posted October 21, 2012 01:31 PM            

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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
Lol poor guy, Id rather be celibate for ever than deal w a stifling clinger. Makes me wonder if he likes the attention? If he found it annoying, surely he would have bolted by now?

Astro.wise my guess is she is a Cancer or strongly Cancerian, maybe w strong Neptune or Pluto. I've noticed Cancerians who lack Earth or Air, generally cling like an octopus (generally speaking not all). I know a make Crab that's awful about clinging, smothers his Scorpio wife all day at work. Ugh have no idea how she can stand it... But then maybe she likes it?

Another cancer female is so darn clingy & insecure, she's jealous of her husbands grown up children. Never leaves him alone to touch bases w them, always has to tag along and impose. But then maybe he wants her there all the time? Sometimes its hard to tell if its one sided smothering, or if its a codependent mechanism where both partners thrive on lack of space

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I'm pretty sure it's on both ends but i don't see any encouragement from his end but i suspect maybe that there is some enabling.. Is it the same thing? It isn't listed that they're in a relationship and because of it, she's gone full throttle and is making it a point to assert herself over him in full force.

I have Venus in Cancer and i can be clingy at times but as i've not been oh, 17 anymore, i've learned that there are limits...

I don't know anyone who doesn't like attention and if she's supplying the attention he needs to reflect his self-worth.... She's obviously up for it so there must be a mutual win.

She's probably just waiting for him to do to her what she doesn't want to happen and that's him leaving her.

She'll get to wallow in her pity as it appears from her poctures that she has a history of that she enjoys going through.

I'm at least honest with myself when i want to experience certain things and strive for the awareness whenever possible...

posted October 21, 2012 01:37 PM            

The man is HOT. I would not mind it one bit if he was to be all over me like that. If that stupid girl has managed to do anything, it has been to obviously maintain my focus on him and if he were to come around and create the same ruckus about me; i'm a hot #. If it results in my having even more admirerers because of it, then bring em on!

posted October 21, 2012 09:11 PM            

2) I need to find someone like you so that this will work and find someone to obsess over me appease my Scorpio Venus

In all seriousness though, having it every day is a bit much. I'm a more private person though.

She may not be Libran or Cancerian or whatever, however, have people considered that Facebook is a very distorted view of people and how they project themselves. It is pure filtered content. Therefore it is likely that it is a portrayal of either her 10th house, Ascendant, Mars, and such. Those things that are most likely to come across, maybe even Mercury.

Sounds like you have it bad for this guy though, love to be there when and if you finally manage to jump him. I wouldn't say you are insecure or needy, though you don't know why he likes this girl over you may come across slightly as insecure, but hey, everyone is insecure in tiny little ways. No one walks around with no hangups or insecurities, I just don't think that is possible.

I would say, don't give up on what you want, if you are sure that you would like to be with him then go for it, you should never let go of something if you believe in it.

I must admit I like your whole territorial, rage, possessive, mine reaction. Its kinda cool.

I'd say just feel what you feel, don't try and shut it down and out, but try and do it in a positive way.

With regards to myself I guess I can be a little clingy in some ways. I'm generous with my affection and feelings I like to show it and let it be known. I don't consider myself smothering, although someone might say I am, *Shrug* I don't let it worry me, too much... I may not be overly public with my displays but I am a pretty private individual, not that I don't or wouldn't I'm just not the type of person to be...'insecure' enough to feel the need to mark my territory by being so vocal and demonstrative about it to others. I am vocal and demonstrative to her though.

Anyways, chill, relax, and hatch a cunning plot to get what you want Just don't be vicious and mean to someone who you don't know.

Who is to say who belongs with who, if you never try, you'll never know. And if you never know, you'll always wonder.

posted October 21, 2012 10:46 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
sounds like you're the jealous possessive one .

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In this particular case, I agree. What does it matters to you C1ND3R as to how she expresses her love? Does it annoy this particular guy? Does he have issues with it? If not, then its none of your business. That is the only way I can put it.

My wonderful wife is a Scorpio and there are times when she might joke around and display her affection in a very stereotypical Scorpio manner (i.e. Dark Humor, mild case of possessiveness, etc.) During a joke once, I asked her what she would do to me if I were some womanizing dog. Her response: "I'll cut your ******* heart out with your own sword sweetie. Then bang your dead body while crying my eyes out."

Now it may seem extreme to outsiders who know nothing of her or her personality or the dynamics of our relationship but this is just her humor-filled way of expressing her affection. And I personally do not mind it one bit .

posted October 21, 2012 10:48 PM            

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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
Lol poor guy, Id rather be celibate for ever than deal w a stifling clinger. Makes me wonder if he likes the attention? If he found it annoying, surely he would have bolted by now?

