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Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted December 10, 2017 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like to compare notes, if you like, with others who have natal Nessus conjunctions to any planet or point in the chart.

I am hoping we can discuss possible interpretations of these, with open minds, as I wholeheartedly believe that we do not understand Nessus yet.

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Before we continue, I think it would be helpful to consider the myth underpinning Pluto. In this Greek myth, Hades, Lord of the Underworld, kidnaps and rapes Persephone. It was likely a myth which described the changing seasons rather than the less than palatable behaviour of some humans, however, for the purposes of this discussion, let's take it literally.

So. We have a myth describing kidnap and rape represented by Pluto. Yet, everyone has a Pluto. Few people will kidnap and rape another. We ascribe useful qualities to Pluto. We go beyond the myth to the energy and ways in which that energy can be channelled without harming others.

I would like us to take the same broad-mindedness to Nessus. Like Pluto, there is not much positivity in the myth. So we have to go beyond the story to the energy.

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I feel that Pluto and Nessus are very similar energies - power, control, determination, desire, leadership, passion, depth of feeling, etc.

An important thing I think we should consider is that Nessus does not actually rape Dejanira. He attempts to either rape or kidnap her. What he does do is murder Hercules, who, incidentally, had already raped Dejanira. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deianira

Some questions to consider (please add your own, we need to dig deeper):

What happened?
Why did Nessus NOT kidnap or rape Dejanira? She was a vulnerable female, she could not have gotten away easily.
Why did he kill Hercules, her rapist, instead?
Did he wish to remove any barriers to having Dejanira to himself?
Or did he think better of his actions and defend her honour?
Why did he not just kidnap and rape her like Hades did with Persephone?

There is something we are missing here.

What is clear to me is that Nessus is not actually as guilty of 'abuse' as Hades.
Yet when we see Pluto in synastry or natal, we tend to speak more positively about these contacts than Nessus.

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I have Nessus conjunct the North Node.

I work with vulnerable people, many of them survivors of abuse at various stages of their healing journey's. And I knew I was destined to do so from 13 years old.
While I have a degree and years of experience, I also have a direct channel of empathy as a healed survivor of abuse myself.

My Nessus conjunct the North Node makes perfect sense.

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Share your Nessus contacts to planets or points under 3 degrees and let's see what we come up with

(In Astrodienst, in 'extended chart selection', choose Nessus from the 'additional objects' box on the left and cast your chart to see what your Nessus conjunctions are)

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posted December 10, 2017 09:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nessus conjunct Jupiter in Scorpio in 1H, 3 degree orb
Nessus in Scorpio in 1H square Aqua Mars in 4H, less than a degree

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posted December 11, 2017 03:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 11, 2017 05:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lion-I     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nessus Conjunct Eros, Sappho, Hidalgo, Vesta, ASC, Moon and Vishnu all in Capricorn.

Nessus in the First Trine Dejanira in Taurus in the 4th house.

Draconic Nessus Conjunct Natal Osiris in Virgo.


I Actually fear my own power greatly but people are weary when trying to take Advantage of me like any time I might pounce but that might be the Pluto in 12th house. And No I am not a sadistic Sexual predator. Actually far from that, I am actually trying to heal my sexuality and reading Alexander Lowen made me understand the benefits of this.

I am Very much actively in healing in my life and consider that my highest priority.

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posted December 11, 2017 05:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for florence     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ive felt it in synastry but its not aspecting a planet (I think it closely trines asc as does Deianira which make sense as I think often appear equally a victim or villain).

In the wiki entry I just read it says Heracles rescued Deianira from Nessus before he could rape her.

I think it's so fascinating a myth and ... It feels at the hades level of being compelled, out of control, brought down low. It's almost like Nessus shows up a hypocrisy because Deianira is as compelled as him to seek control. I see the chain like aspect of one desire for control being regifted for another's desire for control as significant - like we can't judge Nessus (maybe because there's an authenticity in desire of this scale that's rarely eclipsed) without being presented with our own desire & fallibility. I think Nessus won't allow for surface measures of justice, who appears to be righteous - everyone is forced to the ground and to fight their demons. No one gets off free.

