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Topic: Amor conjunct Swindle natally.. affecting relationships
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yungang_grotto
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posted August 03, 2015 10:48 AM
  
I shall reward the truth  I already do even as I bring up the lie..IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 03, 2015 10:48 AM
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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
It's strange because my last boyfriend had a Cancer stellium including his Sun Moon and Mercury... And he big time failed to be there... In so many ways... I was really hard on him about it though. Lessons...Yes we are developing ever deeper and stronger understanding that we really care about one another and the pain we experience isn't because the other person doesn't care.. Thank you that is all very good advice.
I can see why he couldn't open up, potentially.
One planet in water is good, but you start getting a lot of water and sometimes they create insecurities and fear of being hurt that override the empathic and nuturing side of water signs. It all depends on the chart if there's not enough stabilizing factors to support all that water the water becomes fear of being hurt instead of a strength. IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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posted August 03, 2015 10:51 AM
Yes that makes good sense. I kind of suspected such. This current guy as you can see is much more balanced elementally... and uber responsible with that Virgo Sun...IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 03, 2015 10:53 AM
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Yes that makes good sense. I kind of suspected such. This current guy as you can see is much more balanced elementally... and uber responsible with that Virgo Sun...
Very nice! I think you guys will be ok. The fact that you are aware and willing to work with him will be such a blessing for you both. He needs that stability and understanding. Edit-don't forget lie/Jupiter conjuncts his Uranus so even as he works on it, he will still at times impulsively say things, he can't help it with Uranus there. Give him the chance to back up and rethink what he's saying without getting upset. Maybe ask questions like are totally sure? Then reassure him you won't be upset if he needs to think about it and come back to you, just remind him how much you appreciate the whole truth. IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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posted August 03, 2015 10:55 AM
It's funny that he is honest about being a scheister. I think it means he isn't a real scheister... *laughing emoticon--how to make??*IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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posted August 03, 2015 11:00 AM
^^ More excellent advice. patience is a big lesson for me in this lifetime, with Saturn square Mars in my natal, as per Isabel Hickey... Good to see how the application of patience will benefit others and myself. Thank you. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 03, 2015 11:03 AM
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^^ More excellent advice. patience is a big lesson for me in this lifetime, with Saturn square Mars in my natal, as per Isabel Hickey... Good to see how the application of patience will benefit others and myself. Thank you.
Anytime! ☺️
Not sure how to make the laughing emoticon! Lol IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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posted August 03, 2015 11:07 AM
Ah, you can't do everything for me!  Thank you thank you *bowing repeatedly with hands pressed together emoticon*IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 03, 2015 03:20 PM
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Ah, you can't do everything for me! Thank you thank you *bowing repeatedly with hands pressed together emoticon*
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Aubyanne
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posted August 03, 2015 04:24 PM
I was going to say, Yun, I wrote extensively about finding out about my boyfriend's VALENTINE-SWINDLE conjunction natally. Did you see it? On a VALENTINE thread?IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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posted August 04, 2015 10:50 AM
Hmmm, no! But I'd like to find it...IP: Logged |
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