and armor in my 5th house
his cupido in my 8th house
my cupido, armor, valentine in his 8th house
my aphrodite in his 7th house

my god, l think l need a drink. Just when l thought we were all aspected out :O !!
I'm so happy!!! I love IQ, wherever he is...

posted May 12, 2008 04:35 PM              

as I said amazing synastry!

The Valentine aspects alone are unbelievable; definitely True love and soulmates for sure.

Valentine - ASC - dw. *sighs* How wonderful!

And as if this is not enough Valentine- Moon, VAlentine - Sun.

I really hope that you can be together, because a separation with these aspects must be an unbearable pain.

I just don`t understand why it has to be her ERos and Cupido and not HIs Eros and Cupido,t oo.

However, I had a look at tropical and Draco comparision with someone (just for the reason I dreamed of him last night,w hich took me completely by surprise).

some of the traditional aspects between our charts are:

His Sun/Moon-conjunction conjuncts my Sun/Mercury-conjunction (jip, the famous Sun-Moon-conjunction- just with him being the MOon-person).

His Mercury conjunct my Mars, ASC, Neptune and NN (Mercury-Neptune = dreams?)

His Venus antiscia my Mars

HIs Sun/ Moon antiscia my Venus

His Mars widely trine my Venus (5)
(in the Davison chart we have a close Venus-Mars-conjunction in Taurus)

Some interesting midpoints:
His Sun/ Moon conjuncts my Sun and Mercury
His Venus / Mars squares my Moon
HIs Venus / Uranus conjuncts my Sun and Mercury
His Venus / Pluto conjuncts my AC and NN
My Moon / Venus conjuncts his Venus and semisquares his Mars

asteroid aspects (even though not the ones you or IQ mentioned):

His Eros sextile my Venus
His Eros conjunct my Jupiter
His Eros conjunct my Ceres
My Eros trine his Uranus
My Eros trine his Valentine

His Cupido trine my Chiron
His Cupido trine my Cupido
My Cupido trine his Neptune
My Cupido sextile his Pluto

His Psyche sextile my Sun/ Mercury
His Psyche conjunct my Lilith
His Psyche conjunct my Psyche
My Psyche sextile his Sun / Moon

His Juno trine my Valentine
My Juno opposite hsi Lilith
My Juno trine his Valentine
- we have a dw on Juno-Valentine

His Valentine trine my Saturn
His Valentine opposite my nameasteroid
My Valentine sextile his Venus
my VAlentine sextile his Saturn
- dw on Valentine-Saturn
my Valentine sextile his Aphrodite

His Amor trine my Venus
His Amor opposite my Jupiter
His Amor opposite my Ceres
my Amor sextile hsi Karma

My Name asteroid in his chart has interesting aspects to his other planets, also:
My name:
conjuncts his Eros
opposes his Mars, Jupiter, Amor, and his name asteroid!
(all within 1,5°)
sextiles his Chiron

in my chart his name is:
sextiles my Jupiter and Juno
opposite my Saturn
trines my name!

Also, his name in my chart trines his Mars / Jupiter / his name closely
My name in his chart conjuncts my Jupiter, which rules my ASC and therefore is the single most telling planet, which shows who I am. lol

posted May 12, 2008 04:36 PM              

His dr Sun / Moon exactly trines my VAlentine
His dr Sun / Moon exactly trines my dr ASC and also trines my dr Mars
HIs dr Sun / Moon conjuncts my dr IC
His dr Sun / Moon opposes my dr Pluto