I don't have the overview of many centaur myths but something about it reminds me of Chiron - that very neat & painful entanglement with others where the oneness of everyone has to be recognised through dark means

The good aspects I think are that those with it significantly in their chart will be intimately acquainted with their shadow and can therefore properly work with it

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posted December 11, 2017 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He attempts to rape or kidnap, means he did not succeed in it, Nessus failed because Heracles shot him before he could do so.
He killed Heracles for revenge, "if I can't have her, I'll make sure you can't either".
No, he did not defend her honour, he lied to her to kill Heracles. We can see that Deianira actually felt affectionate towards Heracles from this event : "she sent a messenger to warn to him to stop him from wearing that poisoned shirt" and we can also see that she wanted him all for herself because she smeared Nessus's blood on Heracle's Lionshirt to ensure that he remained faithful towards her.

That's from one POV, from the way things appear on the surface.

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posted December 11, 2017 10:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"In Sophocles' account of Deianira's marriage, she was
courted by the river god Achelous but saved from having to
marry him by Heracles, who defeated Achelous in a
wrestling contest for her hand in marriage. [9] In another
version of her tale, Deianira is instead the daughter of
Dexamenus , king of Olenus . Heracles rapes her and
promises to come back and marry her. While he is away,
the centaur Eurytion appears, demanding her as his wife.
Her father, being afraid, agrees. Heracles returns before the
marriage and slays the centaur, claiming his bride. [10]"
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heracles

Things are a bit unclear when it comes to Heracles, we can't say whether he raped her or not, and even if he raped, he also promised to come back and marry her later, was it the norm to marry the one you rape in those days? easy way to get girls maybe.

I fail to see how this Heracles dude is the greatest of the Greek Heroes, he killed someone else's children, he also killed his own children out of sheer madness (maybe it was considered "normal" in those days), but then again he killed plenty of this and that too, so maybe that's where his heroic status comes from.

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posted December 11, 2017 10:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To me, Nessus has always been about getting what you want no matter what, by using any means necessary. Maybe it appears that way to me because I have Mars/Nessus and I'm very familiar with this urge. Nessus tried to rape Deianira, because he wanted her, even if it meant he had to rape her to get her, he was ready to do so. Deianira wanted Heracles to remain faithful to her, even if it meant trusting the words of some guy who tried to rape her and got killed by Heracles in the process, she was prepared to do so, getting what she wanted no matter what.

Both failed.

And I don't consider Deianira a victim, her stupidity cost Heracles his life.

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posted December 11, 2017 10:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll add more later, about where the energy of Nessus might be useful.

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posted December 12, 2017 09:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you to everyone who is participating thus far!

Anonymid,
I really appreciate the information you have brought to this thread. I posted one link as a starting point, but yes, the myths are a bit nebulous as soon as you dig a little.
So, it looks like Nessus was stopped by Hercules from harming Dejanira. Oh, the irony!!

And yes, why do we ascribe such positive qualities to Hercules, he'd be in jail for this behaviour in these days!

I suppose women were more or less commodities then (times have changed slightly, perhaps?). Dejanira would probably want to be married following rape because it may be shameful otherwise and she could have been ostracised. Also, there is a chance she could be pregnant, but with no husband. Again, dangerous for the ancient woman.

Florence,
you said something that really struck a chord with me when considering Nessus - to be intimately acquainted with one's shadow.
Boy, I wish Jung were around so we could ask him his thoughts on this!

I will be back discuss soon.

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In the meantime,
from the information we have so far, can anyone see this type of energy in their personal planet(s) that is touched by Nessus?

Also, any and all other sources of information on Nessus are welcome.

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posted December 13, 2017 09:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pluto is a very Selfish Planet along with Mars, however other aspects in the chart have to be considered and can express differently. Pluto is also a planet of tragedy, Psychology, etc. really depends on the sign, houses, rulerships, other asteroids, progressions to consider! to really say what that pluto in that specific peron's chart is all about. I 100% love the story of Pluto and Persephone and consider it in my astrology readings!

ummm as far as nessus goes I think he's a liar, manipulator, and succeeded what he wanted in the end even though he did not successfully rape dejanira it was more like REVENGE SUCCEEDED! dejanira was too vulnerable,possessive and insecure IMO. I don't think its healthy to put a spell (nessus blood) not even on your husband to make himself faithful to you, i see that as morally wrong to do and pathetic, thus I don't see that Dejanira was using her brain at all. You can't trust someone who attempts to rape you, the trust is gone and she should've known better.

