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DayDreamer
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posted May 19, 2005 05:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What signs do you think are most likely to be labelled as having learning disabilities in school and behavioural problems???

Im still in the process of becoming a full time teacher, and right now Im teaching special education and at-risk students. I was sorting through all the records and individual education plans for these students and found that an overwhelming majority of these special needs students are Air Signs...Geminis, Libras, and Aquarians, then followed by Fire Signs...mostly Aries and Sagittarius!!

Damn I hate these labels...these kids are not stupid!! Many kids, obviously, have a difficult time learning in the traditional school setting, where they are to act as passive receipients of knowledge spewed out from their oh so wise and knowledgeable master teacher. I can't wait for my own complete class. I never learned well from that type of environment...has anyone???? Many times I think that the way the education system is set up, school is a complete waste of time!!!

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posted May 19, 2005 07:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Philbird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My son has ADHD, virgo. I would check out info on indigo children. A lot of kids labeled ADHD/ADD display the same behaviors.
I think some serious research should be done on this, considering I've read about kids with ADHD/ADD having an extra strand of DNA.
This is only hearsay though. But interesting.

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posted May 19, 2005 09:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi daydreamer and philbird!

i was part of the first of the "ritalin generation". i went on ritalin in second grade and i am 25 now.

i definitly have strong opinions on the subject. i used to work at the school for kids (6th grade - age 16) that have been kicked out of the local school district for various reasons and then court ordered to go to the school i worked at. so i have plenty of experience/info/opinion... but i dont wanna cram anything down anyone's throat and i dont know much about the astrology of it.

so ask away if i can be of any help.

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DayDreamer
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posted May 20, 2005 12:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Philbird I’ll check out indigo children. How is your son doing? I doubt that they have an extra DNA strand...usually when that happens there are major physical differences that also come along with it...and in almost all of such instances the fetus or child would not survive. Well a more common case where they survive include down syndrome, they carry an extra chromosome number 21. If theres change to the DNA, it's most likely some form of genetic mutation like a small deletion, addition or alteration.

Beebuddy what exactly were you diagnosed with and how were you diagnosed? Sometimes my head may be in the clouds. There is definitely something in the physiological and thus mental, physical, emotional and behavioural differences special needs kids exhibit. I would really like to see what is going on in some elementary schools..so many are being identified as special needs at such early ages, like you beebuddy! Many times when a kid is labeled they assume disability and don’t even bother trying, become dependent on others for help, take on less responsibility for their own good, and thus fail when they aren’t given full attention. Some kids do need the meds, but most can do without...A lot come from unstable homes and backgrounds as well. And alot of them have reputations to carry and maintain. Maybe I’m too idealistic but most of them I feel just need to feel a sense of belonging and worth...they need a boost in self esteem and confidence.

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posted May 20, 2005 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ADHD is shown by the conjunction or square of Mercury and Mars

this isn't the only aspect that shows hyperactivity, just the most common.

the aspect alone is not enough to show hyperactivity its got to be in supporting houses and signs.

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beebuddy
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posted May 21, 2005 12:06 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
daydreamer, a psychologist just said that i had ADHD. i never understood what they were talking about and i thought they were crazy. then the MD prescribed ritalin. i hated school for the most part and got kicked out of a few. my parents are great for the most part, healthy stable, loving environment etc...

some people were saying i was a genius before i went to school and i scored high in the IQ test and i could carry on a conversation by age 1. but anything i was bad at like learning math, grammer or basically anything they teach in school i would just not do it. if it was hard AND boring there was just not a chance of me doing it. so i come more from a upper-middle class background. I was the one torturing my parents and not the other way around.

the kids i worked with for a few years came from the opposite situations, very often abused or very poor.

i dont beleive there is any such thing as "ADHD or ADD". maybe people lack the attention to do certain tasks but that is the way the world has always been and its not a disorder. the problems are varied, victims of abuse are sometimes incapable of resisting the urge to act out the abuse that they endured and they become more or less socio-pathic. im no expert on that, but the rest of the kids who just cant sit still need to be introduced to as many things/ideas/places etc... as possible so that they can discover what interests them and put the tremendous amount of energy they have into their interest. people are so varied and schools aren't. not everybody should be pushed to learn stuff in such a regimented way. creative minds suffocate in schools.

there isn't a single solution, but if people realized that there is no use pushing a kid who will be the greatest hair-stylist or car mechanic to learn about antonyms and prepositions, then those kids would maybe be spared some depressing issues. those kids aren't "failures" because they cant or dont want to do algebra, they would be great at something but society has chosen to put everyone through the educational ringer.

offtopic, public schools are just social conditioning. think about the social structure that was established in high-school, it remains throughout life! the good looking popular guy with all the chicks usually gets rich. the poor kid who was kinda dirty and not so handsome and popular probably works for the popular guy when they get out of highschool. schools represent a lot of our social structure.

