posted July 19, 2013 12:42 PM            

I don't really count the Pluto aspects because his own Pluto squares his sun so everyone's Pluto is going to square his sun . Everyone our age anyway . I have alot hatred for him right now (it goes up down everyday)so i don't even care what his stupid aspects are BUT

posted July 19, 2013 12:45 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
In that case, yes, you could attract possessive people. These are both fixed signs, so the possessive quality of each could be exaggerated. Do you ever feel like you are possessive at times, too? It's okay if you do because these squares can indicate that feeling. Or, do you just attract this kind of person into your life?

If you are this way, too, it could just be a cycle where both can practice allowing more space and freedom. It's a trust issue. Trust each other, neither of you are going to leave if you are both stable and in love. If it's just your bf who is behaving this way, try to get him to understand he can trust you.

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posted July 19, 2013 01:44 PM              

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Originally posted by lovehate122:
My Lilith squares his Pluto . does that even count ? .

I don't really count the Pluto aspects because his own Pluto squares his sun so everyone's Pluto is going to square his sun . Everyone our age anyway . I have alot hatred for him right now (it goes up down everyday)so i don't even care what his stupid aspects are BUT

From looking at our synastry
My Lilith is conjunct his sun and my Lilith squares his Pluto . I think that's significant.

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My Lilith also squares my bf's Pluto.

But we also have a double whammy.

Pluto sextile Lilith.

posted July 19, 2013 02:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:

My Lilith also squares my bf's Pluto.

But we also have a double whammy.

Pluto sextile Lilith.

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posted September 25, 2014 12:22 PM            

For women - Pluto making any aspect to Sun, Mars, ASC or Sun Mars in the 8th house.

For men - Pluto making any aspect to Moon, Venus, or either of these in 8th house.

I'm female w/ ASC conj Sun & Pluto, Moon & Venus in Scorp, as well as Mars in 8th and attracted a lot of creepers and just power struggles in general growing up.
This phased out as I got hold of the energy and the Pluto stuff calmed down through progression.

When Pluto was back in aspect in 2012 or so..Capricorn 6 degrees and squaring my Sun and natal Pluto, I attracted the same energy over again. Very creepy alpha males types, really inappropriate behavior. Since Cap is in my 4th, most of this occurred in and around my home. One of them stalked me for a while which was scary.
It's passed now that it's far enough from my Sun. Whew.

I used to be attracted to all that intensity in relationships as a teen and throughout my 20s. Now I'm in my 40s, that Pluto energy is something I don't enjoy in the romantic/interpersonal sphere. I value my freedom! Obsession does not = Love

Through progression, my ASC, Sun & Mercury are now in Scorpio, Moon in Taurus, Mars in Aries now opposing Uranus. Jupiter still in Aquarius. Sun still in 1st, Moon & Mars at the end of the 6th. I'm crushing on Aries guy w/ lots of Virgo & Pisces in his chart and Uranus aspects in natal & a bit in our synastry. ;}}

posted September 25, 2014 04:47 PM            

I notice that in this the Pluto has the charm but the sun has the real control but doesnt want to do anything about it.

posted September 25, 2014 09:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Interestingly enough, it has entirely to do with how the person handles power. I have several classic 'ownership' and 'possession' aspects in synastry, and yet, it couldn't be further from the case. That's owed to maturity and the ability to handle power.

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posted September 26, 2014 11:15 PM            

Possessiveness is a control freak syndrome where one tries to gradually influence or take control of another's life. But that doesn't mean they will protect you. Instead there have been cases of domestic violence or abuse or even murder when the controlling partner isn't able exert their power/desire over the other person.

Whereas, protectiveness is the ability to stand up for you in public, be there for you when you need it, and would not hesitate for a second to save you in times of danger.

posted September 26, 2014 11:22 PM            

I honestly don't even realise if I knew this until after my interesting trip down the rabbit-hole, and meeting certain folk. I can't recall exactly, but I believe it's my father who said that all of these scandals and corruption exposés and the like stem from those in power not knowing how to handle it. I KNOW that he said something to that effect.

'Those who understand it won't be tyrants. They'll be generous leaders with a good grasp of others' needs. Those who don't will rule by fear and demand that they be exalted and treated like a king or deity. It's not because they deserve it, or even believe it, but they need it so badly they'll take it at any cost. At worst, they are the Hilters and Stalins and Osamas. Most often, they're these corporate blowhards and cruel despots. But it all stems from the misuse of power. They can't handle it. You can tell immediately if someone can handle power. They're gentle and compassionate and understanding. They're not weak, though. Give them a reason to show their mettle, and you'll learn VERY quickly that gentility is NOT a sign of weakness, but a rare form of strength.'