Astro.wise my guess is she is a Cancer or strongly Cancerian, maybe w strong Neptune or Pluto. I've noticed Cancerians who lack Earth or Air, generally cling like an octopus (generally speaking not all). I know a make Crab that's awful about clinging, smothers his Scorpio wife all day at work. Ugh have no idea how she can stand it... But then maybe she likes it?

Another cancer female is so darn clingy & insecure, she's jealous of her husbands grown up children. Never leaves him alone to touch bases w them, always has to tag along and impose. But then maybe he wants her there all the time? Sometimes its hard to tell if its one sided smothering, or if its a codependent mechanism where both partners thrive on lack of space

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Oooor C1ND3R is just exaggerating and making a bad caricature of the innocent girl to feed the flames of her hateful heart...ahem behind her back nonetheless, on some forum that girl knows nothing about. It is funny how that girl actually has a boyfriend, someone, who actually looks 9/10.

And our lovely and charming friend here, C1ND3R, ...oh so wonderful C1ND3R is bad mouthing an innocent person for actually having a life.

So what that she doesnt rage on people? So what that she enjoys meditation as opposed to beating and kicking? So what that she is on facebook....of all places where one is MEANT to post pics and updated? So what that she is talking to HER bf?

....If you dislike it then block her.....but no....you cant.

The one that claims the gf is insecure, stalkerish, paranoid, clingy, annoying is actually the person that stalks another guys gf who isnt even her friend. That screams LAME to me. YOU are the one that is insecure.

A secure woman would never do what you do. Why are you looking through all her photos? OMG you dont even KNOW her. Jeez just let - it - go.

Why are you so obsessed with this girl? And to make fun of her looks and what have you. Her looks and personality got her the guy....I dont see him with you...Maybe that in itself speaks volumes.

posted October 21, 2012 10:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Xodian:
[B] During a joke once, I asked her what she would do to me if I were some womanizing dog. Her response: "I'll cut your ******* heart out with your own sword sweetie. Then bang your dead body while crying my eyes out."

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posted October 21, 2012 10:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
1) I need to find a girl like the one you are describing, to make me irresistible to women of course.

2) I need to find someone like you so that this will work and find someone to obsess over me appease my Scorpio Venus

In all seriousness though, having it every day is a bit much. I'm a more private person though.

She may not be Libran or Cancerian or whatever, however, have people considered that Facebook is a very distorted view of people and how they project themselves. It is pure filtered content. Therefore it is likely that it is a portrayal of either her 10th house, Ascendant, Mars, and such. Those things that are most likely to come across, maybe even Mercury.

Sounds like you have it bad for this guy though, love to be there when and if you finally manage to jump him. I wouldn't say you are insecure or needy, though you don't know why he likes this girl over you may come across slightly as insecure, but hey, everyone is insecure in tiny little ways. No one walks around with no hangups or insecurities, I just don't think that is possible.

I would say, don't give up on what you want, if you are sure that you would like to be with him then go for it, you should never let go of something if you believe in it.

I must admit I like your whole territorial, rage, possessive, mine reaction. Its kinda cool.

I'd say just feel what you feel, don't try and shut it down and out, but try and do it in a positive way.

With regards to myself I guess I can be a little clingy in some ways. I'm generous with my affection and feelings I like to show it and let it be known. I don't consider myself smothering, although someone might say I am, *Shrug* I don't let it worry me, too much... I may not be overly public with my displays but I am a pretty private individual, not that I don't or wouldn't I'm just not the type of person to be...'insecure' enough to feel the need to mark my territory by being so vocal and demonstrative about it to others. I am vocal and demonstrative to her though.

Anyways, chill, relax, and hatch a cunning plot to get what you want Just don't be vicious and mean to someone who you don't know.

Who is to say who belongs with who, if you never try, you'll never know. And if you never know, you'll always wonder.

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HellooooOOoOoooOooooOo.,.,

posted October 21, 2012 10:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Xodian:
In this particular case, I agree. What does it matters to you C1ND3R as to how she expresses her love? Does it annoy this particular guy? Does he have issues with it? If not, then its none of your business. That is the only way I can put it.

My wonderful wife is a Scorpio and there are times when she might joke around and display her affection in a very stereotypical Scorpio manner (i.e. Dark Humor, mild case of possessiveness, etc.) During a joke once, I asked her what she would do to me if I were some womanizing dog. Her response: "I'll cut your ******* heart out with your own sword sweetie. Then bang your dead body while crying my eyes out."