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DayDreamer
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posted May 21, 2005 05:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Totally agree with you beebuddy. Are you still on ritalin? Jokes!!! You make perfect sense to me. I know I would have been labelled as learning disabled if I didn't learn to keep my mouth shut and my hands to myself. I could never learn in class. Most of the things I've learned were on my own time and when I was searching for an answer. Maybe some things in school should be more problem based oriented. Once there is a question in mind on whatever subject, it can get your curiousity flowing, and help drive a thirst for knowledge. It's hard to learn what your teacher makes you learn, you have to really discipline, force yourself to do it. And some kids just don't care to go with their teacher's/edu system's whims. And it really is difficult to concentrate on learning when there are popularity contests and other social and peer influences going on around you...that really did hinder my learning. But I guess I did learn alot about social interaction and stuff like that?! I guess?

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DayDreamer
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posted May 22, 2005 12:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know why I missed what you wrote lalalinda...

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ADHD is shown by the conjunction or square of Mercury and Mars

I have this aspect. Mars conjunct Mercury and conjunct Sun in Aqua, and Gemini ascendant. One of the Edu assistants asked me if I have ADHD...because I talk like a maniac!! lol I have to or I forget what I'm saying very easily. My mind works at warp speed and not in a linear fashion! A big reason why I couldnt do well in English class. I couldn't write essays...one of the reasons I didn't like English class much! Worked on it in post-secondary...still need to work on it!

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Wyldflower
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posted May 22, 2005 01:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
DayDreamer… I don’t know how astrology plays a factor in ADHD/ADD kids. I can speak as a Mother of a child who has battled over the years with the schools, teachers and doctors regarding my son and ADHD. I have always known my son was special in ways the rest of the world may not understand, not even me. He thinks so much “out-side the box” others see him as kind of strange. I see it as a special gift to have that kind of thiking process. Kids are labeled ADHD/ADD when in fact they may just learn things differently than other kids or have other factors in his/her life. Bee..gave many examples in his post. Sadly so often labels are giving and meds are passed out. Drugging them up is much easier than getting to the root of what really going on with the child, not the best way to help the “at-risk child”. Depending on the case it could do more harm than good. When my son was in the seventh grade I took him to Scottish Rite Hospital. I wanted a true diagnosed and I got one. My son was not ADHD; he was a combo of many different elements that played a factor in his behavior and learning.

Starting from the time he was born. During the delivery things went well at first, without warning the delivery became high risk (toxic poisoning during labor, my blood pressure shot through the roof). In his delivery records they found right before he was born the monitor showed a very high heart rate that at one point it dropped fast to a dangerously low rate, within a few minutes it became normal again. They would not say if he lost any oxygen during this time. If it did it would have been very little. What you said about during pregnancy got me to thinking. I wanted to share my story with you.

His true diagnoses: (per hospital testing)
ADHD, Previously recognized (age 7)
Records Reflect: DX & Meds by psychiatrist (1996)

Currently not on meds pending a full evaluation per second psychiatrist (meds removed 13 months ago)

Test results (2002) show the following (age 12):

Vocabulary Comprehension Disorder
Mixed Receptive & Expressive Oral Language Disorder
Average Nonverbal Intellect

A Language Based Learning Disability manifesting as:
Reading Disorders
Written Expression Disorders
Math Disorders
Handwriting Problems

He also has a very high IQ; his emotional IQ was below average. They felt the emotional IQ was low due to these two factors.

“One his disorder would make him more isolated from other children, them thinking of him as dumb/stupid. Second, to which came later (after DX) due to parents divorce. Emotional issues are being addressed through therapy. Only meds recommend possibly would be anit-depressants for emotional issues. AHDH medications are not recommended. Meds should be up to the treating Psychiatrist accruing to what if any are needed for depression.”

