posted August 01, 2007 10:34 PM         

I consulted the tarot for your question.

The Hermit indicates that you need to go within and find the beauty of your inner life. It seems you are looking outwards for satisfaction, and you are very anxious about your fathers situation. I urge you to realize that you are not in control of your father's life, the only thing you can control is your own state. The hermit asks that you go into solitude and meditate on what you can control and what you cannot.

The ace of cups tells me that you are incredibly emotional about this issue, that you really love your father, but that your love for him might also prevent you from finding happy partnerships yourself. Use this gift of love to apply to yourself, and love your father regardless of his choices, for they are not yours to make, they are his. I hear that you are actually jealous of his girlfriends, this is what you are really saying.

The 4 of wands indicates completion and receptivity, the wands is self focused and fiery. This is reallya bout your self journey and no one else, the tarot is urging you to notice that you are projecting your own anxieties and fears onto your family members. The only thing you can control Mia is your own life. You can only love and support your father. By applying the hermit's wisdom, going within, letting go of the outside world and appreciating the beaty of your inner world, you will gain the gift of love and overflowing jooy, which will lead you to a place of receptivity and new beinnings, this card often indicates that you will be in a place to attract new friends and possibly lovers. But the focus must be on yourself and not your father, you are powerless to control his destiny.