I don't think Dejanira and Nessus is as bad as some people think it is, i think it really depends on how mature the person is cause in that case they will handle there Nessus positively such as you (Nessus Conjunct Northnode) well! but the Node is a different story that's entirely a different arena, as i see the Node as a challenge for us and the South Node a comforting place for us. But that's just my opinion based off of researching, studying, and personal experience.

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posted December 13, 2017 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I plan eventually to add to this thread.
Thanks Doux!

Here's one of my favorite videos on Nessus.

Listen to the WHOLE vid, if you have time. I know she has Timestamps, but, you might miss some really good information doing that.

Enjoy learning ... excellent research presented in this vid.

(topic) Nessus transits Pisces {Feb 2015 to Jan 2034} (Jean Wiley) [52:36] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_wBAgkN7BA

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7066 Nessus Pisces 4.32'02"
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posted December 13, 2017 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by mirage29:
I plan eventually to add to this thread.
Thanks Doux!

Here's one of my favorite videos on Nessus.

Listen to the WHOLE vid, if you have time. I know she has Timestamps, but, you might miss some really good information doing that.

Enjoy learning ... excellent research presented in this vid.

(topic) Nessus transits Pisces {Feb 2015 to Jan 2034} (Jean Wiley) [52:36] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_wBAgkN7BA

currently
7066 Nessus Pisces 4.32'02"
speed 1'0"
declination 21.42'56" S


This was awesome!

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posted December 13, 2017 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:

In the meantime, from the information we have so far, can anyone see this type of energy in their personal planet(s) that is touched by Nessus?


Mars square Nessus. Umm I've always loved to play rough, especially in sports or in bed. I don't care about the rules really. It feels like I don't feel alive when I'm playing in a "civilized" manner, it just is not the same. My opponents warn me that I might kill someone some day. I feel like getting rough makes me feel alive, I am one thing when there is no physical contact between me and my opponent, once an elbow hits me on my face or something like that, I'm a different person altogether, it does not even pi$$ me off really, it just brings out the animal. I think we live in a time where fisticuffs, physical contact in sports, brawls are discouraged and we live more in our heads than our body, so this little bit of roughness always seems to bring me back to my body and lits a fire in my belly.

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posted March 20, 2018 01:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been studying up on Nessus because it is conjunct my moon (2 degree orb).

I think we need to look at Nessus by himself and not confuse him with Deianeira. Who was he specifically?

He was a centaur that tried to do something evil, then something evil happened to him as a result, and in return his "wickedness" came back around again when his blood killed Hercules.

Maybe Nessus is bad karma.

Even when you have bad intentions, that energy seeps out, poisoning your life. My mom is a drug addict. I have Nessus conjunct my moon. Nessus was conjunct my sun when my brother died. Cycles of karma are coming back around. I'm not sure what I did, but I know I've been paying for it in this life.

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There is an interesting thread about this: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/006725.html

I don’t have a clear feel about Nessus and Dejanira, specially Nessus nature. I have Nessus forming a wide trine to Dejanira and my stellium of Mercury/Venus/Mercury (forming a grand trine), and then Nessus squares my Saturn/Pluto midpoint. I have Mars oppose Pluto and square Jupiter, forming a tsquare. Saturn is also conjunct my IC from the 3rd house.
I came from an abusive background, the kind of cold harsh parenting where physical and emotional harshness was present. Strangely even if I was affected, I still managed to not be too affected. I do feel that I can be very cruel and harsh on my mind, and cold, but I still can manage and heal. I don’t take revenge nor act out to hurt with intent. I don’t fall to my darker thoughts and try to take responsibility of my own emotions.

On the other hand, my brother who has Nessus/Sun midpoint conjunct Moon/Mars and has these close, has it worse. He can be very emotionally explosive. He migt even take revenge and punish.

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posted March 26, 2018 04:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mereiposa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by bananaz:
I've been studying up on Nessus because it is conjunct my moon (2 degree orb).

