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From: ireland
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posted March 12, 2005 09:57 AM         

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Our lovely six year old son has a very upsetting condition called encopresis (not sure of spelling). Anyway it is when the child suffers from constipation and then leakage from the bowel occurs, so not to be too graphic, whereas we can feel a motion coming, his little bottom is like a tap up to four or five times a day. Added to that he has a phobia of the toilet and wont sit on it. Added to that he has a phobia with most foods and only eats a very limited diet. He still wears pull up nappies. We are at our wits end. The hospital told us to try pessaries, we found this traumatised him so much it was cruel to put him through this. I found out from a past life regression therapist that he came into this life with many traumas around the groin and bottom area - he was tortured there. I thank God I had the foresight to research his fear. I am looking for any suggestions or any parents who have been through the same thing with their children. We are scared he will be bullied at school for this. I am worried for him and have gone into a very deep depression - can anyone help......please x

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posted March 13, 2005 08:09 PM         

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Oh, bless his little heart! I don't know anything about the disease, nor anything to do except send him all of the love and healing light that I can, and here it comes:

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posted March 14, 2005 01:48 AM         

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Poor baby.
I know, six is not a baby, but he is your baby, and I know.....
I am with Saturn's child, in that I send love and light.. and I hope that someone knows more and can help you.
I don't want your love and empathy to lead to deep depression, your baby needs you strong, to show him how to be strong. So wallow to yourself, however you can, get it out, and put on a stong face for him, and he will be better able to face the special challenges he has to bear, being different. He chose you as his mama for a reason, as you know. Extra healing light for you...

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posted March 14, 2005 02:22 AM         

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I send all of my love and light to and your son.
I would also like to add that Pixie is right in saying that your child needs you to be strong. If your baby finds that there is something that worries you it worries him double. No matter how hard the situation, he shouldn't feel the tension you're going thro'.Hope he gets better soon.

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posted March 14, 2005 02:26 AM         

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That sounds really bad. I feel extremely sorry for the poor baby. All I can do is send healing light your way.Here it is...

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From: ireland
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posted March 14, 2005 09:06 AM         

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Thanks all you beautiful people for sending such kind words and yeah you are all right, I do need to keep a strong face for him, which I do most of the time. He is such a gorgeous child, if you saw him.............anyway thanks again your support really helps, love and healing back to you all xxxx

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posted March 14, 2005 12:43 PM         

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I'm sorry I dont have very good advice just a few things that came to me. Maybe since you know it stems from past lives there is some way he can work through this, actually, I think there has to be. A way that he can somehow heal the wounds that he has brought over from the past life. Regression therapy? (maybe when he gets a little older) Or find a good healer who specializes in healing disorders from past lives maybe? Possibly a Reiki Master. I think this can and should be worked through. It's a strong psychic/etheric wound he's carried over and needs to somehow let it go. He is holding on to it without knowing how to let it go and heal or release it into the past. I think it is possible. I wish I could be of more help. Those are just some of my thoughs.

Bright Blessings and much Light to him and you.

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posted March 14, 2005 12:50 PM         

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I stumbled across this book, have not read it though. I have read his other book Many Lives, Many Masters. Maybe this could help somehow.

BRIAN WEISS, M.D. "Through Time Into Healing"
After reading Many Lives, Many Masters, this Yale educated psychiatrist began using Past Life Therapy with his patients. This book documents his remarkable successes and techniques.

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posted March 14, 2005 01:35 PM         

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Sending white light and all my sincere hopes and prayers to you both.

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"Our true nature is of no birth and no death. Only when we touch our true nature can we transcend the fear of non-being, the fear of annihilation." ~ Thich Nhat Hanh

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posted March 20, 2005 05:16 AM         

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Thanks everyone for kind words and thoughts, despite this problem Jacob is very strong in spirit and is shining brightly every day x

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posted March 20, 2005 09:20 AM         

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Ask your chemist about atropine.
"Diarrhea medicine"

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posted March 20, 2005 11:04 AM         

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Love and light to you and your son!

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posted March 22, 2005 03:02 PM         

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What about a Shaman Healer. My MIL went and saw one to help with her migraines. The way she explains it to me is that, thru past lifes she has always had migraines and has many karmic entities clinging to her. So karma was a big factor with her. Shaman Jan went in and changed her DNA (so to speak) and corrected her problems. She has only suffered from one headache since then (not migraine) went back to see her and has yet to have another one. Jan did tell her that sometimes PLR's can bring on other problems by delving in to the past and didnt want to do that with her in her current state ... so she went with the healing.

just another thought...

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posted March 22, 2005 06:43 PM         

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I have similar thoughts to 26

Sending you and your little one lots of love and, light ~

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posted March 24, 2005 04:55 AM         

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hi sug,
I am now reading many manions ,about edgar cayce.It is a very good book.
I don't know if you had already read.if not go ahead.I hope you can find some answer for your question.
I hope you and your son well.
loves
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From: ireland
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posted March 24, 2005 08:58 AM         

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To all of you above.........so helpful.......so kind........so supportive, many many thanks, life is very tough for our family, struggles every day but with a little help from friends like you guys, it eases the pain, God bless and love coming at you all. Thanks all xxx

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posted March 31, 2005 02:39 AM         

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I have just seen this and would dearly like to help you. I need to ask a few questions.

Has he ever had a spinal injury? Sometimes with a spinal injury bowel nerves are damaged?

I'm going to presume not as I'm sure you would have mentioned it.

Thyroid checked? Could cause this problem sometimes.

A thrombosed hemorroid can sometimes create pockets that hinder the evacuation of stools?

If all else is normal then the diet must be addressed to prevent him getting sick. He needs to have proper foods that contain high levels of soluable fibre such as cereals, veggies, bananas etc. Also he needs fluid in terms of water. Aloe Vera helps in forming soft stools. Have you thought about having him checked by a nutritionist? What did the doctor tell you about his diet? It's always best to double check with them before you change anything.

I'll ask someone who would probably know more about this condition and report back.

Gia

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posted March 31, 2005 02:56 AM         

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Sorry i had to log off for a few seconds to ask further advice. The watery diarrohea is because the bowel produces fluid when constantly irritated. He may hate the toliet but you must train him to sit on it at regular intervals. They say this because it's like a training for the bowel to release. Enemas are common to begin with though I agree with you totally about the trauma perhaps only a few times, now and then. I would try foods first. They say exercise is also very helpful.

I'm sorry that is all I've been told. I'll pray for him tonight and ask for healing.

Gia

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