posted July 16, 2013 06:39 PM            

for example a guy im seeing has Venus and mars in cancer in his 2nd house and he is VERY protective . He doesn't like to hear me talk about other guys in a good way . I told him a story about an encounter i had with a few guys (when i wasn't with him) and he wouldn't let me finish because it made him feel like smashing his head up against a wall lol.

The funny thing is im a Taurus , and so is his sister and so was his last girlfriend and he is REALLY protective over them . like crazy protective . like all of us are born in late April . In his case his 12th house rules his 2nd house . (his 12th house is taurus)

I just want know is it the synastry aspects or the persons own placements that make them this way .

From me interpreting his protectiveness i would say its because his Venus and mars can make him quick to anger especially over issues concerned with the second house .

Like is this because of his own chart or could there be synastry aspects that would make someone become pore posessive or protective .

for example me and him have
Mars trine venus double whammy
venus sextile venus double whammy
mars sextile mars double whammy
Moon conjunct Neptune
Venus square Saturn
Mars square saturn

posted July 16, 2013 06:45 PM            

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posted July 16, 2013 06:46 PM            

I would think that has something to do with it. I read somewhere that the Saturn person kinda gets scared of the Venus person withdrawing and that may come across as "I own you" or possessive.

posted July 16, 2013 06:50 PM              

Venus rules the 2nd house and taureans are famously known for being possessive.

posted July 16, 2013 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Venus/pluto.

Venus rules the 2nd house and taureans are famously known for being possessive.

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posted July 16, 2013 07:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Venus/pluto.

Venus rules the 2nd house and taureans are famously known for being possessive.

So venus also rules these qualities.

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posted July 16, 2013 08:42 PM            

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posted July 16, 2013 09:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Yes, Moon/Pluto, Venus/Pluto or Mars/Pluto

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posted July 17, 2013 12:35 AM            

Even in one situation, where we had Venus opp Pluto & Mars opp Pluto -- and we never ended up dating - I still felt like the emotions between us were very obvious and clear.. I never felt like I had reason to mistrust that.. so it wouldn't have bothered me to see him make out with 10 other women right in front of me - since I was so beyond clear on the fact that it would never be 'the same' with those women..... (unless of course they also had Pluto aspects with him! loll)

In the relationship - with Libra guy (above^) - we had Moon conjunct Moon in Cap, My Mars/Neptune conj his AC... our AC/DC axis was reversed. We had a lot of conjunctions and trines but not much Pluto happening.
If anything - it was the fact that on some level he *knew* I was never his... that made him jealous.
Because as much as I cared about him as a friend.. I was never 'in love' as such - even when we were together.

posted July 17, 2013 02:28 AM            

^Personal experience

posted July 17, 2013 02:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
My Libra ex was like this. Libra Sun/Cap Moon & AC - Scorpio stellium. Not that he thought he 'owned' me.. nor was he verbally angry/aggressive... but whenever I mentioned another guy, he'd get extra sarcastic and cutting and try to make the guy look bad. Even if my story was nice... and was clearly painting a positive picture of the guy in question, he would find a way to run him down and make him seem like a jerk.
He had an issue with other men in general and didn't think men and women could be just friends.
He was even jealous over my gay male friends.

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posted July 17, 2013 02:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Geri:
Yes, yes totally Venus and Mars in Cancer can make someone like with a short fuse and I agree a person with that kind of chart dealing with a Taurus sun would exhibit those symptoms of possessiveness because somehow the Taurus unconsciously kindle those traits in a Venus and Mars in Cancer in the 2nd house.

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posted July 17, 2013 05:00 PM            

Any pluto squares in your synastry?

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Originally posted by lovehate122:
Im not really possessive of him im just like if he wants someone else go to them but DO NOT cheat on me . Its okay for him to mention a girl or whatever but as soon as i do it its world war 3 , he does whatever he can to keep me around yet when i am around he barely puts in the effort and when i want to leave he's the most romantic thoughtful person in the world.

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posted July 17, 2013 05:36 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Lovehate, is he the first possessive person who has entered your life or has there been more than one? Just wondering.

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