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Octobie
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posted September 22, 2014 08:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Octobie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by libran_dream:
Ah, prince Harry. I never got the fascination. Every time people mention him my reaction is Him? Really?

I get where you're coming from, all my friends are like "Him? Really?!"
I had to smile at your libran directness, as it's so familiar to me.. I completely agree with his heritage and family drama creating a romantic aura around him, however my Mercury conjunct Pluto in Scorpio resents being sold an image and likes to think it can cut through all the fluff.. *ninja style* and see the core of things and people.
I actually started being enthralled with Harry by watching his unscripted moments and his obvious struggle to fit into his "role" and everything that comes with it. He said it himself that sometimes he just wishes he were "normal" (you and me both, Harry )

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Originally posted by libran_dream:
We see you have a Pisces DC, a classic sign of getting lost in fantasies about perfect partners. You also have Jupiter retro on your DC, in a pentile with your DC's ruler, Neptune. A quick&dirty interpretation gives us the archetype - attraction to sensitive, glamorous rich guys with worldly authority, BUT with some flaws.

Thanks for this little gem! The glamorous and rich part had me wide eyed since I've never searched for these qualities in guys, me not being a glamorpuss at all myself, more of a boots and leather jackets kind of gal.. (with lace underneath though ) Even with Harry, I much prefer his army/trekking to the South Pole image than him clean shaven and dressed to the nines. Maybe that's my Aqua Mars talking.

@LeeLoo - I've thought about the astrological type concept before, I've just never really known the right spot to look at in my chart. Is it DC? Is it Mars? Libran_dream helped a bit. That Neptune ruled DC still freaks me out though, with its potential for deceit and shadiness. Thank god for my Scorpio influence. Although I blame that as well for looking for a little bit of f*ckedupness underneath that confidence and coolness.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted September 22, 2014 08:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Octobie, you may want to try this
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000137.html

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Octobie
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posted September 22, 2014 10:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Octobie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, thanks LeeLoo! Will definitely check it out

In the mean time..

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Originally posted by Octobie:
BTW.. in the spirit of fun make believe, could anybody play along with that scenario and help me figure out how I would affect him in real life?

a well baked pretend pie as an early present for my upcoming birthday?

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posted September 22, 2014 10:11 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm obsessed with a celebrity called jamie campbell bower since a year.

We Mars-Pluto double whammy, Pluto-Jupiter double whammy and Pluto-Sun double whammy.

Sounds crazy right?

We have Neptune square Venus and Chiron conjunct Venus too.

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posted September 22, 2014 11:11 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All right...happy upcoming birthday, Octobie!
Just a few thoughts:
your libra sun on his libra venus would make him find you very attractive, physically, beautiful.
he would like your style of doing things around the house and in your work, an area where you can manifest your originality and a sense of style
actually, your chart suggests you could be very very good team workers or partners together, with you being the idea partner and him, the doer. Team sports, adventure, hiking, energetic activities are also possible (and I believe this is one of his activities lol)
now looking at more markers in your chart, it looks like you would be an excellent manager/impressary for him, one pushing him to reach his highest potential
his Venus in your 2nd may make you rich (duh! lol) and it good be a good placement for sensual physical attraction and enjoying the good things in life
the Kite with the luminaries and the Mercury Minor Triangle show exceptional emotional and mental understanding, exchanges and communication

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Octobie
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posted September 23, 2014 02:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Octobie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you!

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Beautiful_Light
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posted December 19, 2016 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Beautiful_Light     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will add to this discussion...

5-6 years ago, I had a major, major crush on an actor. Limerance, I guess . I was lead to look him up last night and ran up our synastry. Surprise surprise, ours is really good, like +700 or +800 (his synastry with his ex was only +100 ).

Also, he was born on the same day (different year) of the guy I had the biggest karmic tie with so far.

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posted December 19, 2016 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome Octobie

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sp1ca
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posted March 08, 2017 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sp1ca     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Octobie:
Moving this from Astrology 2.0 (sorry Lala!)

Hi guys
Been thinking a lot about this in relation to the all too common celebrity crush..

What's your experience with this? Have you ever felt in love with a celebrity, or felt like if you were both normal people and your worlds interacted, you could both fall in love? Have you checked your synastry with them? Can we really be victims of the stars to this extent?



I have a huge crush on Keanu Reeves since I was a high school student

I think if you know the person, even without interacting with this person, strong aspects will effect you. Especially Pluto aspects - obsession

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posted March 03, 2020 03:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hemilla     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
---- quote------ And I do think that if given the chance to meet these people, they would feel some of this stuff too. Maybe then the synastry would be activated, as you say. ----------

I dont know about this, i would like to think Henry Cavill and other celebs with whom i have fiery aspects would feel them just as i do while i creepily watch them on tv, but reality is .... probably would not. I know my rl crushes with whom i also have amazing aspects probably dont know i even exist despite we shared places - actualy some of them for some reason blocked me when i wanted to follow them on social media (which hurts, like wtf sould they do that lol) but yeah... just because we feel aspects that way dosent mean they would too

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posted March 04, 2020 01:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ashes2Phoenix     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by iliketurtles:
an attraction to a celeb i think tells you more about yourself than what kind connection you may have with them

all of my celeb crushes (i have many!) have their moon in my fifth house lol i've only met one guy who had his moon in my 5th, he made me feel the exact same way - giddy and hopeless!


Funny you say that as I've had the same thought.

