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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
EDIT: i found out her birthday by pg. 3 JULY 16, 1984. read em and weep. C1ND3R's intuition never fails. A very special thanks to the supportive peachbeigeblue.... All the other judgementals? I'm sure that all of you guys can run off by yourselves and just think of the things that i'd tell u to go do.

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Are you one of those overly attached types? (guys, too!)

There's this annoying girl who is with one of my facebook friends.... He was in town for work when we met and on his page, til he went back to where he lived, she posted a COUNTDOWN every single day!!! ("28 DAYS LEFT!!!! ")-- i want to kill her.

He didn't even like not a single one of her stupid posts..

I'm attracted to him so i can't say i'm being completely objective.... She's got no birthdate on her page and i don't feel like looking at her timeline for birthday wishes.

I swore she was a fudging Cancer..... URGH!!!!! I hate her. Just even looking at her stupid face!

She graduated high school in 2002 (and research shows she's born in 84) so that would make her a s-turn in scorpio........

I'm so grossed out by her needy. She has more posts on his wall than he has on his own!!!!!!!!!!!! Is that being just techy-friendly or is that stupid Cancer (or Libra) claiming territory?

What do you friendly people know about her type?

Experiences?

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Layla84
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posted October 21, 2012 11:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Layla84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a free morning today to answer a lot of posts (a rarity). SO you'll see my username here and there quite often this morning.


I don't think she's a libra because then she would have some social life to attend to while he was away. (she'd also have someone else on the side. ) Also, libras don't claim their territory, we spread the love across our many territories.

Maybe cancer, scorpio (water signs are needy

My scorpio is needy, but i try to asssure him. he would call me umteen times a day! I don't mind this, but he has driven away others before me because of this trait.

Neptune contacts would do this, overidealizing love, neediness, infactuation...my scorp has a neptune problems...

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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Would a fat libra be like that, too? She looks like a friggin square... I mean "square" as in a downright bore.


I'm gonna have to bite my tongue because there so many awful things i wanna say about her.

My taurus rising is in full swing.

MINE!!!!!!

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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She looks so apologetic in every stupid picture. That's why i believe she might be a libra. It's as if she's asking in every pic "is this ok?"--- ugh... Pisces?


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Layla84
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posted October 21, 2012 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Layla84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by C1ND3R:
She looks so apologetic in every stupid picture. That's why i believe she might be a libra. It's as if she's asking in every pic "is this ok?"--- ugh... Pisces?


not a libra

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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ARGHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


This is driving me INSANE!!!!!

I just wanna stomp her face in!

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Layla84
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posted October 21, 2012 11:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Layla84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by C1ND3R:
ARGHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


This is driving me INSANE!!!!!

I just wanna stomp her face in!


what sun sign are you- scorpio or aries perhaps

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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 11:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Layla84:
what sun sign are you- scorpio or aries perhaps

Virgo.

Mars in Aries
Pluto in Scorpio opposite Ascendant
Pluto inconjunct Mars.

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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 11:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She does yoga and pilates and posts about having a headache almost all the friggin time.... I can't see her birthday wishes... Can't find birthdate even on google.


She's got this "namaste" shittt about her that i cannot f*cking stand!


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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Transit nodes in Taurus and Scorpio?
I am feeling VERY territorial!

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lalalinda
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posted October 21, 2012 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
cinder, you're a sweet girl but what you're doing is bullying, you've got preconceived ideas about her based on her photos and her over optimistic posts.
Ok maybe it's a little much but they're not directed at you and you don't really know all the ins and outs of his relationship with her. For all you know he may be encouraging her.

You can't make yourself look good,
by putting someone else down.
let it go, instead focus on how fantastic you are.

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Aeline
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posted October 21, 2012 12:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aeline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She's not a Libra, for sure. We're too good to do that! :P

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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lalalinda:
cinder, you're a sweet girl but what you're doing is bullying, you've got preconceived ideas about her based on her photos and her over optimistic posts.
Ok maybe it's a little much but they're not directed at you and you don't really know all the ins and outs of his relationship with her. For all you know he may be encouraging her.

You can't make yourself look good,
by putting someone else down.
let it go, instead focus on how fantastic you are.


i AM being a bully! This is even taking me by surprise i don't know exactly where it's coming from to tell you guys the truth.

It is really bad!

I have no idea why it bugs me so much.

She does yoga and pilates-
I do kickboxing and jiu jitsu....

His pluto is in my fifth house.