I think we need to look at Nessus by himself and not confuse him with Deianeira. Who was he specifically?

He was a centaur that tried to do something evil, then something evil happened to him as a result, and in return his "wickedness" came back around again when his blood killed Hercules.

Maybe Nessus is bad karma.

Even when you have bad intentions, that energy seeps out, poisoning your life. My mom is a drug addict. I have Nessus conjunct my moon. Nessus was conjunct my sun when my brother died. Cycles of karma are coming back around. I'm not sure what I did, but I know I've been paying for it in this life.


I'm sorry. This is a lot of heaviness, and I am sorry that you feel it is your karma.

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posted March 26, 2018 08:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by bananaz:
I've been studying up on Nessus because it is conjunct my moon (2 degree orb).

I think we need to look at Nessus by himself and not confuse him with Deianeira. Who was he specifically?

He was a centaur that tried to do something evil, then something evil happened to him as a result, and in return his "wickedness" came back around again when his blood killed Hercules.

Maybe Nessus is bad karma.

Even when you have bad intentions, that energy seeps out, poisoning your life. My mom is a drug addict. I have Nessus conjunct my moon. Nessus was conjunct my sun when my brother died. Cycles of karma are coming back around. I'm not sure what I did, but I know I've been paying for it in this life.


I am so sorry you went through this. Nessus conj the Moon seems to be people who are hurt by abuse. The Moon and Venus seem to be this way. God can overcome charts, Love!

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posted March 11, 2021 06:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by bananaz:
I've been studying up on Nessus because it is conjunct my moon (2 degree orb).

I think we need to look at Nessus by himself and not confuse him with Deianeira. Who was he specifically?

He was a centaur that tried to do something evil, then something evil happened to him as a result, and in return his "wickedness" came back around again when his blood killed Hercules.

Maybe Nessus is bad karma.

Even when you have bad intentions, that energy seeps out, poisoning your life. My mom is a drug addict. I have Nessus conjunct my moon. Nessus was conjunct my sun when my brother died. Cycles of karma are coming back around. I'm not sure what I did, but I know I've been paying for it in this life.


Nessus as bad karma. I missed this when this thread was active, which is a shame, because this is a very interesting take on this asteroid.

Does anyone have any thoughts or experiences on their Nessus placement indicating bad karma?

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posted March 11, 2021 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Nessus as bad karma. I missed this when this thread was active, which is a shame, because this is a very interesting take on this asteroid.


In a past reply here, (and during past time period) I was mixing you up with Doux_Reve, and called you Doux, instead of Voix.

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posted March 12, 2021 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by mirage29:

In a past reply here, (and during past time period) I was mixing you up with Doux_Reve, and called you Doux, instead of Voix.

sorry


I'm flattered, I like Doux!

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posted March 18, 2021 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have come to see a good side of Nessus and that is strength. People need this in life and especially so with they have abuse

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I have Nessus conjunct Anteros in Leo 4th house and square Saturn in Scorpio 6th house. I am not sure exactly how to interpret this but I will give you my experience.

I grew up with a very cold, verbally and emotionally abusive father - although I don't think he ever MEANT to be this way on purpose - it was just how he grew up and the only way he knew how to be. For reference, he grew up in a large family where he had to share a bed with his 2 mean older brothers. They would kick him out of bed as he was the youngest and he would have to sleep on the hard cold floor with no pillow or blanket. In the cold North Dakota winters, this must have felt very cruel.

Anyway, my inner child is very wounded from our relationship growing up. I carry it deep in my soul. When I'm in relationships where the love or affection is not returned (which I give very freely and openly almost like a child), it feels like literal abuse to me and I always relate it back to not feeling loved as a child by my father. Unrequited love relationships are VERY triggering to me. I find the despair that comes from them manifests itself as physical illness. These relationships are also somewhat of a pattern with me, something I'm attracted to over and over, but yet so triggering.

On the other hand, as soon as I sense that there's an unrequited situation going on, I can become an evil, vengeful b*tch and will LITERALLY try everything I can do to take you down. So I end up abusing as well. Not saying I'm proud of it, but there it is.....

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I appreciate your being so honest. We all have flaws and it is a relief to talk about them!

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Great info on this thread!

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