posted September 07, 2014 12:49 PM            

I'm curious if there's a tendency to end up with/be very attracted to someone with whom you have a lot of same aspects your parents have. Look up the synastry of your most significant or current relationship/crush and tell me what you found! I mean identical aspect, btw. You can list overlays and other similarites too.

posted September 07, 2014 01:23 PM            

My synastry with Mr.Uranus

Moon square Saturn
Mercury square Jupiter
Saturn square Mercury
Jupiter trine Uranus
Union conjunct Saturn

Parents synastry

Moon square Saturn
Mercury square Jupiter
Saturn square Mercury
Uranus trine Jupiter
Saturn conjunct Union

My synastry with Mr.Uranus
Sun opposite Mercury
Jupiter trine Sun
Jupiter quincunx Jupiter
Saturn conjunct Jupiter
Saturn sextile Saturn
Mars opposite Uranus
Union conjunct Saturn

My grandparents synastry
Sun opposite Mercury
Jupiter trine Sun
Jupiter quincunx Jupiter
Saturn conjunct Jupiter
Saturn sextile Saturn
Uranus opposite Mars
Union conjunct Saturn

posted September 07, 2014 01:55 PM            

So you only want the EXACT same aspects?

I also checked Jude Law`s synastry with me in comparision to my parents; listing my parents aspect first. And grouping conjunction/ oppositions together. And squares and quindeciles (both are rather obsessive aspectrs)

Sun sextile Jupiter
Sun sextile Jupiter

Sun quindecile Pluto
Sun square Pluto

ASC conjunct Venus
Venus conjunct ASC wide (5.57)

SN conjunct Saturn exact
SN conjunct Saturn exact
Saturn conjunct SN wide (5.20)

Uranus trine Sun
Uranus sextile Sun

MC trine Neptune
Neptune sextile MC
MC sextile Neptune

Vertex conjunct NN
SN conjunct Vertex

ASC conjunct Mars
ASC conjunct Mars

MC square Venus
MC square Venus

MC trine Neptune
MC sextile NEptune

And in respect to my synastry with Mr Sag

Moon opposite Sun
Moon conjunct Sun

(Sun square Sun
Sun conjunct Sun)

Uranus trine Sun
Sun sextile uranus

Vertex quindecile Venus
Venus conjunct Avx

Mars opposite Jupiter
Mars opposite Jupiter

Mars square ASC
Mars square ASC

Uranus square Moon
Uranus square Moon wiiide (6.17)

NN square ASC
NN square ASC wide (5.43)

Mercury conj. DESC very wide (7.28)
Mercury conj. ASC

Vertex biquintile Saturn
Vertex quintile Saturn

Vertex conjunct MC wide (5.33)
Vertex conjunct MC even wiiider (6.34)

posted September 07, 2014 02:03 PM            

my parents
me & my crush

her Mercury quincunx his Venus 0
his Mercury quincunx my Venus 0

his Venus trine her Saturn 1
my Venus trine his Saturn 1

his Venus opposite her Sun 7
his Venus opposite my Sun 7

his Mars maybe conjunct her MC
his Mars on my MC

his Mars sextile her Jupiter
his Mars sextile my Jupiter

her Uranus conjunct his Pluto
his Uranus conjunct my Pluto

his Juno conjunct her Moon
his Juno widely conunct my Moon

his Eros square her Uranus
his Eros square my Uranus

7th ruler opposite 7th ruler

composite
NN 0 Scorpio
NN 0 Scorpio

cardinal angles (probably)
cardinal angles

a yod involving the Moon and Jupiter
a yod involving the Moon and Jupiter

Eros in Capricorn
Eros in Capricorn

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So you only want the EXACT same aspects?

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posted September 07, 2014 02:07 PM            

With Mr Sag it is

Their ASC in Leo
our ASC in Aquarius

Their Mars conjunct SN
Our Mars conjunct NN

Their Saturn on Mars-SN
Our Saturn sextile Mars-NN

Their Sun and Mercury in Sag
our Sun and Mercury in Sag

Their Sun and Mercury in 5th
our Sun and Mercury in 11th

Their Moon in CAncer
Our Moon in Capricorn

Their Moon in 12th house
Our Moon in 12th house

posted September 07, 2014 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Taurus Sun, Capricorn Moon, Aries Venus and Aries Mars?

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Yup.

posted September 07, 2014 05:52 PM            

My mother and I are both:

AC, sun, mercury: Gemini
Venus in Taurus
Mars in libra
7HR in water

My husband and father are both:

AC cancer
Moon in aries conjunct MC
Mercury in air
Venus in water
Jupiter conjunct an angle

Me and mom:

posted September 07, 2014 07:13 PM            

And yeah, I have practically nothing in common with my mother's aspects. But SO much with my father's. I honestly had no idea. This is such a revelation for me.
Other than these there are lots that are the same bodies but semisquare instead of square. I'm not listing those. But actually, though I have many more structural similarities with my father's aspects, when it comes to the exact same aspects, things even out between mother and father. Interesting.

