posted September 25, 2014 01:24 PM            

Personal experiences only.

1- Could you share how this aspect changed you?

2- Where you Sun or Pluto?

3- Are you still friends?

4- Did the Sun avoided the Pluto at first out of some sort of fear?

posted September 26, 2014 01:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
I'm curious about this aspect as well, and Pluto/personal planet hard aspects in general. If it's mixed in with other 'nice' synastry maybe it's more tolerable then when mixed with a synastry that is already pretty harsh anyway.

Pluto aspects tend to make you want to analyze the something deeply from a psychological perspective, and squares are dynamic aspects that promote change. The aspect has the potential to be pretty invasive and destructive, but I like to think that every aspect has a constructive side to it as well. The worst outcome is some type of obsessive power struggle, and the best outcome is positive change inspired by insight and investigation.

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I have twelve pluto inter- aspects :S

posted September 26, 2014 05:14 AM            

1 - Tremendously. From the core. There was no turning back.
2 - Sun in the square. Pluto in the opposition.
3 - Yes. He'll never be out of my life. It's a "till death" kind of thing.
4 - Yes. Yes, so much. I was very afraid of him. Even after a decade of knowing him and seriously considering him for the role of legally wedded Mr. libran_dream, there is still fear on my side. So that's certainly very unhealthy.

posted September 26, 2014 04:20 PM            

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Originally posted by libran_dream:
I have it, it's exact. My Sun, his Pluto.
The other way in an opposition, also exact - my Pluto, his Sun.

1 - Tremendously. From the core. There was no turning back.
2 - Sun in the square. Pluto in the opposition.
3 - Yes. He'll never be out of my life. It's a "till death" kind of thing.
4 - Yes. Yes, so much. I was very afraid of him. Even after a decade of knowing him and seriously considering him for the role of legally wedded Mr. libran_dream, there is still fear on my side. So that's certainly very unhealthy.

Any more questions, just ask!

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posted September 26, 2014 04:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Virgo28:
Hi Everyone,

Personal experiences only.

1- Could you share how this aspect changed you?

2- Where you Sun or Pluto?

3- Are you still friends?

4- Did the Sun avoided the Pluto at first out of some sort of fear?

Thanks...!

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1. Hm, he gives me to think.
See my thread: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000984.html
But I canīt devide the one constellation from the other.
What I did, when I saw this at the begin. I promised myself be very, very aware of myself - be honest to him and me about my intentions.
But that seems to have a contradictory result - or possibly nothing has to do with the Pluto sun square.

2. I was Pluto squaring his sun and moon.
He squares me with his Pluto my moon.

3. In my thread I talk of the Kind of relationship. Sometimes I thougt, when it was nice - possibly one day we could meet us with our Partners. But this was only in a short while. The contact is now broken.

4. NO, HE went to ME and WANTED inside-pluto-lookings. But he didnīt like it, but he didnīt stand away.
Is like "Wash me, but donīt make me wet."

I thought a lot of times of this aspect an it scares me. At the other side I wonder, because Manipulation with this aspect donīīt fit to me. Iīīm straight in my things. And I ask me the whole time, what this aspect can mean else.

posted September 26, 2014 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Marla123:
1. Hm, he gives me to think.
See my thread: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000984.html
But I canīt devide the one constellation from the other.
What I did, when I saw this at the begin. I promised myself be very, very aware of myself - be honest to him and me about my intentions.
But that seems to have a contradictory result - or possibly nothing has to do with the Pluto sun square.

2. I was Pluto squaring his sun and moon.
He squares me with his Pluto my moon.

3. In my thread I talk of the Kind of relationship. Sometimes I thougt, when it was nice - possibly one day we could meet us with our Partners. But this was only in a short while. The contact is now broken.

4. no, HE went to ME and wanted inside-pluto-lookings. But he didnīt like it, but he didnīt stand away.
Is like "Wash me, but donīt make me wet."

I thought a lot of times of this aspect an it scares me. At the other side I wonder, because Manipulation with this aspect donīīt fit to me. Iīīm straight in my things. And I ask me the whole time, what this aspect can mean else.

Greetings Marla

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Eres de Colombia?

posted September 27, 2014 05:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Virgo28:
- Why were you scared of him?
- What sun sign is he?
- How long took you to stop avoiding each other?
- What is it about the Pluto that attracts - you?
- Do you go back and forth between love and hate?
- Is he manipulative with you?

