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Venus
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posted June 09, 2011 03:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
here's a fun topic

i always notice that Americans make fun of Europeans who kiss each cheek when greeting people.. well how about this over here in Beirut we kiss 3 times, "right, left, right" or "left, right, left"

why? i dunno its sort of the habbit, also its not ristricted to women, even men great each other by kissing we're quite the affectionate kind..

also, it is quite common for children to kiss their parent's hand as a sign of respect a habit my family was never fond of..

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charmainec
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posted June 09, 2011 05:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hugs for family and friends although the hug thing bothers me with some people as I don't like people invading my personal space unless I have a close relationship with them.

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rajji
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posted June 09, 2011 06:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajji     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Shake hands.

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Venus
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posted June 13, 2011 07:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hugs are awesome, but hand shaking seems so detached, something business partners would do and not relatives/friends

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Junethird
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posted August 12, 2012 12:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Junethird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Were i live we kiss each other twice on the cheek... Sometimes 3 depends...

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Gem-Gurl
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posted August 12, 2012 04:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gem-Gurl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I live in Los Angeles. But we are Russian, we are total into the kiss thing! Not multiple times. Just once on the lips. We are like a Russian community so we know everyone, even if there are hundreds of us!! So its not like kissing strangers....

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RedScorp
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posted August 21, 2012 02:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Omg where I live, everyone's so distant and detached compared to where like, Gem-Gurl lives. I'm one of the most "touchy" people around, and the most I go for is a hug, for friends, or a handshake, for someone new. There's no kissing here, even for couples! It's all hush hush lol!

Hell, holding hands, cuddling, or even sitting near to someone who isn't your significant other is generally accepted as awkward here.

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Randall
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posted September 12, 2012 11:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Conclusion
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posted January 02, 2013 05:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Conclusion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We Georgians shake hands following with a kiss on the cheek once only
Belgians kiss on cheek twice or 3 i don't remember (omg lol).
Sometimes i lose count and it becomes an awkward situation lmfao

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Moonfish
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posted January 02, 2013 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Where I live the way ppl greet eachother (friends or acquaintances) usually depends on the gender.

Male and Female: Shake hands
...rarely see hugs between opposite genders during a 1st encounter. Hugs usually come after a friendship has developed.

2 Females: Shake hands/Hug
...being a female, I personally have not kissed anyone's cheek when greeting.

2 Males: Say hi/Shake hands
.. I've never seen 2 guys hug, at least when greeting eachother.

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ail221
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posted January 02, 2013 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It depends I am from the city and usually I avoid all contact with another person. But with my friends of Latino/Hispanic/Caribbean descent I have be accustomed to the double cheek kiss with my female friends.

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SaturnineMoth
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posted January 02, 2013 11:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Where I come from in the states there are a lot of Italian and Greek families who do the single or double cheek kiss in greeting and parting... my family wasn't one of them, that I can remember... my old stepmother used to greet her loved ones and friends with a kiss to the lips.... (nothing passionate, to be clear), her family is the only I know of that had this tradition, they were French - Polish.. but, I don't think it was cultural in this case. Always made me react like at first.... (I was a kid!) lol

When I became acquainted with French customs, and those who adhere to them; it wasn't uncommon to receive single to triple kisses, although they tend to be with little to no actual contact (not so uncomfortable)... haha

Then I married into a very "old-worldly" Portuguese family - you always greet everyone with left to right or right to left cheek kisses(I'm still not sure if there's a preference!) =x

I find it awkward even after years of being exposed to the custom from different backgrounds... I much prefer a handshake or a hug.... but, then again... I have kissy-germy phobias, coupled with a general distrust of people touching me.... XD (complicated) ugh

(As a side note; in each of the cultural backgrounds it was indeed practiced between individuals of both genders indiscriminately, it seems to be a sign of respect, amity, and love... I believe.) ^^;

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