In listing, my planet first, his second:

Sun/Mars trine(6)
Father - Sun/Mars trine(3)

Sun/Juno trine(3)
Father - Sun/Juno trine(3)

Moon/Saturn square(1)
Father - Moon/Saturn square(4)

Mercury/Isis square(0)
Mother - Mercury/Isis square(1)

Venus/Uranus square(6)
Mother - Venus/Uranus square(5)

Jupiter/Uranus sesquisquare(1)
Mother - Jupiter/Uranus sesquisquare(2)

Jupiter/Neptune trine(0)
Father - Jupiter/Neptune trine(5)

Uranus/Venus square(0)
Father - Uranus/Venus square(5)

Uranus/Neptune sextile(1)
Mother - Uranus/Neptune sextile(2)

Neptune/Uranus sextile(1)
Father - Neptune/Uranus sextile(2)

Chiron/Venus square(9)
Father - Chiron/Venus square(7)

Chiron/Neptune trine(8)
Mother - Chiron/Neptune trine(0)

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And here's a connected thing, link with DWs in my parents' synastry and my aspects:

Sun/Mercury conjunct(6)
parents: biquintile(0), trine(0)

Mercury/Mars inconjunct(2)
parents: semisextile(2), sesquisquare(0)

Mercury/Pluto trine(4)
parents: square(4), sextile(4)

Mercury/Chiron trine(1)
parents: sextile(2), sesquisquare(2)

Venus/Neptune opposite(7)
parents: conjucnt(5), sextile(1)

Mars/Moon semisextile(2)
parents: sesquiquadrate(0), quintile(1)

this one though...
Mars/Eros conjunct(1)
parents: conjunct(1), conjunct(1)
oh boy, now that is a pattern.

Jupiter/Mercury square
parents: inconjunct, sesquisquare

Jupiter/Venus semisextile
parents: square, square

Jupiter/Neptune trine
parents: semisquare, trine

Uranus/Mars square(5)
parents: trine(4), trine(1)

Uranus/Pluto trine(1)
parents: quintile(1), semisquare(2)

Neptune/Venus quintile(1)
parents: inconjunct, conjunct

Neptune/Jupiter sextile
parents: trine, semisquare

Neptune/Saturn trine
parents: conjunct, quintile

Neptune/Pluto sesquisquare
parents: quintile, semisquare
(I had no idea about the Neptune dominance...)

Pluto/Uranus trine
parents: semisquare, conjunct

Chiron/Eros conjunct
parents: square, semisextile

Osiris-Mercury trine(2)
parents: opposition, square

posted September 07, 2014 07:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Hmm, interesting never checked composite.

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posted September 07, 2014 08:29 PM            

I have found a total of 27 same body aspects, but only TWO that are the same. They are:

Mercury/Mars square(6) - Mercury/Mars square(8)

and

Uranus/Eros trine(1) - Uranus/Eros trine(1)

posted September 07, 2014 10:08 PM            

These are the aspects that the two charts share:

Saturn square sun.
Uranus trine moon.
Chiron square mercury.
Neptune sextiles MC.

Hah I've looked at my parents' composite and found that the Sun, moon, asc are the same as my big 3. Pretty cool.

My composite chart share these with my parents' composite:

Mercury conjunct Sun.
Mars square MC
Jupiter quincunx Asc.
Saturn semisquare Sun.

posted September 08, 2014 03:18 PM            

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Originally posted by libran_dream:
@ReachingForTheStars
That's really interesting. They do say that women might date different men but basically end up marrying a man like their father was... Your mother and you have so many similarities! How has the Uranus on DC worked out in your relationship? I'm really curious about that one.

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posted September 08, 2014 06:03 PM            

After that, I was very interested to check the composite for this topic...because...what are the chances??? that's the amazing part:

the same comp Venus conjunct ASC

me: Minor Triangle Mars/Moon/Neptune with a wide Saturn square to Moon
them: Mars/Neptune/Moon/Saturn square

them: Juno conjunct Alma almost 0
me: Juno semisextile Alma (0)

me Uranus trine Sun
them Uranus trine NN

both vertices are in the 7th - just at first glance. I'm really impressed with the Minor Triangle/T/square similitude.

posted September 08, 2014 09:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Delilah423:
I haven't looked up aspects, but I can tell you that my father was a Taurus Sun, my mother was a multiple Capricorn including Sun and Moon, and my sister has Aries Venus and Mars.

Would you like to guess the Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars placements of the guy I've been dating the past year?

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Checked synastry and composite, and there are only a few (no asteroids checked, and can't do anything with angles because my father's birthtime is unknown):

Synastry:

Venus quincunx Mercury
Jupiter square Jupiter
Mercury sextile Uranus

Composite:

Moon sesquiquadrate Venus
Mars trine Neptune
Saturn square Chiron

posted September 09, 2014 12:01 AM            

Dad has Mars/Saturn that sextiles my Mom's Mars/Venus.
I have Mars/Saturn natally and many times it'll sextile or trine my partner's Venus. And sometimes square. I've only been Venus once in the Mars/Venus equation.