It's the only thing i can think of as to why i'm like this right now...

I've only ever been like this once before with someone that tried flirting with my guy. All i did was give them one look and i had all this rage just radiating out of me that they got the point and freaked the heck out; it was appropriate for me to be upset in that case. This guy with the buddha girlfriend, i am not dating and it's bothering me to no end!

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Layla84
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posted October 21, 2012 12:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Layla84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aeline:
She's not a Libra, for sure. We're too good to do that! :P

i second that!

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libraschoice77
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posted October 21, 2012 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Libras dont need to be clingy or stalkerish, we already have enough admirers as it is. We dont hurt for attention

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Layla84
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posted October 21, 2012 12:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Layla84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
i AM being a bully! This is even taking me by surprise i don't know exactly where it's coming from to tell you guys the truth.

It is really bad!

I have no idea why it bugs me so much.

She does yoga and pilates-
I do kickboxing and jiu jitsu....

His pluto is in my fifth house.

It's the only thing i can think of as to why i'm like this right now...


i think just because of the feelings you have for him, it feels like she is the only thing stopping you from being with him. But you have to realize, if you were REALLY suppose to be with him, she wouldn't be with him. I know this thought gets exhausted all the time but he is not for you. if you have to compete and feel these feelings, then it isn't meant to be. I had feelings like this at a time, but then i caught myself and thought about it. I took some time from hating the woman in my way of this man, and appreciated the traits that made me "me". Then after awhile of doing this, i could appreciate the thought that the "special someone" who is meant for me will come my way without me having to hate someone or compete with them, i wouldn't have to try-it would just be easy!

don't feel bad, we all have a jealous streak in us that likes to come out to play from time to time. But like I said, he may not be meant for you.

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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
Libras dont need to be clingy or stalkerish, we already have enough admirers as it is. We dont hurt for attention

I had a friend for about 6-7 years who was a Libra with mercury in Scorpio and she called up a number she found on her boyfriends phone bill (they weren't even married yet) to ask the girl about how much she liked the way her... derrier tasted because he was fond of doing that to her and she found out about him having been involved with the other girl behind her back..

She has also set time aside in her busy schedule of now being on her third kid to go through his emails and bank statements like clockwork.

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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Layla84:
i think just because of the feelings you have for him, it feels like she is the only thing stopping you from being with him. But you have to realize, if you were REALLY suppose to be with him, she wouldn't be with him. I know this thought gets exhausted all the time but he is not for you. if you have to compete and feel these feelings, then it isn't meant to be. I had feelings like this at a time, but then i caught myself and thought about it. I took some time from hating the woman in my way of this man, and appreciated the traits that made me "me". Then after awhile of doing this, i could appreciate the thought that the "special someone" who is meant for me will come my way without me having to hate someone or compete with them, i wouldn't have to try-it would just be easy!

don't feel bad, we all have a jealous streak in us that likes to come out to play from time to time. But like I said, he may not be meant for you.


I think that would work for someone into yoga and pilates. I have tried yoga but it is too slow and just annoys me in the end. I have Mars in Aries. We do not just "let it be".

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Layla84
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posted October 21, 2012 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Layla84     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by C1ND3R:
I think that would work for someone into yoga and pilates. I have tried yoga but it is too slow and just annoys me in the end. I have Mars in Aries. We do not just "let it be".

i have mars in libra....which had progressed into scorpio in 2003. after that happened, i remember being obsessed over the littlest things. only now after my s-turn i have tried to let things be.

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enchantress299
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posted October 21, 2012 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress299     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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cinder, you're a sweet girl but what you're doing is bullying, you've got preconceived ideas about her based on her photos and her over optimistic posts.
Ok maybe it's a little much but they're not directed at you and you don't really know all the ins and outs of his relationship with her. For all you know he may be encouraging her.

You can't make yourself look good,
by putting someone else down.
let it go, instead focus on how fantastic you are.


Thank you for saying that Lalalinda. I would have said that, but in a not as nice way (blunt Sagittarius planets).

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quote:Originally posted by lalalinda:
cinder, you're a sweet girl but what you're doing is bullying, you've got preconceived ideas about her based on her photos and her over optimistic posts.
Ok maybe it's a little much but they're not directed at you and you don't really know all the ins and outs of his relationship with her. For all you know he may be encouraging her.

You can't make yourself look good,
by putting someone else down.
let it go, instead focus on how fantastic you are.

i AM being a bully! This is even taking me by surprise i don't know exactly where it's coming from to tell you guys the truth.