My dr Sun conjuncts his dr Lilith
my dr Moon opposes his dr Chiron
my dr Moon trine his dr Eros

his dr Venus trine my Sun
his dr Venus opposite my Lilith
his dr Venus opposite my Psyche
his dr Venus trine my dr Venus
his dr Venus opposes my dr Uranus
my dr Venus trine his Sun
my dr Venus opposite his Pluto (4,5)
my dr Venus conjunct his dr Saturn
my dr Venus conjunct his dr Aphrodite

his dr Mars opposite my Pluto
his dr Mars trine my Neptune
his dr Mars trine my ASC
his dr Mars trine my NN
his dr Mars opposite my Aphrodite
his dr Mars trine my dr Chiron
his dr Mars trine my dr Cupido

my dr Mars opposes his Saturn
my dr Mars opposies his Aphrodite
my dr Mars trine his Juno
my dr Mars opposite his dr Psyche

his dr Saturn trine my Sun
my dr Saturn opposite his Chiron
my dr Saturn trine his Eros

my dr Pluto conjunct his Venus
my dr Pluto trine his Aphrodite

his dr Chiron conjunct my Mars, Neptune, NN and ASC
my dr Chiron trine his dr Chiron
my dr Chiron trine his dr Amor

my dr LIlith conjunct his dr Valentine

his dr Karma opposite my Uranus
my dr Karma conjunct his Karma
my dr Karma opposite his dr Mars
my dr Karma conjunct his dr Eros
my dr Karma opposite his dr Amor
my dr Karma conjunct my dr name in his chart and opposite his dr name in his chart
his dr Karma conjunct his dr name in my chart and trine my dr name in my chart

Phew, I need a break now.

DD

posted May 12, 2008 07:20 PM            

YOUR ASPECTS AE PRETTY WOWEEEE THOUGH TOO!! MY GOSH, JUNO-VALENTINE DW!!!! THAT'S AWESOME. THE NAME ASPECTS ARE GREAT TOO.

YOU ALSO HAVE SUN/MOON ON VALENTINE AND LOOK AT ALL THOSE VENUS ASPECTS :O

NO WONDER YOU NEED A BREAK
ARE THESE ASPECTS WITH A REAL LIFE MAN OR THE ACTOR/MUSIC MAN?

posted May 12, 2008 07:48 PM              

I am going to list the other Draco aspects (and tomorrow I will answer to your post):

His dr Eros conjunct my MC
His dr Eros conjunct my Pluto
his dr Eros trine my DC
my dr Eros oposite his Chiron

his dr Cupido conjunct my Saturn
his dr Cupido conjunct my Eros
his dr Cupuido conjunct my Vertex
his dr Cupido trine my Juno
his dr Cupido trine my dr Valentine
his dr Cupido trine my dr Amor
my dr Cupido conjunct his Mercury
my dr Cupido trine his dr Amor

his dr Psyche conjunct my dr DC
his dr Psyche trine my dr MC
his dr Psyche opposite my dr Amor
my dr Psyche conjunct his dr Valentine

his dr Aphrodite trine my Sun
my dr Aphrodite trine his Karma

his dr Juno conjunct my Psyche
his dr Juno conjunct my Lilith
my dr Juno trine his Eros
my dr Juno conjunct his dr Mercury

his dr Valentine trine my Moon
his dr Valentine conjunct my Karma
his dr VAlentine conjunct my dr Psyche
my dr Valentine opposite his Lilith
my dr VAlentine trine his Valentine

his dr Amor conjunct my IC
his dr Amor trine my Mars
his dr Amor trine my NN
his dr Amor trine my ASC
his dr Amor trine my Neptune
his dr Amor opposite my Pluto
his dr Amor trine my dr Chiron
his dr Amor trine my dr Cupido
my dr Amor trine his Uranus
my dr Amor trine his Valentine
my dr Amor trine his dr Sun
my dr Amor trine his dr Neptune
my dr Amor trine his dr Cupido
my dr Amor opposite his dr Psyche

my ASC conjunct his dr Chiron
my DC trine his dr Eros
my ASC trine his dr Amor
my dr DC trine his Venus
my dr DC conjunct his Saturn
my dr DC conjunct his Aphrodite
my dr AC trine his Juno
my dr AC trine his dr Sun
my dr AC trine his dr Moon
my dr DC conjunct his dr Psyche

my IC conjunct his dr Mars
my MC conjunct his dr Eros
my IC conjunct his dr Amor
my dr MC conjunct his Venus
my dr MC trine his Saturn
my dr IC trine his URanus
my dr IC conjunct his Juno
my dr IC conjunct his dr Sun
my dr Ic conjunct his dr Moon
my dr IC widely conjunct his dr Cupido (4)
my dr MC trine his dr Psyche

That`s it, I think.