My dad puts most of his planets (7) in her 7th and 11th houses.
The planets partners place in the 7th/11th trine my Mars/Saturn in the 3rd.

His Sun/Venus is in her 7th.
I've dated 3 men with the Sun/Venus in my 7th.

Mom has Uranus angular, dads Uranus fell on same angle,close in age.
Many times their or my Uranus will fall on an angle, in synastry.

That's it!

posted September 09, 2014 06:34 AM            

My parents' and mine:

His Uranus opposite her Moon (not sure about the orb)
My Uranus opposite his Moon (1)

Her Jupiter trine his Venus (5)
My Jupiter trine his Venus (2)

Her Valentine on his North Node (0)
His Valentine on my North Node (4)

They may have Chiron conjunct Moon, like mine does.

It's not much but I'm determined to have a relationship that is very different from their's, so it seems I did a decent job, well, a bit.

Now Composite:

Sun opposite Mercury (0), Sun conjunct Venus (6)
Sun conjunct Mercury (0), Sun conjunct Venus (6)

Unaspected Saturn, unless we count a 7 degree trine to Venus
Unaspected Saturn

Sun trine Moon
Sun trine Moon

Thanks to this thread, err, thanks to Cappy ^^,I did a better check with my parents' synastry, it seems they really love each other but back when they were still young, it was hard to believe. They have Mars square Pluto, Mars opposite Saturn in synastry and Mars conjunct Uranus/square Neptune/opposite Chiron in Composite. God, the old days were nightmares.

posted September 09, 2014 07:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Tulipe:
Synastry: (not much exact same aspects, only these)

My parents' and mine:

His Uranus opposite her Moon (not sure about the orb)
My Uranus opposite his Moon (1)

Her Jupiter trine his Venus (5)
My Jupiter trine his Venus (2)

Her Valentine on his North Node (0)
His Valentine on my North Node (4)

They may have Chiron conjunct Moon, like mine does.

It's not much but I'm determined to have a relationship that is very different from their's, so it seems I did a decent job, well, a bit.

Now Composite:

Sun opposite Mercury (0), Sun conjunct Venus (6)
Sun conjunct Mercury (0), Sun conjunct Venus (6)

Unaspected Saturn, unless we count a 7 degree trine to Venus
Unaspected Saturn

Sun trine Moon
Sun trine Moon

Thanks to this thread, err, thanks to Cappy ^^,I did a better check with my parents' synastry, it seems they really love each other but back when they were still young, it was hard to believe. They have Mars square Pluto, Mars opposite Saturn in synastry and Mars conjunct Uranus/square Neptune/opposite Chiron in Composite. God, the old days were nightmares.

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You're kidding...that's strange! to have composite Saturn peregrine in both charts...it's quite rare in relationships to have unaspected composite Saturn in the first place, but to replicate the same aspect in your relationship....Perhaps this actually means you're subconsciously replicate a weak point in your parents relationship. This really happens, we do that all the time, when they say "like father like son" it shows that, even if we want to avoid doing our parents mistakes, and we try very hard, we sometimes do replicate them. This is a very interesting topic for me. What do you think about it, my lovely flower?

posted September 09, 2014 08:45 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

You're kidding...that's strange! to have composite Saturn peregrine in both charts...it's quite rare in relationships to have unaspected composite Saturn in the first place, but to replicate the same aspect in your relationship....Perhaps this actually means you're subconsciously replicate a weak point in your parents relationship. This really happens, we do that all the time, when they say "like father like son" it shows that, even if we want to avoid doing our parents mistakes, and we try very hard, we sometimes do replicate them. This is a very interesting topic for me. What do you think about it, my lovely flower?

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Hi Leeloo

Oops, forgive my lousy 4 eyes, they do have Saturn trine Jupiter 4 degrees, so it's not peregrine. I can't say their Saturn is weak, if anything, they stick like super glue. To others, they would seem to have harsh Saturn aspect in Composite, harsh but hard to break. Their Composite Saturn rules Composite North Node, it seems the more they stick around, the more harmonious they become.

posted September 09, 2014 09:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Tulipe:
Hi Leeloo

Oops, forgive my lousy 4 eyes, they do have Saturn trine Jupiter 4 degrees, so it's not peregrine. I can't say their Saturn is weak, if anything, they stick like super glue. To others, they would seem to have harsh Saturn aspect in Composite, harsh but hard to break. Their Composite Saturn rules Composite North Node, it seems the more they stick around, the more harmonious they become.

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What is the harsh aspect of their Saturn, in the Composite? I thought it was a wide trine.

posted September 10, 2014 03:33 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

What is the harsh aspect of their Saturn, in the Composite? I thought it was a wide trine.

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It just feels like they have harsh Saturn though .