Most kids with this disorder are first thought of as ADHD. Why? They are not able to learn the same as other children. Needing a of more visual learning setting. The reason he was not controllable was NOT because he was ADHD, he would be hyper because he could not comprehended what he was learning. Causing him to be more restless in a normal class setting. (Aries played a part also here, I think)

I feel he has a mix of all the things you mentioned in your post. The learning disability, anger of the divorce at the time, fighting with other kids due to the name-calling made him feel he had no control over the world around him. That brought on the behavior problems. He was kicked out of his grade school for fighting the kids who teased him. A reactive bully (kids who react to negatively to a bully) is what they called him. Not all cases are like my sons, each child is different I wanted to post his story for others that are looking for answers regarding ADHD/ADD. Once his learning needs were modified to fit his needs has made big improvements. Counseling has helped deal with his emotional needs.

My son is an Aries sun, Aries Moon, Scorpio ASC. Aries was one of the signs you mentioned. Here is his birth info your welcome to look at his chart. {March 27, 1990 9:45pm Dallas, TX USA} I’m still learning my way around Linda Land. I don’t know how to add links in the post yet, sorry. With your knowledge of teaching & astrology I thought maybe you would like to look at his chart. I have spent many years researching the issue of ADHD or not ADHD in children. Never thought of adding astrology to the mix. I’m just learning astrology I would not know how or what to look for in a chart. LOL I hope this helps with your studies of how it would show in a (child’s) chart. I look forwarded to hearing your insight on what you discover when you have time. Wishing you much success in your teaching career.

Wyldflower

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Wyldflower
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posted May 22, 2005 02:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bee… I totally agree, today’s creative minds do suffocate in our public schools. Children should be taught as individuals, not as each is the same. You need to find tune the things they excel in, targeting the best way to teach the weak skills. This is rarely done, one reason some fall through the cracks in today’s educational system. My son is one of those kids that almost did.

DayDreamer & Bee I admire & respect you both for taking on the challenge of helping special needs and at risk kids. As a mother who has face this challenge with her own son, I understand the challenges you will face. I would be happy to help with any questions you may have from a mother’s point of view. Y’all can help me understand how astrology might come into play. Here is a kid that has all the above factors coming into play. He has not taken or been on any meds going on four years now.

Wyldflower

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DayDreamer
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posted May 22, 2005 05:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wyldflower ,

This is one field I am truly passionate about and plan on really looking into its depth, especially in the years to come. In the mean time I will do as much as I can to help you on this thread.

Your son is truly very special. And him being an Aries, possesses strong and pioneering qualities that many people do lack.

This is my last week in school, so next week I can take a better look at your inquiry, and your son's chart and maybe give you some advice from there.

Best wishes in the mean time

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beebuddy
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posted May 22, 2005 07:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lalalinda, my first thought was a heavily or poorly aspected pluto could be an ADD sign. the reason i say so is that pluto is so closely tied to one-pointed focus.

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Randall
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posted May 23, 2005 08:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ADD should not be treated as a disorder--but as a reaction of evolving children to outdated school procedures.

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lalalinda
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posted May 23, 2005 01:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you Randall

Pluto is so slow and deliberate that hyperactivity just doesn't fall there.
Pluto is obsessive (focused)
where mars/mercury is everywhere at once.
thats what Mars does with this aspect, it fires up the mentality.

P.S I've noticed that most ADHD children are at a genius level somewhere.

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DayDreamer
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posted May 23, 2005 07:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe Pluto and OCD????

What aspects with pluto do you have in mind beebuddy?? Wonder what a Pluto and Mars/or Uranus/or Mercury mix would bring?

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lalalinda
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posted May 24, 2005 12:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars conjunct Pluto would make Keyser Soze (the Usual Suspects) look like a cream puff.

This could arguably be called one of the most intense, powerful aspects in astrology.

You know how you always hear that James Bond must be a Scorpio?? More like Mars conjunct Pluto. Sexy and deadly

Mercury conjunct Uranus is a genius aspect
Uranus being the higher octave of Mercury.