DD

posted May 13, 2008 06:33 AM              

well, you asked me about that guy I posted the aspects.
No, it was not the MUSICMAN. But it was not a real life man either. lol

It was another musical actor, but this one is different (of course they all are ). I have never had a crush on him, I never even wasted a thought on him, and hadn`t it been for the shocking dream I wouldn`t have looked into his chart either.

He comes different across than other musical stars; he lacks that "ethereal" quality that most of them have (especially the gay ones, at least those I know); instead he feels more "earthy" and "real", if you know what I mean (well with Mars-Jupiter-conjunction in Virgo and Venus in Capricorn he should be a bit earthy, shouldn`t he?).

Two years ago I saw him on an open air concert. It was a funny situation.
There was an amphitheatre,w here the audience sat, and the stage was down below. Behind the amphitheatre was some kind of a ring with a path out of the park. That was where my friends and me stood, behind the audience, far away from stage, at this ring, which was the highest place to stand. Oh yes and I remember we were standing next to a streetlight.
Perfect position to stand as we could see and hear everything but didn`t have to get suffocated by the crowd (my aquarius Moon doesn`t feel too well, stuffed into a close sitting crowd *shudders*).
However, that guy was singing a Robbie William`s song, "Feel", and while singing he started going the aisle up to exactly where I was standing. He was actually having a microphone in his hand, which he held into the audience now and then, and when he marched straight towards me with that mike, I actually went into hiding. I was utterly shocked. Really, noone will ever hear me sing in public. lol
But that was the first time I noticed him; and the first thing I did was running away.

Then coincidentally he appeared on that concert last february and gave an outstanding performance.

And now I booked some tickets for "Jesus Christ Superstar" (He is gonna play Jesus). I didn`t really book the tickets because he plays the role, but because I really want to see the musical itself. Hard to believe, but a musical fan like me has never seen JCS live before.

But it`s not because of him. You know, he is a good performer and he seems to be nice and he spreads a very enthusiastic, positive vibration (must be Sun, Moon and MErcury in Sagittarius), but I really didn`t develop a "crush" on him or something like that.

It`s a bit like I am drawn to seeing him (which I am I admit) almost against my will. I mean why do you feel the URGE to see someone, you don`t even like? Well, you know there are different forms of liking. Of course I like him, but I don`t LIKE him. ARe you as confused now as I am?

AStrologically speaking I noticed that there are a lot of similiar and polar aspects in the natal charts, like we both have a Sagittarius-vibe going on, both have a Capricorn-Venus. Both a Venus-Pluto-square (his is a tad wide with 5°, but I think it`s still in effect), he also has a Mars antiscia Pluto.
Both having Mars-Jupiter-aspects as well as Mars-Neptune and some more.

WEll, it only confirms what I thought: that even actors or artists you admire will have something in their charts or synastry that explain why you admire them. There must be some kind of a HOOK.

Sorry for my ranting, but hey you asked.

posted May 13, 2008 10:11 AM              

Diandra inspired me (in the Twinsoul and soulmate-thread) to look at the Tantric asteroids: Kaali, Siva, Parvati, Soma, Nada and Kama. I also had a look at Isis and Osiris, as I had forgotten about them.

