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Taineberry
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posted October 01, 2014 04:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Taineberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hi, Taineberry

I definitely see a Sun or Mars in Leo for you.

You also have a clear solution for his Moon: the best Moon for your chart is at app 18 Libra.

If Sun is in Leo, square your Moon, his Venus on your Mars/Pluto mdp is the best choice, or on your Avx.
In this case, a fixed Mars or Mars in Cap/Cancer.

If Mars is in Leo, another good Sun option is on your 1st/7th axis, with Venus in aspect to your Mars.

Does it resonate?


Thanks LeeLoo. I certainly get on well with Leo suns which sextile my sun. But then, as you say - it squares my moon. I will definitely look out for an 18deg Libra moon to test your theory! I also seem to like Pisces moon to make a trine with my own scorpio moon (which is conjunct pisces ruled neptune) ... but then this brings me back to another square of my moon to their sun. Complicated ... but this is the problem for anyone who happens to have natal sun inconjunct moon.

As you can see, my chart is full of hard aspects ,so it is pretty much inevitable that as soon as I have any nice soft aspects in synastry, they automatically get roughed up with squares at the same time. sigh. C'est la vie!

I really like your idea of the placement for Venus on the antivertex or at Mars/Pluto MP at 5 Virgo. I do know people that I get on well with who have Venus at both of these positions. My best friend (female) has her Venus at 5 Virgo, and funnily enough - my husband has his sun there too (we have been married 30 years). BTW, his moon is at 20 Aries - kind of opposite your 18 Libra suggestion.

As for an "ideal" mars, I don't mind the idea of Leo (or any fire sign) as long as its not opposite my Saturn which is already in enough trouble as it is, haha! Aquarius mars (once again - avoiding Saturn) sounds quite nice too as my own mars is conj Uranus, so I love that ...ahem... unconventional mars energy. Mars conj my Venus or Moon would be great IF it were not for that #$%#$% Saturn of mine getting involved again.

As for sun on 1st/7th axis - not sure. There are people in both of these signs that I really love, but also my biggest betrayals in life have come from these two signs (Taurus and Scorpio) so I am a tad wary.

Thanks v. much for your interesting insights.

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kaianna
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posted October 01, 2014 06:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kaianna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How about mines?

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posted October 03, 2014 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kaianna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Enneline
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posted October 04, 2014 05:29 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could you pls. help determining my friend's ideal partner? She always has the feeling that every man she meets does not fit her; so she prefers to stay alone.
Also, she loves taurus men (ok, that's obvious ) and she loves men (and women) with strong cancer placements and noone knows why
I'll do anything for an exchange

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LeeLoo2014
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posted October 04, 2014 05:57 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sabina79:
LeeLoo, what a great thread!

No one need delineate my chart unless they wish to (in which case I'll supply it).

Let me just say that the whole theory about hetero women gravitating towards men who represent their Sun/Mars is far from being a universal truth.

My Sun is in Capricorn and my Mars in Virgo. Not once have I found a Capricorn or Virgo man attractive (not even men with strong placements of same). I would not even be my own type, had I been born a lesbian and if I stumbled upon my clone.

I have an air Moon and Venus and have always been drawn towards air/fire. Earth is important, but I prefer Taurus by far (completing the Earth trilogy, I imagine).

Of note, my ASC-DSC axis is Sag/Gem which clearly plays a role.

I have three planets in the 1st and one in the 7th, amplifying the need for fire/air.

My empty 5th house is in Aries ruled by my Mars which conjuncts Jupiter [Sag] and lies in my 9th house of Leo.

My empty 8th house in Cancer is ruled by my Moon in Gemini (in the 7th), so it really goes back to square one.

As for secondary houses...

My 2nd 5th house (Aries) is the 1st house (Sag). FIRE.

My 2nd 7th house (Gemini) is the 3rd house (Aquarius). AIR.

My 2nd 8th house (Cancer) is the 4th house (Pisces). I can handle Pisces (or Neptune/12th house) romantically if the influence is mild.

And so on...

Don't know if this helps your research, but there you go.


Thank you for your appreciative words, Sabina My method takes geometry into account, so I'd like you to post your chart to see how the Prince looks like (without aspect lines to all)

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LeeLoo2014
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posted October 04, 2014 06:12 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HI, Kaianna

I see a Sun in Libra (app 20) with Venus in Virgo opp your Saturn.

Mars in Gem or Cancer.

Fixed Moon, best Taurus on your Lilith.


or a guy with Sun in Taurus opp Moon in Scorpio and Venus in Cancer

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posted October 04, 2014 06:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Enneline:
Could you pls. help determining my friend's ideal partner? She always has the feeling that every man she meets does not fit her; so she prefers to stay alone.
Also, she loves taurus men (ok, that's obvious ) and she loves men (and women) with strong cancer placements and noone knows why
I'll do anything for an exchange

Anything?
Your friend has a simple solution to her chart.

