posted February 02, 2013 11:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Interesting Q.
That's a strong affinity.
It can help them to more easily see where the other person is coming from, and that can help when problems arise.
You can also do something like,
Your Sun in 5th/leo, Moon in 2nd/taurus/asepct venus
Their Moon in 5th/Leo, Sun in 2nd/taurus/asepct venus
de-facto sun/moon conjunction. Not -exactly- like a Sun/Moon conjunction, but the energies mesh on that level.
Or say for me, my Sun aspects all the outer planets. I have tended to attract/be attracted to men whose Sun and/or Moon do the same. To me they're easier to relate to since they see things from a similar perspective.

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I see, but for example if two charts are 'too similar', does that equate to deep understanding or blandness?

posted February 03, 2013 10:35 AM              

Venus in Libra Social Relationships and Harmony-oriented Values

The placement of Venus in Libra indicates that you have a strong need for relationship and a value system that is dominated by the importance of interpersonal interaction. Much of the behavior and many of the personality characteristics associated with Venus in Libra are a result of your need to feel that you are in a harmonious and balanced relationship.
Venus is completely at home in Libra, as symbolized by its rulership over this sign. Libra is the Cardinal Air sign. This active air quality symbolically provides energy and freedom for social movement and communication. The Libran association with balance also epitomizes the essence of the evaluative function symbolized by Venus.
Venus also symbolizes the anima in the psyche. Thus, if you are female, you are likely to model your femininity in order to incorporate characteristics typically associated with Libra. If you are male, you are likely to be attracted to someone who projects or embodies Libra-associated traits.

Qualities on Positive-Negative Continuum
Venus’s placement in Libra suggests that there are certain personality characteristics and qualities with which you identify. Typical Venus-Libra qualities are listed below, with positive qualities listed first and their more negative, or dysfunctional, counterparts listed afterward. These qualities are divided into three categories, corresponding to major Venus-symbolized functions: relationships, sense of judgment and values/sense of beauty.
Relationships: Naturally flowing, balanced, imbued with social grace, committed, mutual partnership, friendly, easily formed - Dominated by other, too much energy invested in primary and social relationships, need to be drawn into relationships and acquaintanceship, frivolous
Sense of judgment: Balanced, seeing both sides of things, sensitive to others concerns, strong sense of fairness - Indecisive, easily swayed, doesn’t have own point of view,
self- righteous
Values/Sense of beauty: Values people and relationships, social behavior values; classical sense of beauty and form, likes fine and pretty things - No strong values, relativistic depending on company, determined by what will not give offence; tastes imported from others, surface beauty important, undue importance to clothes and furnishings

Transcendent Potential
When the transcendent potential of Venus in Libra is achieved, you enjoy a state of equipoise and contentment. Your primary relationships are deep and solid and you extend your
social energies and graces over a wide sphere, easily maintaining your balance. This is a result of the inner contentment that you have achieved through a transcendent awareness of the beauty and harmony existing throughout the cosmos and within every living creature. You are particularly attuned to the natural harmony of the human spirit and the inner love within you resonates to the inner love resting deep within everyone. You, therefore, seem to radiate love, peace and harmony all around you.

Insecurity
When you are insecure about your own selfhood and your own values, you need the validation of others to support your ego and feel that you have some sense of self-worth. Consequently, so much time and energy is spent in cultivating your relationship(s), that you are dominated by your need for others. The all-important role of self in any relationship is lost. Though you seek to enhance your self-worth by being in a relationship, the actual result of your dependency on the relationship and on your relationship partner(s) is that you lack basic self-confidence and self-esteem.

Aspecting influence
When Venus in Libra aspects other planets, the Libra energy is usually transmitted through relationships to affect the function symbolized by the aspected planet. Venus symbolically brings the extremely social quality of your relationships to affect the planetary function being aspected. The qualities associated with Venus in Libra may be helpful or problematic, depending on the particular aspect involved.

posted February 03, 2013 01:33 PM              

Uranus in 2nd