Rather recently, I made a list of my celeb crushes throughout my life and my current celeb crush, then checked their astrology charts to notice any patterns. It was less about them and more about why I [temporarily] fixated on them. I did notice some patterns.

The trend I noticed is that among ALL of their charts:
- Fixed Moon and Venus
- A Fixed/or Cardinal Luminary
- Adonis in Scorpio
- Moon in hard aspect to Venus

It appears I really like the above. My chart is predominantly Fixed/Cardinal. I have a Fixed Sun/Mars both which are in Scorpio which could explain my attraction to Adonis in Scorpio. My Moon in Pisces in the 7th house which may be why I'm also attracted to Moon/Venus in hard aspect within someone's natal. This also holds up to real-life relationships.

Within my own chart, I have Venus conjunct Uranus, which is why I called out temporarily as these celeb crushes are always fleeting. Neptune in the 5th, romanticizing the unattainable, I think that can also be attributed to Venus conjunct Uranus.

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posted March 05, 2020 03:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Octobie for this thread, it's adorable, fun, bravely innocent and smart and the way you write reminds me a lot of the way I think 😊🤗
I love that the attitude towards synastry seems almost healthier when it comes to celebrities.
Outside you can get emotionally destroyed for confessing something like that and here it helps take astrology with a sensible grain of salt.
It's soothing when so many astrologers predict abuse and destructive relationships "he's only in it for sex", "her feelings aren't real"... oddly enough the celebrity case is handled with much smarter "nothing warrants them feeling the aspects"'s. After all who decided the whole synastry had to be activated and aspects meant the same to everyone?
Again, such a darling thread and brilliant inputs all around. The Michael Bolton comment had me laugh out loud 🤣

My two cents, the romantic in me wants to believe in you and Harry, because I love the idea that when it comes to love we're all celebrities with millions of glorious synastries with great people, like so many attractive pairs of shoes awaiting to be tried, until you find the one that magically fits, even if they all had the same potential (and all fell in your budget 😋

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SolInaspectado
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posted March 30, 2020 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SolInaspectado     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is from years ago, but still I loved reading this thread, it was interesting.

I think a synastry, even if you have met the person, depends on the fact that you manage to bring out the energy your chart shows. I mean, I have known people who have venus in scorpio and they don't notice me unless I bring out my scorpio energy (scorpio moon). When I act showing my venus side (aries) they don't find my traits interesting. So I would say that, even when you have met the person, it depends on the circumstances, on how both people get to show their energies and interact with the other.

However, this fact doesn't make me unaware of possibilities. I think there are a lot of people in this world who can be a great astrological match for me, but that would depend on how prone I am to allowing them to meet my inner self. However, I do see the possibility if we get to really know each other. The thing that changes everything here is that is famous people we are talking about. It's as if this person skips the "getting to know" step, and you know what energies of his/her chart this person manifests more. You don't have to follow the process of knowing them, because you as a fan already have the information. If you look at it that way, is really easy to feel attracted to someone famous. There are a lot of good and bad possibilities.

I think ot also depends on the signs we talk about. Airy people could be more prone to fall in love with a fan, since they (maybe) don't see the problem in dating someone they don't know deeply. A water sign may be another story. Just playing with the possibilities here.

Nonetheless, yes, I have a famous crush, from the korean group Super Junior. This man (whose name happens to be DongHae) has libra sun, scorpio mercury and venus, pisces moon and aqua mars. He doesn't have fire energy. And his north node is in aries. In my case, I am aries sun/venus/lilith, pisces mercury/mars/saturn, and scorpio moon/jupiter/pluto. I have fire, which he lacks. He has air, and I have zero air in my chart. I like him as a crush, but I know that if I meet him in person maybe I would not show my deep side (I don't show myself easily, even with my family, they are airy people). BUT THE FUNNY THING IS... his best friend in the group (and also the member fans ship him with the most, as a couple) is aries lmao I looked into the other guy (EunHyuk is his name) chart and I found out he is pisces rising/mercury, aries sun, aqua moon, capricorn mars and taurus venus (in hard aspect with PLUTO). I laughed a whole century when I saw the synastry between them and I found a north node-sun conjunction and a mars-moon conjunction. And I thought that maybe, just maybe, If I had met my crush, we could have been friends. Even if it's romantic or not, I don't think it really matters, when you get to know the person (if you really get to know the person) there are things you will manifest either you want it or not. He is still a person I admire, and that's it.

So, having said that, I think that yes, if you had known Harry (not a prince anymore, but at least he's happy) it's possible that you have felt something. Maybe you could have got along well, and if you had known each other more you could also have been friends, and if the odds happened to be in your favor you could have developed love in a romantic way. In my case, I know that if I meet my crush in this moment of my life I would not be able to love him because I already have a relationship with my special person, but I do recognize why he is my crush/bias in the first place and I think we all can feel something towards someone famous, if this person has some astrological traits we like. Even earthy people, who don't go into being fan of someone, surely have someone they admire or respect, even if it's a writer, an artist, or even a politician. We all manifest these things according to our perspective, even non-believers. Also, everything about relationships is more about yourself. Whenever you are attracted to someone, you proyect yourself in that person, and it's fine to do this proyection because that's how you learn, the opposite is the reflection of yourself. So I would not say that having a crush with someone famous says more about you, but having a crush with everyone shows more about you.

PD: Sorry if I made some spelling mistake. Not my first language lol

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