posted April 03, 2013 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by T:
btw, why do my threads always have to go haywire and awkward weird?

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posted April 04, 2013 01:27 AM            

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Originally posted by T:
Can we be cool with each other?

I will continue to ignore your boyfriend.

I really find it sad when women can't support each other or at least be cordial. My PMS will never rear it's ugly head with you.

You are too nice of a girl. I don't want any beef with you. & wish you the best.

K...this is coming out awkward. I don't like to fight with anyone. Especially women....women who I've never even met before. It's weird and unnecessary.

I don't like it. I don't want it. We dont' have to be friends, but ......just know that I don't hate you or ever want to fight with you.

Okay? Please?

Take care doll.

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posted April 04, 2013 06:34 AM            

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charmainec: I say this because we have at least two teens here who are very mature for their age so I hope you understand what I mean.

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MEEEEEEE!

posted April 04, 2013 07:44 AM            

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posted April 04, 2013 02:19 PM            

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Originally posted by charmainec:
We can or at least try. I'll appreciate it if you could ignore him since it's the main reason for our catish outlashes. You are allowed to have an opinion and no, you don't have to agree with everything he says - it's just when you start going at him with personal insults, it affects me.
Wanting to defend a person we care and love is a natural response. I'm sure you can relate and understand.

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Thing is, 99% of the time i do ignore and usually only respond if spoken directly to, provoked or have to stick up for myself and even sometimes then, I don't respond. I have gotten the same kind of treatment at times and will defend myself when need be. I started the ignoring and thankfully, eventually he followed suit. I will continue to ignore as it's not hard for me to do.

I understand wanting to defend someone you love, just as i'm sure you understand wanting to defend yourself. Thankfully we are all passed that now and I think have been for awhile.

I don't like all the blame heaped on me as it is not fair.

posted April 04, 2013 02:24 PM            

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Originally posted by charmainec:
And stop referring to yourself as some ancient old woman, jeez. Being in your 30's isn't old!

I think generally people get to a point in their lives when they had enough of any type of BS. To me all comes with emotional growth and not do with age, but life experiences. I say this because we have at least two teens here who are very mature for their age so I hope you understand what I mean.

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Well, I have few health problems going on that make me feel a lot older than I am. That's where that comes from. Not to mention my rising sign is usually born an old person as they say.

Yes, I understand what you are saying. I also don't deal with immature people too well. I know some people mix up my silliness for immaturity, but that is one of the last things that I am. In the past I have stooped to immature people's levels here.

Yes, just as there are mature teens here, there are a few immature people in their 40's or older. Of course no one is one or the other all of the time.

Glad we've come to an understanding and you know now I don't have anything against you.

posted April 04, 2013 04:48 PM            

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Originally posted by charmainec:

I have to feed my fluffas now. This was actually fun.. I haven't had this much fun on here for a while come to think of it.
Now everyone will read this and be like wtf? Charm and T didn't rip each others heads off? O_o Yeah, have to see the humor in it.

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posted April 05, 2013 05:03 AM            

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Well, I have few health problems going on that make me feel a lot older than I am. That's where that comes from. Not to mention my rising sign is usually born an old person as they say.

Yes, I understand what you are saying. I also don't deal with immature people too well. I know some people mix up my silliness for immaturity, but that is one of the last things that I am. In the past I have stooped to immature people's levels here.

Yes, just as there are mature teens here, there are a few immature people in their 40's or older. Of course no one is one or the other all of the time.

Glad we've come to an understanding and you know now I don't have anything against you.

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Let's let sleeping dogs lie and move forward from here. We can go back and forth about why we react the way we do all day.

As for mixing up silliness for immaturity.. I agree. You can spot a distinct difference between the two though (depending on whether the individual doing the observing is a permanent serious prune face or not).

Oh, yes, you're a cappy rising. You may feel old from the inside but you'll look younger from the outside! Health issues tend to make us feel "broken" so now it makes sense. I always wondered why on earth you kept making those your- so- old statements.

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posted April 05, 2013 05:11 AM            

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posted April 05, 2013 05:26 AM            

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Originally posted by charmainec:
And before I forget: your advice about taking Ibruprofen in advance helped!
Thanks!

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Good! I told you!

posted April 05, 2013 01:54 PM            

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posted April 05, 2013 04:32 PM            

Actually, in our culture elders are addressed as Aunty or Uncle as a sign of respect. Lol!

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