Only a few of those aspects:

his Kaali conjunct my Mars (1,5)
his Kaali conjunct my ASC (0)

his Parvati opposite my Parvati (1,5)
his Parvati opposite my Nada (2)
my Parvati trine his Sun (1,5)
my Parvati trine his Moon
my Parvati conjunct his NN (2,5)

his Soma conjunct my SN (2,5)
his Soma conjunct my DC (0)
my Soma conjunct his Uraus (1,5)

his Nada sextile my NEptune (0)
his Nada conjunct my pluto (0)
his Nada sextile my NN (0)
my Nada trine his Sun (1)
my Nada trine his Moon
my Nada conjunct his NN (3)

his Rudra sextile my Venus (0)
my Rudra conjunct his Mars (3)

his Kama trine my Siva (0)

his Isis trine my Pluto (0)
his Isis conjunct my Sn (0)
his Isis conjunct my DC (2,5)
my Isis trine his Chiron (1)
his Osiris trine my Mars (0)
his Osiris trine my AC (1,5)
his Osiris conjunct my IC (0)

And Draco`s:

his dr Siva trine my Sun (0)
his dr Siva conjunct my Parvati (2)
his dr Siva conjunct my Nada (1,5)
my dr Siva trine his dr Kaali (0)

his dr Kaali opposite my Venus (0)
my dr Kaali conjunct his Karma (0)

his dr Parvati trine my dr Pluto (0)
his dr Parvati conjunct my dr DC (1,5)
my dr Parvati opposite his dr VAlentine (0)

his dr Soma conjunct my Venus (0)

his dr Rudra opposite my Mars (1)
his dr Rudra conjunct my DC (3)
his dr Rudra conjunct my dr Moon (3)
his dr Rudra trine my dr Karma (2)
his dr Rudra trine my dr Kaali (1,5)
his dr Rudra trine my dr Kama (2)
my dr Rudra conjunct his Sun (1)
my dr Rudra conjunct his Moon
my dr Rudra trine his dr Siva (1,5)

his dr Kama opposite my dr Sun (2,5)
his dr Kama trine my Kaali (0)
his dr Kama conjunct my Kama (3)
my dr Kama trine his Karma (3)
my dr Kama sextile his Kaali (0)
my dr Kama trine his Soma (1)

his dr Isis conjunct my Venus (1,5)
his dr Isis conjunct my Isis (0)
his dr Isis conjunct my Osiris (0)
my dr Isis trine his Sun (1,5)
my dr Isis trine his Moon
my dr Isis conjunct his dr Saturn (3)
my dr Isis conjunct his dr Karma (3,5)

his dr Osiris conjunct my dr Saturn (2,5)
my dr Osiris trine his Sun (0)
my dr Osiris trine his Moon
my dr Osiris conjunct his dr Saturn (2,5)

If I only knew what Soma, Nada, Rudra and Kama mean?

posted May 13, 2008 02:48 PM            

wow it's amazing the connection, really it is. Let me know how Jesus Christ, superstar goes. Always wanted to go and see it! Is it in London?

You have so many connections and it's amazing, seeing as you have the link yet never quite met!!!!! WOW

All these asteroids are doing my head in but l can't help but look these new ones up so...

Siva conjunct AC exact
Siva square MC 2deg
soma conjunct AC 2deg
Isis conjunct DC 2deg
Kaali conjunct MC 1deg
Parvati conjunct MC

soma opposes saturn exact
soma trine saturn 2deg

Isis opposes venus 1deg
Isis sesquiqdrate venus 1deg

Isis conjunct saturn 1 deg
Isis opposes saturn 2deg

Siva trine chiron exact
Siva trine moon 2deg
Siva conjunct jupiter exact
Siva square neptune exact
Isis square sun 1deg
Osiris trine mars 1deg
Osiris opposes sun 2deg
Osiris conjunct juno 2deg
Parvati square pluto 1deg
Soma trine venus exact
Soma square mars exact
soma square sun 2deg
soma square soma 1deg
Kaali conjunct lilith 2deg
Kaali conjunct siva 1deg

DRACO:-

osiris square AC 4deg
kaali sextile AC 1deg
parvati trine MC 1deg

kaali square chiron 3deg
kaali square chiron 3deg - DW