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posted September 27, 2014 09:31 AM            

I really like this Leo Sun/Libra Moon. We have 11 Pluto inter aspects and some awesome aspects such as(I'm the first planet):

Moon sextile Moon
Asc conjunct Moon/Mars/Saturn/Pluto
Sun trine Jupiter
Venus conjunct Sun
Sun/Mars trine Neptune
Moon conjunct Neptune
Venus trine Uranus
Moon/Mars/Uranus/Mercury sextile Saturn
Sun trine Lilith
Pluto sextile Lilith
Juno conjunct Moon DW

I have never met someone so selfish and willing to use others for her own advantage.

We both have Venus in Cancer but she has hers conjunct her NN so it seems like a Venus in Cap("I use").

There is a deep kindness but the Libra placements are so flaky and two face that we definitely don't trust each other.

posted September 27, 2014 09:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Virgo28:
Does he know astrology?

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Originally posted by Virgo28:
Great info....!

I really like this Leo sun/Libra moon woman. We have 11 Pluto inter aspects and some awesome aspects such(I'm the first planet):

Moon sextile Moon
Asc conjunct Moon/Mars/Saturn/Pluto
Sun trine Jupiter
Venus conjunct Sun
Sun/Mars trine Neptune
Moon conjunct Neptune
Venus trine Uranus
Moon/Mars/Uranus/Mercury sextile Saturn
Sun trine Lilith
Pluto sextile Lilith
Juno conjunct Moon DW

I have never met someone so selfish and willing to use others for her own advantage.

We both have Venus in Cancer but she has hers conjunct her NN so it seems like a Venus in Cap("I use").

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There is a deep kindness but the Libra placements are so flaky and two face that we definitely don't thrust each other.

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posted September 27, 2014 10:06 AM            

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Originally posted by libran_dream:
Sorry, I can't read astrotheme, it's so clunky. Can you upload an astro.com synastry wheel?
Maybe use asteroids, here's a list: 1221, 763, 433, 4386, 16, 1585, 447, 390, 3811, 875.

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Astrotheme is free...=)

At least you get the idea how the chart looks.

posted September 27, 2014 01:17 PM            

Personal experiences only.

1- Could you share how this aspect changed you?
He changed my appearance , made me lose weight which I did not have too, was skinny enough, made me more closed+ suspicious , did not like the fact I had a ton of friends, he broke me...is the only way I can describe it.
2- Where you Sun or Pluto?
DW- it switched afterwards....got rid of him, cause I could not function around him. In fact moved to another city.
3- Are you still friends?
Yes , but this happened 17 yrs ago....Pluto makes the other person
disappear( literally)...like you went to Hades for vacation...Has anyone else noticed this Mine is in Libra and I do not see my cardinal pals for months at a time.
4) Not out of fear ( that's Saturn) it more like a knowing that this is going to be one painful/intense/complicated relationship....then its all in - OBSESSION - can't live without you, your my everything....then the manipulation/mind games start...

It lasted 4 years..I think if we didn't have Pluto sq. Venus...we could of been fine.

posted September 27, 2014 01:34 PM            

Her Pluto conjuncts my Asc:

I went from 190lbs to 163lbs 7% body fat - Best shape of my life.

Her Pluto sextile my Moon:

First time in my life that I feel emotionally attach to someone. I have sag moon conjunct Uranus.

Her Pluto square my Venus:

It feels like "I really want to destroy you, but I don't know why" <--- I keep her at bay since I have this natally.

I can't tell how I have affected her life.

posted September 27, 2014 01:55 PM            

Not all bad , it gets better with age I think...its like your afraid to let anyone in. my current beau , is awesome we have a trine between the planets...its so easy to love him. No Pluto( I say this as relief, Pluto ain't for the faint heart) but tons of Saturn.

Are with your partner now???

posted September 27, 2014 02:00 PM            

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Originally posted by olgatheo:
I have Pluto sq. Venus in natal too- its more like realizing that this is not good for you, so you have to let go...but after ages....!!!

Not all bad , it gets better with age I think...its like your afraid to let anyone in. my current beau , is awesome we have a trine between the planets...its so easy to love him. No Pluto( I say this as relief, Pluto ain't for the faint heart) but tons of Saturn.

Are with your partner now???

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Well... In my case, I'm not controlling, jealous, possessive, or manipulative but I attract people that are... Its funny to see how they go berserk and they don't know why.

Do you find yourself in situation/relationships that you say "What the hell am I doing here???"

posted September 27, 2014 02:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Virgo28:
Well... In my case, I'm not controlling, jealous, possessive, or manipulative but I attract people that are... Its funny to see how they go berserk and they don't know why.

Do you find yourself in situation/relationships that you say "What the hell I'm doing here???"

Also every woman I meet is going through some sort of pluto transit. lol

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First one - was the one I explained.
Second one- no Pluto sq. Venus synastry but he moved to USA , so Pluto at work again...
after 7 years been single...A Pluto transit to my Venus ( opposition ) this one appeared out of nowhere !