Now it may seem extreme to outsiders who know nothing of her or her personality or the dynamics of our relationship but this is just her humor-filled way of expressing her affection. And I personally do not mind it one bit .

Whatever her sign is, if the man in question is not under duress, in an abusive situation, feels trapped and fears repercussions from the girlfriend in question, then whatever happens between them should be none of your concern.

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Yes, yes, very idealistic.. Mhm. Right away.

And what your friend said wasn't a joke.
It's from an old Japanese movie:

In the Realm of the Senses
http://imdb.com/title/tt0074102/

The main character was a hooker.

posted October 21, 2012 11:06 PM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:

Yes, yes, very idealistic.. Mhm. Right away.

And what your friend said wasn't a joke.
It's from an old Japanese movie:

In the Realm of the Senses
http://imdb.com/title/tt0074102/

The main character was a hooker.

I hope your wife wasn't able to relate to the movie that much.. For her sake and yours.

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Whatever the case might be or where she got the inference from, I know my wife and I know when she is being serious or not. She is my wife for a reason.

Your inferences on how she behaves are utterly baseless. So with me being her husband, you can get no better source of information regarding her intentions other than her next of kin.

And you are assuming baseless things about this girlfriend in question as well. Please stop doing that.

posted October 21, 2012 11:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Xodian:
Whatever the case might be or where she got the inference from, I know my wife and I know when she is being serious or not. She is my wife for a reason.

Your inferences on how she behaves are utterly baseless. So with me being her husband, you can get no better source of information regarding her intentions other than her next of kin.

And you are assuming baseless things about this girlfriend in question as well. Please stop doing that.

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Well, look who suddenly got defensive...

If you had known, seen or at least read the synopsis about the movie in the link i provided, you would understand why i said that. I wasn't calling your wife a hooker...

posted October 21, 2012 11:28 PM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
Well, look who suddenly got defensive...

If you had known or seen at least read the synopsis in the link i provided, you would understand why i said that. I wasn't calling your wife a hooker...

If you took it in that way... I really couldn't imagine why.

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C1ND3R I do not know where you got the idea that I was being defensive but I can tell you that is a gross mis-interpretation.

I said WHATEVER the inference might be. Its not even confirmed that she got it from this movie (though it might be a possibility considering her taste in movies.)

What I abhor about your post is the fact that you assumed that this is where she got the inference from AND that she took it literally and relates to it (where she might not have at all.) And now you are assuming that I thought that you made in inference that my wife is a hooker. You made a HUGE assumption about something related to someone who you do not even know.

Assuming things based on no clear perspective is foolish.

Your inferences ARE baseless. How would you feel if I started making inferences about your posts being mis interpretations of people and their actions and how it relates to your perspective about this “clingy” girlfried.

posted October 21, 2012 11:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Xodian:
C1ND3R I do not know where you got the idea that I was being defensive but I can tell you that is a gross mis-interpretation.

I said WHATEVER the inference might be. Its not even confirmed that she got it from this movie (though it might be a possibility considering her taste in movies.)

What I abhor about your post is the fact that you assumed that this is where she got the inference from AND that she took it literally and relates to it (where she might not have at all.) And now you are assuming that I thought that you made in inference that my wife is a hooker. You made a HUGE assumption about something related to someone who you do not even know.

Assuming things based on no clear perspective is foolish.

Your inferences ARE baseless. How would you feel if I started making inferences about your posts being mis interpretations of people and their actions and how it relates to your perspective about this “clingy” girlfried.

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posted October 21, 2012 11:48 PM            

cinder, i would just try different avenues to find out her birthday. when i want to find out someones birthday who i am not friends with (this is always related to work then) - i just look at public records online and hope they have at least gotten a traffic ticket.

if that doesn't work - i'd be more creative and try to find it on facebook.

i think this thread is seriously veering off track. so let me steer back.

i only can think of one couple who does crazy facebook pda like that. but it's definitely mutual and i really like both of them. it is one of my best guy friends and his gf. she didn't like me at first bc her jealousy - but she came around when she got to know me and now i find her jealous streak almost.. endearing probably isn't the word but i will stick with that. the first night the girl got my phone number she texted me at 4am asking me who some girl was that my guy friend just became friends with on facebook. and i just laughed and told her she was a goof.

She is a Libra with a Scorpio Moon.
He is a Cancer with an Aries Moon.

posted October 21, 2012 11:50 PM            

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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
Oh, wasn't that what you were already doing?
Please, go on..

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I said simply that its none of your business assuming the guy in question is not dealing with a negative situation of any kind by being around her.