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Wyldflower
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posted May 24, 2005 02:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
DayDreamer ~ I hope his chart helps with your reasearch. With your passion the kids you touch will be blessed.

Randall ~ very true!

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beebuddy
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posted May 24, 2005 06:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi daydreamer,
im not really sure what pluto aspect would indicate add. it was just a first thought, but i guess that the outer planets act on the closer planets and since pluto is the last planet it could only indicate that there would be focus. but still my chart doesnt seem to have any of the aspects mentioned, so i got to thinkin.

the only hard aspects are mars(7th) square P.fortunae (10th), mars (7th) square saturn (10th), mars(7th) opposed neptune(1st).

mercury(9th) conjunct jupiter(9th), mercury(9th) square uranus(12th), mercury(9th) square chiron(6th), mercury(9th) square ASC(scorp)

uranus(12th) opposed moon(7th), uranus square jupiter(9th), uranus opposed chiron(6th)

the ones i think might indicate add are this one... mars(7th) opposed neptune(1st).

then this combo...mercury(9th) conjunct jupiter(9th), mercury(9th) square uranus(12th), uranus square jupiter(9th).

hm, input?

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DayDreamer
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posted May 25, 2005 10:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was looking at past posts and found some similar and related topics, if anyone would like to read them...
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum3/HTML/001002.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum3/HTML/001022.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum3/HTML/000962.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum3/HTML/000578.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum3/HTML/000249.html


The last one is also on ODD...something else I'd like to look at.

Wyldflower, his birth information should be handy.

beebuddy, my head's in the fog at the moment...running on a tight deadline, and kicking myself for my procrastinating ways.

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posted May 27, 2005 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just some supporting data on the subject-- my bf was diagnosed with ADD when he was younger and I just checked his chart: mercury conjunct mars in Libra. Fits lalalinda's criteria.

So I looked at my exbf's chart. He, too was an ADD child: mercury square mars.

Interesting...

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fayte.m
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posted May 27, 2005 07:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow! DayDreamer...I have noticed what you said to be true. In that order also!
I agree..most of these kids are not bad or stupid. Some are autistic that I have known.
What you said about the signs though, was from what I have seen..is right on the mark!
You said;Quote:
Air Signs...Geminis, Libras, and Aquarians, then followed by Fire Signs...mostly Aries and Sagittarius!!

I posted about my being labeled in a similar way at the thread in astrology about who swears the most(sign wise), but I think perhaps it should be here because it shows how damaging labels can be. I have only in the last decade(I am 50) recovered completely from the self doubt it caused me.
So here is that post:
No IQ tests are not the end all to be all to determine intellegence. I know this because when I was younger, I stuttered, had undiagnosed bad eyesight and was mildly dyslexic. I ended up in the special education class because I was a fat kid who spoke in stutters and all. The school system had become boring to me. They did not know that I had taught myself how to read and write beginning when I was 4 and a half years old. The kiddie books bored me to tears. The teachers sat me too far from the blackboard/chalkboard and I couldn't see it at all. So I fell behind the standard curricula and was lost in the cracks because of old school bigotry and biases. Then blessedly we aquired a new teacher. He was absolutely wonderful! He saw something beyond a fat withdrawn kid(I'd been raped shortly before that and also was affected with precocious puberty, having gone through it at 9 years old)who stuttered...and got me into some special testing programs. To everyone's utter amazement, the big fat, stupid, coke bottled glasses wearing(I finally got eyeglasses prior to his coming into my sad young life)weird, funny talking girl, had the highest IQ in the county! I wonder how many very bright young people are still being "misplaced".

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posted May 28, 2005 05:42 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fayte, very touching to read your words - God bless you love Sue xxx

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Hey fayte.m, I can tell you are a beautiful woman and soul. You had a pretty rough life...I’m happy you are here today to share your knowledge and experiences with others. You couldn't imagine how much that helps others!!

When I first set foot in a special education class, I was astonished by some of the kids in their. They seemed fine to me. Maybe some need to be their because of behavioural problems or other personality difficulties or personal problems but their brains are completely fine, they can learn. They just need a certain, more supportive environment to do that learning in. For me personally, if I was put in special ed, I would have a learned a lot more than I did in a regular class. But that label of being a special needs student really does affect the students, how they perceive themselves and how others perceive them. Classrooms need to be more like spec.ed departments...caring, supportive, respectful...etc.

