posted June 13, 2014 05:03 PM            

I am the Saturn squaring his Sun by 3 degrees, In fact, I square his Moon too as he has Moon opposite Sun exact. So, if not being able to let go is the result, then I'm glued (screwed!).

posted June 14, 2014 07:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I have but I was the Saturn person and I found it was so hard to let go and forget, it took forever.
I was wondering what is like being the sun person?
Do you feel that extreme bond eventually or is it one sided?

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posted June 14, 2014 10:59 AM            

Being my Guardian Soulmate, we're rather stuck together. But the way we learn from one another makes the hard times worth it.

Strange dream this past night. I said, 'I can wait as long as it isn't forever.' I was referring to our intimacy; we were in a brief period (a day or so, around people who wouldn't understand our lifestyle choices) where I explained that I could wait -- for quite some time, even comfortably -- so long as it wasn't forever: done, over.

That's true. I have a remarkable natural capacity to give others space as much as I need my own. But the moment he would refuse me, I would become privately obsessive, deeply emotional, and sever all ties.

That SATURN of his is conjunct DIANA, and near his ATROPOS (which opposes my SATURN). It's all opposite his MARS-LILITH and my SUN-PLUTO-BML. 8H / 2H overlay. Aries and Libra.

He once said, 'we're going to be doing this forever, aren't we?' in a kind of wistful realisation. I said, 'yes, I think for quite a while, at the very least.'

posted June 14, 2014 11:58 AM            

What I've read of it though, I can't really see what good this can bring in the end. Have you read any good things from this?

posted June 14, 2014 02:03 PM            

It doesn't sound to horribly terrible from that thread.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/206612.html

posted June 14, 2014 05:16 PM            

Generally, at least one aspect from Saturn to one of the luminaries in synastry or composite is a good sign for longtermness. A hard aspect like the square to Sun and Moon shows the relationship as a "stable partnership' may take a concrete form. Many long-term couples have a square between Saturn and Sun or Moon in synastry or the composite.

The idea that Saturn is a malefic is outdated, IMO. Any contact between Saturn and luminaries in the synastry/composite is a potential good omen for those who want "the real thing", and not a fling. The soft aspects manifest more on a psychological level, the hard aspects (especially the square) speak of doing/building things together, like a relationship. Of course, the lessons Saturn brings: patience, work, maturity, discipline, restriction, the right time, reward etc. have never been easy to integrate by nobody, especially in early youth - but somehow, it is also an ideal.

I guess in synastry it all depends on how Saturn is perceived by the individual, how mature, wise, constructive he/she is, in a positive manner (as opposed to boring, rigid, lazy etc.)

posted June 15, 2014 03:38 AM            

I just realized that I had this with my x husband. Again, I'm the Saturn and the orb is 1.5 deg. I should really check our synastry more often. But since it ended before I started studying astrology I sometimes forget.

Anyway, we were together 14 years and had an amazingly easy, very little conflict relationship.

Geez, now I'm back to wondering (again) why the descriptions are always so freaking negative all the time! >(

And Gabby, I know for sure that my x loved me as much as I did him. I just felt it. We are still very good friends and he still takes care of me.

posted June 15, 2014 04:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
LucieLemonade,

If you don't mind me asking - why did this marriage end?

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That's my question also!!!???

posted June 15, 2014 06:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
LucieLemonade,

If you don't mind me asking - why did this marriage end?

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Astrologically or in life?

In life, we just came to the conclusion that we got to the point where we were just friends. Totally cliche "I love you but I'm not _in_ love with you". We do love each other. Just not in the same way. Like I said we are still good friends and he still takes care of a lot things for me. But we are too young to live in a companion type relationship. Maybe it was "too easy" and we didn't work on it enough.

Astrologically, we both have our Saturns in the 7th conj dsc. So in synastry they are conj in each others in each others 7th (does that make sense?) . And Saturn came around to hit both our asc's and opposed both our natal Saturns/dsc. Kaboom goes the relationship! LOL

posted June 15, 2014 07:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
So, for you, Saturn did not provide the binding factor in marriage but perhaps it does for a friendship.

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don't know we were/are very bonded and very much in love since day one really. or technically day 4 actually. i'm not really the type that thinks there is only one person for life re: marriage/love affair. but we'll only know when my life is over! lol

posted June 15, 2014 07:55 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
don't know we were/are very bonded and very much in love since day one really. or technically day 4 actually. i'm not really the type that thinks there is only one person for life re: marriage/love affair. but we'll only know when my life is over! lol

but astrology is just the assets/faults you bring with you. we all need to do the work in real life. maybe had we had known Saturn was coming we might have put more work into our relationship to get through the transit. of course we were used to easy street. so working on our relationship was never required before. does that make sense?

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posted June 15, 2014 10:05 AM            

Then some other terrible things happened in my family (my brother died from suicide) and my boyfriend was by my side always…I feel like we have a very deep bond now, because he just without any hesitation or anything has just wanted to be with me and not let me go…
I'm a difficult person to be with I could imagine, because of my close moon square uranus by 2 degrees, and moon is my chart ruler… I often get distracted in relationship, bored and then leave or create problems. But not with my boyfriend. We haven't had any problems yet, it feels very stable and grounded between us… I tell you, it's worth a million when you can feel your boyfriend taking your hand if you have a hard time, and when he kiss you and say you are doing fine, when that is exactly what you need to hear.

So yeah, we have this aspect by 1 degree only, and I'm saturn. We also got saturn trine sun where he is saturn…

posted June 15, 2014 12:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:

Lucie, Saturn seems to have many applications! Saturn transits are something else altogether, whilst Saturn aspects with luminaries in synastry, well highlighted by LeeLoo earlier, appear to be binding aspects despite the challenges that they also present. But not in all cases which is what I was trying to relate to in your case.

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Still not sure what you are saying. We are still "bound" together in that we are very good friends and care for each other very much.

Not every relationship that is important and binding is a marriage/love affair forever. Also, many people don't stay in touch with their x's anymore, including me who has 2 long term x's (5 + 3 yrs) who I wanted nothing to do with after it ended nor did I have any type of bond afterward.

Maybe that's what you are saying? I'm not quite sure.

And, my other point is that our relationship wasn't at all difficult. So, all the freak out scenarios are not always the outcome of this aspect. The descriptions (at least online) are very negative. But as you say LeeLou did mention it's about how mature the people are, I guess in terms of how this plays out.