As someone who practices two types of martial arts, you should know better. As with any given situation of conflict, you should not seek a fight; You however should not be afraid of one if it escalated to that. That is the core philosophy of almost all martial arts.

posted October 21, 2012 11:50 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
I really do not think anything good is coming from this thread.

cinder, i would just try different avenues to find out her birthday. when i want to find out someones birthday who i am not friends with (this is always related to work then) - i just look at public records online and hope they have at least gotten a traffic ticket.

if that doesn't work - i'd be more creative and try to find it on facebook.

i think this thread is seriously veering off track. so let me steer back.

i only can think of one couple who does crazy facebook pda like that. but it's definitely mutual and i really like both of them. it is one of my best guy friends and his gf. she didn't like me at first bc her jealousy - but she came around when she got to know me and now i find her jealous streak almost.. endearing probably isn't the word but i will stick with that. the first night the girl got my phone number she texted me at 4am asking me who some girl was that my guy friend just became friends with on facebook. and i just laughed and told her she was a goof.

She is a Libra with a Scorpio Moon.
He is a Cancer with an Aries Moon.

In all seriousness though, this guy seems to like all the attention. So that must be somewhere in HIS chart. Some people do

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posted October 22, 2012 12:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Xodian:
I said simply that its none of your business assuming the guy in question is not dealing with a negative situation of any kind by being around her.

As someone who practices two types of martial arts, you should know better. As with any given situation of conflict, you should not seek a fight; You however should not be afraid of one if it escalated to that. That is the core philosophy of almost all martial arts.

Since the guy in question is not facing any dire immediate issues while being around her, you have no reason to get involved.

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Oh, i get the advice, thanks. It is annoying though because it is HER that is on my feed every day and i also get notified on my phone of his updates (along with many other of friends) and they have been mostly from her tagging him.

Non-stop!

I'm not saying i'm gonna hunt her down and fight her but the annoyance is on par with having someone you don't like calling you 24/7.

It's not because of him that i'd love to smash her face in.. It's because of how she acts because of him and that immediately trickles down over to my phone and my regular life...

posted October 22, 2012 12:12 AM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
I really do not think anything good is coming from this thread.

cinder, i would just try different avenues to find out her birthday. when i want to find out someones birthday who i am not friends with (this is always related to work then) - i just look at public records online and hope they have at least gotten a traffic ticket.

if that doesn't work - i'd be more creative and try to find it on facebook.

i think this thread is seriously veering off track. so let me steer back.

i only can think of one couple who does crazy facebook pda like that. but it's definitely mutual and i really like both of them. it is one of my best guy friends and his gf. she didn't like me at first bc her jealousy - but she came around when she got to know me and now i find her jealous streak almost.. endearing probably isn't the word but i will stick with that. the first night the girl got my phone number she texted me at 4am asking me who some girl was that my guy friend just became friends with on facebook. and i just laughed and told her she was a goof.

She is a Libra with a Scorpio Moon.
He is a Cancer with an Aries Moon.

In all seriousness though, this guy seems to like all the attention. So that must be somewhere in HIS chart. Some people do

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He has Sun conjunct his north node in gemini.
Mercury in Gemini.
Jupiter (conjunct mine) in Gemini.
Venus in Cancer (square my mars)

He has Mars in Virgo
And his Pluto is 1 degree away from my Sun in Virgo

And hey, are any of the public record sites free? I'm so close and we can all finally see what she is... Her facebook name is just a nickname so that's why she's had such a clean online record.

So, her fake name means that she's also a liar on top of everything (LOLOLOLOLOLOL - guys, i'm just really pushing it to the limit with that last line. Lol)

posted October 22, 2012 12:29 AM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
What's his moon?

Are you from the US? If so, which one? (You can edit out right away if you want to be discrete or just give me the first letter and then I can see if i can even help) The one I use is only for the state I live in.

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posted October 22, 2012 12:34 AM            

This girl might actually be an Aries with Scorpio/Leo moon. Let me know if you figure it out.

posted October 22, 2012 12:40 AM            

SHES A F*CKING CANCER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BOOOYAHHHHH!!!!!!

squares my flipping mars..

No wonder i wanna kick her friggin as$!!!!!!

posted October 22, 2012 12:41 AM            

She's really possessive and showy or whatever - is that how you'd wanna be if you had Mr. 8.5/10? 'Cause sometimes I notice people get angry with other people who can do what they can't (in this case, act that way with the desired thing)...

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Her response: "I'll cut your ******* heart out with your own sword sweetie. Then bang your dead body while crying my eyes out."

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