posted December 19, 2016 09:21 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Faith:
Why?

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without abuse, there would be no way to help ppl.

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no fire no ice

posted December 19, 2016 09:52 AM            

I think I saw you are a Pisces moon?

posted December 20, 2016 06:51 AM            

I dont`t like when thinks are too harmonious, I don`t know if it has to do with Nessus.

posted December 26, 2016 10:23 PM            

Is turning your face away when someone is talking to you abuse?, like keep it turned, and shifting attention

posted December 30, 2016 09:05 PM              

I think you mentioned once - that Nessus could mean "getting too involved"?

I thought about it and went back to synastries where it was prominent - and that makes a lot of sense!

Now, the side effects of getting too involved might not be so pleasant. But at least now we know (I think we know) what the operative force is.

For instance:
Those who make hard Nessus aspects to my personal planets try to influence (or in some cases, dictate) what that planet does. If it's my mars - usually want me to do things a certain way, or do certain things only, or drop some things that they don't think I should be doing.

Nessus is like a cousin of Pluto's - it also wants control, in a way. But it does it in a more insistent, cloying manner as opposed to Pluto's sudden-death tactics.
For instance (bear with me here, for a slightly weird example) -
If Nessus wants you to get out of a room (for whatever reason), he'll grab you by the arms and pull you out. Pluto will just throw a hand grenade in there, so you're scared outta your wits and come running out all by yourself.

I know this is not strictly about Nessus-Asc, but I wanted to add the synastry angle because the whole "must abuse" is totally unfair. What does happen is, they care too much, get too involved, and, try to direct your course - of course that can go wrong any number of ways. But the intention is not to abuse, the intention is to be woven into the fabric of your life to an uncomfortably close degree.

Circling back to Nessus natal aspects:
Nessus-Asc might be someone who comes on too strong. Appears to be unable to avoid sticky situations. Might be the type to give a lot of unsolicited advice. However, he/she also won't turn away from a person in need. Or turn a blind eye to a situation that requires their *active* presence. Like if they witness an accident. Others might squirm and look the other way. Or just stand there watching. Not this guy.

posted December 31, 2016 12:15 PM            

I think you solved the whole riddle of it, and I'm going to quote you in the future, if that's okay.

posted December 31, 2016 04:25 PM              

Faith, you inspired it.

posted January 01, 2017 02:04 PM            

Tension, that does make sense.

Well, for example, Suzanne Somers has Nessus-ASC in Taurus and she is an activist for health and body issues, trying to persuade people to avail themselves of cures that keep them healthy and young. (More Venusian.)

She is not merely Venusian but trying to influence others to consider Venus...reaching out to take hold of our attention and change how we think of Venus.