She has the following hot spots:

10 Aries
10-15 Gem


People bringing Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, ASC in these spots, complete her.
Actually, she has only these hot spots. Anyone coming with these two, completes her chart.


out of the possible combos here, I see as the best:

Sun on Aries hot spot, with Venus or Mars there as well. A Gemini Moon. A Pisces Moon is good for her too. In this case, the guy should have ASc in Gem or Sag.

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posted October 04, 2014 06:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
HI, Kaianna

I see a Sun in Libra (app 20) with Venus in Virgo opp your Saturn.

Mars in Gem or Cancer.

Fixed Moon, best Taurus on your Lilith.


or a guy with Sun in Taurus opp Moon in Scorpio and Venus in Cancer


yep

And definitely a "warm" planet/asteroid near the desc conjuncting her POF, a personal planet conjuncting her jupiter and mars would give extra sparks and it's a must to have a personal planet in her 8th, loosely trining both her sun and venus

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posted October 04, 2014 06:42 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Anything?
Your friend has a simple solution to her chart.

She has the following hot spots:

10 Aries
10-15 Gem


People bringing Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, ASC in these spots, complete her.
Actually, she has only these hot spots. Anyone coming with these two, completes her chart.


out of the possible combos here, I see as the best:

Sun on Aries hot spot, with Venus or Mars there as well. A Gemini Moon. A Pisces Moon is good for her too. In this case, the guy should have ASc in Gem or Sag.


Yes, anything. What do you want?

Oh great THANK YOU. I have mars in gemini 14 And I am an aries moon but she says she hates aries-like traits in people.

Also, whytf does she like cancer? just because of vesta in cancer?

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LeeLoo2014
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posted October 04, 2014 07:06 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Enneline:
Yes, anything. What do you want?

Oh great THANK YOU. I have mars in gemini 14 And I am an aries moon but she says she hates aries-like traits in people.

Also, whytf does she like cancer? just because of vesta in cancer?


I'll keep it in mind
She may like Cancer because it's her 8th house and her ASC is in Scorpio, but it's probably the result of previous experiences rather than the best choice for her.

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posted October 04, 2014 07:11 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, I'll be ready.

So many thanks you deserve, LeeLoo. You probably have no idea how much you helped. She always chooses the wrong type of men; the opposite of what'd be good for her. Basically, what she describes in a man is what she needs less.

Also, I think with venus & mars in Libra in 10h she probably wants a successfull and handsome man but who doesn't?

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LeeLoo2014
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posted October 05, 2014 06:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Enneline:

Also, I think with venus & mars in Libra in 10h she probably wants a successfull and handsome man but who doesn't?

You're welcome,girl! Actually, she has great chances to find a suitable partner, because she's almost complete in her chart

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posted October 05, 2014 03:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fotto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about this chart?

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LeeLoo2014
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posted October 06, 2014 05:50 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fotto
I see Sun, Venus, Mars in Pisces and/or Aries, a combo of Pisces and Aries for you.

And a fixed Moon.

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posted October 20, 2014 04:35 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Lovebird,

Your chart is so complete by itself...so you have more than one possibilities.
After thinking about it till morning 'cause insomnia lol...

That Kite on your ASC/DSC is very Karmic and points to a Scorpio or Taurus Sun, IMO. I think Moon Venus energy is very soothing for you, so...

Option one:

A Scorpio Sun on your DSC with Sag Mercury on your Sun/Mercury for a psychic connection with your Moon and his Venus on your Moon opposing your Mars for a Yod formation with your Mars and Venus/Vesta for lots of babies on 5/6 cusp. His Venus trines your Neptune/Saturn and your ASC. But Mars could be here as well, for lots of babies and yummy bunga. In this case, the other Mars or Venus should be on your Venus in your 6th house, an important love house for you on many levels. His Moon in Cap on your Neptune or in Taurus on your JUpiter to stimulate a bit your second 8th house, the 9th. You'd have Sun/Moon DW with sextile/semisextile or opposition and quincunx. Venus/Mars DW too, of course.

Option two:

Sun in Taurus on your ASC. Venus on your Eros and Avx. Mars in Virgo or Scorpio ( I believe you need direct conjunctions in both those points - your Venus and your Moon for a maximum effect). And a Fire or Air Moon of your choice to DW your Sun


Bump.

This is perfect for this Wishing Moon . Did I say how much I appreciate you as a Love Mod, Lee? Send you this and thousand kisses ^^. Upon reread this, I prefer option 1, must base on this for my wish .

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posted October 20, 2014 09:12 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, sweet Tulipe!

I'll try to connect with this Moon, I'm supposed to know how to do it hahahaha for your wish to be granted

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posted November 07, 2014 01:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meissieri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just going to be bold here and ask for some help. Am I his type? Right now, I feel uncomfortable posting a chart (always do with posting charts on LL), so I'll try to describe it.