I’ve worked with autistic kids too. And know a few families with autistic children personally. The range of autism today is quite large, with more kids being identified as such. Generally, they see the world differently...some do not communicate verbally, some can be defiant and violent, and some can be the most communicative and eloquent people you’ve ever met. I noticed many are very precise and fastidious.

I agree IQ tests are not the end all be all. Those IQ tests are very culturally biased. You have to live in, or study within the Western (North America, and Europe) society to do well on those. And like exams, say that you don’t sleep well the night before or have some trauma, other responsibilities, or some sort of problem happening in your life around the time of the test? A lot of factors can go into making this IQ test not as valid for determining intelligence as it is accepted as. I think intelligence is too broad a term for any written or multiple choice test.

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posted May 28, 2005 02:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wyldflower, I was taking a look at your son's chart. Have you looked at it before? It speaks volumes. I guess the first step would be in getting to know how your son thinks, feels, acts and reacts to the world. Then once, you have a better understanding of your son on those levels, accomodations to help your son would then come more easily.

What does your son want to be when he grows up?

I still have to understand your son's chart some more before I can give you my suggestions.

I'll give you his aspects. For now maybe you or anyone else with insight on this can give you their suggestions or input.

This is what your son has in his chart:

SUN IN ARIES/5TH HOUSE
SUN FIRST DECAN ARIES
SUN SEXTILE MARS
SUN SQUARE JUPITER
SUN SQUARE URANUS
SUN SQUARE NEPTUNE

ASCENDANT IN SCORPIO 2ND DECAN (PISCES/NEPTUNE SUB INFLUENCE)

MOON IN ARIES/6TH
MOON SQUARE SATURN (CAP/3)
MOON TRINE MC/LEO
MOON SEXTILE IC/AQUA

MARS IN AQUA/3RD
MARS CONJUNCT NORTHNODE (AQUA/3)
MARS SQUARE ASCENDANT
MARS SQUARE PLUTO (SCORP/1)
MARS SEXTILE SUN

MERCURY IN ARIES/5TH
MERCURY TRINE MC/LEO
MERCURY SEXTILE IC/AQUA
MERCURY SEXTILE MARS (AQUA/3)
MERCURY SQUARE SATURN (CAP/3)

VENUS IN AQUA/3
VENUS CONJUNCT IC
VENUS OPPOSITE MC
VENUS CONJUNCT NORTHNODE (AQUA/3)
VENUS SQUARE ASC/DC

NEPTUNE SEXTILE ASC
NEPTUNE TRINE DC
NEPTUNE SEXTILE PLUTO

PLUTO CONJUNCT ASCENDANT
PLUTO OPPOSITE DC (TAURUS)
PLUTO SQUARE MARS (AQUA/3)
PLUTO SQUARE NORTH NODE (AQUA/3)
PLUTO SQUARE VENUS (AQUA/3)
PLUTO SEXTILE NEPTUNE (CAP/2)
PLUTO SQUARE MC
PLUTO SQUARE IC


Some of the difficulties in his chart:

SUN SQUARE JUPITER
SUN SQUARE URANUS
SUN SQUARE NEPTUNE
MOON SQUARE SATURN
MARS SQUARE ASCENDANT
MERCURY SQUARE SATURN (CAP/3)
VENUS OPPOSITE MC
VENUS SQUARE ASC/DC

He has alot of Pluto Squares...
PLUTO SQUARE MARS (AQUA/3)
PLUTO SQUARE NORTH NODE (AQUA/3)
PLUTO SQUARE VENUS (AQUA/3)
PLUTO SQUARE MC
PLUTO SQUARE IC


You can find interpretation for each aspect on: http://www.astrologyweekly.com/astrological-aspects/index.php

You can also find planets in the houses and signs there too.

A description of first Decan Aries Sun on: http://www.novareinna.com/constellation/ariesdecans.html

A description of second Decan Scorp Rising: http://www.elbertwade.com/page105.html

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posted May 28, 2005 03:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
beebuddy, What is your sun sign???

I think the Mars, Mercury and Uranus Squares in your chart would definitely give you answers. I'm very curious to know,,, how did you and do you go about working through those aspects????

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