It is really bad!

I have no idea why it bugs me so much.

She does yoga and pilates-
I do kickboxing and jiu jitsu....

His pluto is in my fifth house.

It's the only thing i can think of as to why i'm like this right now...

I've only ever been like this once before that tried flirting with my guy. All i did was give them one look and i had all this rage just radiating out of that they got the point and freaked the heck out; it was appropriate for me to be upset in that case. This guy with the buddha girlfriend, i am not dating and it's bothering me to no end!


Honestly, I was going to say that YOU sound like the insecure needy one because you're directing your rage at someone who probably doesn't even know that you exist. Why is it such a threat to your ego? Find a guy who is actually available and who might appreciate you and move on.

Look, I'm a Virgo with an Aries Moon, so I get the 0 to 60 mentality that can go along with the Virgo/Aries combo sometimes, but you need to find an outlet... Like another hot guy that comes your way that you can flirt with... Or a punching bag. Either way, peace loving people aren't a bad thing, and if you go ape sh*t on this person, she might look like the "needy one," but you will look like the "crazy one." (If we're going with bad stereotypes here, because clearly we are).

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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't recall anyone saying this had anything to do with my ego because if it did, i'd be the first to admit it.

You're so kind to offer your "broad" perspective.

An Aries Moon is in NO WAY on par with dignified Mars in Aries.

Everyone i grew up with was an Aries Moon with me being the only Moon in Leo. The issue here has nothing to do with ego but it does have to do with territory.

She's not just being nice or cutesy, that b*tch is insecure and it's why she's making it a point to post onto his page every five minutes. "See you in 6.5 hours!!! " so that everyone sees it and that "everyone" includes me and now i know and i wanna drop an anvil on her as soon as i get the chance.

Even if i wasn't to end up dating the guy and we just became friends, NO ONE can get a word in with her overbearing as$ and i take it as intrusive, and slightly personal. Yes, i do. He may allow her to overstep her boundaries and so, it's probably why i'm pisssed.

She's stepping on toes.

I see her more on my feed than i do him and she and i aren't even friends!!!!!

I'd block her but then i'd miss out on the 20,000 pictures that she daily tags him in!


The guy is a 8/9 out of 10.

I've already claimed him. Period. If there were ever a more Taurean trait about me, i wouldn't know it. Once i've decided something is mine, then it is MINE. Period.

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pisces moon
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posted October 21, 2012 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pisces moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With all due respect c1nd3r, you're the one coming across as the stalker. Researching her-really. And Getting all ****** off and coming here to down some girl just because she's too happy for your tastes and is posting on some guys wall.

You need to get a grip or you could get yourself in trouble.

I'm also a virgo with taurus rising with mars in a fire sign (leo) It's funny how very similar placements can show themsevles so differently. Oh, and no I'm not one of those overly attached types.

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C1ND3R
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posted October 21, 2012 12:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by pisces moon:
With all due respect c1nd3r, you're the one coming across as the stalker. Researching her-really. And Getting all ****** off and coming here to down some girl just because she's too happy for your tastes and is posting on some guys wall.

You need to get a grip or you could get yourself in trouble.

I'm also a virgo with taurus rising with mars in a fire sign (leo) It's funny how very similar placements can show themsevles so differently. Oh, and no I'm not one of those overly attached types.



Yup. It's called facebook stalking and i have no qualms about doing it. In fact, i believe it may be the norm.

If anyone here were to say they've never, then guess what? Prepare for lightning to strike you right where you stand.


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posted October 21, 2012 01:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PhoenixFire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol poor guy, Id rather be celibate for ever than deal w a stifling clinger. Makes me wonder if he likes the attention? If he found it annoying, surely he would have bolted by now?

Astro.wise my guess is she is a Cancer or strongly Cancerian, maybe w strong Neptune or Pluto. I've noticed Cancerians who lack Earth or Air, generally cling like an octopus (generally speaking not all). I know a make Crab that's awful about clinging, smothers his Scorpio wife all day at work. Ugh have no idea how she can stand it... But then maybe she likes it?

Another cancer female is so darn clingy & insecure, she's jealous of her husbands grown up children. Never leaves him alone to touch bases w them, always has to tag along and impose. But then maybe he wants her there all the time? Sometimes its hard to tell if its one sided smothering, or if its a codependent mechanism where both partners thrive on lack of space

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hmm
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posted October 21, 2012 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hmm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
argh just back off and don't be a homewrecker..

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