* His 7th house is Taurus, which I don't have in my chart (only Part of Spirit), but I do have emphasis on my 2nd house. That'd still give me some Taurus flavour, right?
* Then his Venus (so it doubles as ideal woman & partner) is in Leo, on top of my Sun exact. Like by 20 minutes. Also on my South Node. My Saturn also makes a minor aspect to his Venus, though exact.
* It's in the 9th house, so I'm also overlaying an important house for me. Natally I may not have any Sagittarius planets, but I do have an angular Jupiter on the MC from the 9th house side, plus it aspects my Ascendant and chart ruler.
His 9th house is also intercepted, so I think I'd be bringing these things out of him.
* He has Venus conjunct Jupiter (see 9th house), square Ascendant & Pluto, trine Moon, semi-sextile Sun and biquintile Neptune.
* 2nd house (extended Taurus DSC) is Sagittarius with a large part covering Capricorn. My Sag Vesta and my whole Capricorn stellium fall right into it.
He has his Moon, Uranus and Neptune in this house and I have all three of these on an angle; a very active 4th and 12th house and Uranus again aspecting my Ascendant and chart ruler.
Enough to make up for no planets in his 7th?
My Mars and Mercury aspect all three planets inside.
His house Venus (I've read the thread, haha) is in Capricorn, conjunct my natal Saturn.
* Second house: ruled by Jupiter in Virgo in the 9th house, conjunct the MC. I have the same house position for my own Jupiter.

5th house:
- Aries, ruled by Mars in Libra in his 11th house.
(I'm a Libra Rising with progressed Libra planets, plus my Sun in the 11th house and mentioned Uranus aspects.)
- Mars square Uranus & Neptune, trine Saturn, sextile Chiron, semi-sextile Mercury.
(Already mentioned Uranus & Neptune, the major Cap stellium for Saturn and 3 planets in Virgo for Mercury. Plus 3rd house emphasis.)
- No planets in his 5th house.
- 1st house, his extended 5th, is Scorpio, ruled by Pluto in Scorpio conjunct his Ascendant.
(My Sun squares Pluto and Venus semi-squares it, plus some more sextiles and trines. Prominent Pluto I'd say.)

8th house:
- Gemini, ruled by Mercury in Virgo conjunct his Midheaven. My Mars falls smack on top of it with my own Mercury more loosely conjunct. Again, a large part is the next sign (Cancer), with my Jupiter, MC and Chiron falling in his 8th house.
- Extended 8th house, the 3rd, is Capricorn ruled by Saturn in Aquarius.
My Cap stellium falls into that extended 7th house but near the 3rd house cusp. My Venus trines his 3rd house ruler Saturn. Mars makes a biquintile. Jupiter a quincunx, completing a yod with his own Jupiter in Virgo.
- His own Saturn trines Mars (see above), loose trine to his Sun, that quincunx to Jupiter, semi-square Moon, quintile Pluto, biquintile Mercury.
- 10th house: Virgo, ruled by Mercury in Virgo in the 10th house.

My own chart below so you can check how my chart matches his symbolism.

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posted November 07, 2014 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meissieri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And here's my chart for comparing said symbolism.

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posted November 07, 2014 04:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hiya Leeloo!

If you have time, can you do my Cancer guy friend too please?
I'm curious.

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posted November 08, 2014 05:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ahhh I'm sorry, Meissieri, I need the visual sorry for your lovely description.


You can edit it, delete it, as soon as I analyze it.
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posted November 08, 2014 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CappyLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey I am curious what you think of my ideal partner??

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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 09, 2014 07:18 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Lavender

Wow, he needs no one, he's so complete haha just kidding! well, he has a very harmonious chart, he should be a great partner.

You suspected he was gay, is he or not?

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posted November 09, 2014 07:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, CappyLove

I see two options for you:


1. the guy has Sun or Moon in Cancer on your POF/IC, or some other important planet/angle there. His Venus is in early Virgo and Mars in Gemini. He has ASC/DSC MC/IC or other important planets in Aries/Libra.

2. his Sun is in Sag on your Venus, he has a water or Cap Moon, Venus in Cap on your Mars and a mutable Mars, preferably Gemini too.

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posted November 09, 2014 04:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hi Lavender

Wow, he needs no one, he's so complete haha just kidding! well, he has a very harmonious chart, he should be a great partner.

You suspected he was gay, is he or not?


Haha yeah he does seem fairly balanced.

And yes I did think he might have been gay at first.
But I'm not exactly sure yet as of now, cause his actions and behaviour towards me shows that he might be straight.

I've been doing some tarot readings on him (about his feelings for me, what his intents are, or if there's any future relationship potential between us) and these are the cards that mostly come up for him:

Lovers
2 of Cups
Page of Cups

it's shocking as to how often these cards come up for me now—and I do make sure I shuffle them really well, even via online tarot these same cards would pop up. I never had tarot cards haunt me like this before. Well the then again I am new to tarot.

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posted November 09, 2014 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meissieri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Ahhh I'm sorry, Meissieri, I need the visual sorry for your lovely description.


You can edit it, delete it, as soon as I analyze it.


Ahh, too bad!
Hmm... could I email you maybe? As you're a mod here.
I'm slow with these things though, so it wouldn't be today.

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