posted September 26, 2014 09:18 PM            

Can you share your experience with these aspects:

1- Saturn sextile/trine Moon
2- Saturn sextile/trine Mars
3- Saturn sextile/trine Mercury
4- Saturn sextile/trine Uranus

5- Saturn conjunct Ascendant
6- Saturn conjunct Pluto

How did Saturn feels/sees the other person?

Does Saturn feel insecure around the ascendant?

Personal Experience only... Thx

posted September 27, 2014 07:27 AM              

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posted September 27, 2014 10:15 AM            

How did the moon person made you feel about your insecurities?

posted September 27, 2014 10:35 AM              

He's always supportive, I feel no insecurities with him.

posted September 27, 2014 02:11 PM            

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Originally posted by olgatheo:
DW - Saturn trine Sun ( Him) , Saturn sq. Sun.( Me)
DW - Saturn trine MOON (Me) , Saturn opp. Moon ( Him)
Mercury sq. Saturn, Mars opp. Saturn.
Saturn trine Saturn.

All in all it works out eventually , if you have Trine Aspects, lets just say when you try to help the Moon, Sun person they understand that it comes from a good place, its not over-bearing or cold . Like a stern parent, its more comforting .

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And what does the personal planet do for Saturn??

I'm trying to get the Saturn perspective since all the interpretation emphasize the Saturn side.

posted September 27, 2014 02:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Virgo28:
And what does the personal planet do for Saturn??

I'm trying to get the Saturn perspective since all the interpretation emphasize the Saturn side.

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posted September 27, 2014 03:18 PM            

Olgatheo have you experience Asc conjunct Saturn.

posted September 27, 2014 09:39 PM            

When we first met I refused to look at the synastry because I didn't want anything to influence my behavior.

Elsewhere in the synastry their pSun was conj my nVenus, and my pVenus opp their nMars.

When I first met this person I didn't really recognize them, although they were very polite and friendly. Then one night I had a dream/astral encounter; I was standing at a street corner next to them absently looking into the distance. Without warning they reached for my hand, startled, I pulled away. "What are you scared from?", "I'm not scared!, wasn't expecting you to do that." They reached for my hand again, and we walked off into the distance..../dream.

After this encounter I paid more attention to this person. Soon enough it dawned on me - I wasn't particularly attracted to this person (they're not available anyway), nor do I really like them.

Issues:
1 - too much of a prankster / not serious enough
2 - never answered my questions satisfactorily. I felt imposing.
3 - resorts to name calling during disagreements.
4 - broken promises.
5 - I always felt like they didn't want me around. Nevermind I was invited to their home three times. I never felt those were genuine.

Due to the above issues I censored my emotional reaction to them. I wasn't open and engaging with them as I was with other members of the group. Eg. I gave those who asked detailed readings (astro), and answered all followup questions. Perhaps I have trust issues, but I didn't believe their birth date was accurate, I always felt they were hiding something. When they produced documentation (lol) I brushed it off.

One day they produced a photograph of them as a beaming, happy, friendly young child about 7 or eight - and I was devastated. Clearly this person thought I was interesting, and worth befriending, but I couldn't stand their guts...ugh, it was terrible.

Thing is, every time I let my guard I felt hurt. In response I became increasingly detached. Too many broken promises, telling of confidential information, and withholdings...On top of this they'd expect me to do favors for them.

Eventually, I stopped sidestepping and told them flatly NO. Things got ugly at the end. I mean, really, really bad. I blame the Venus-Mars opposition.

I'm actually happy I don't have to worry about them anymore, though we still move in the same circles. They really know, unwittingly, how to p### me off and hurt my feelings, and I won't allow them that power.

posted September 27, 2014 10:00 PM            

That's so Natal Saturn square Moon.

I have noticed that those with Moon/Saturn affliction play out the Saturn when ever someone plays the moon. Even if they don't share the aspect in synastry. It's as if being the cold one give them the power, and are afraid that if they reciprocate the feelings; the cycle of rejection will begin again.

Do you find this statement accurate?

posted September 27, 2014 10:04 PM            

It's very confusing how she can switch back and forth between being sweet(she has moon trine neptune) and being aloof/harsh/selfish.

She's extremely selfish and I wonder if it's because she felt used in the past and she's trying to get as much from others as she can before the eventual rejection.

posted September 27, 2014 10:08 PM            

Some times in our conversations when I turn very caring and nurturing(Venus in Cancer) she stops communicating. From your perspective as someone that has the aspect what's going on there? <--- Could you expand on this.

Another thing I've noticed is when I play the Saturn(Unfeeling) roll, she starts acting sweet.

What does Moon/Saturn makes you feel unworthy of? <--- Could you explain

posted September 28, 2014 06:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Virgo28:
Now that's more like it.

Olgatheo have you experience Asc conjunct Saturn.

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posted September 28, 2014 06:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Virgo28:
Moon/Saturn afflicted is very afraid of intimacy.

Some times in our conversations when I turn very caring and nurturing(Venus in Cancer) she stops communicating. From your perspective as someone that has the aspect what's going on there? <--- Could you expand on this.

Another thing I've noticed is when I play the Saturn(Unfeeling) roll, she starts acting sweet.

What does Moon/Saturn makes you feel unworthy of? <--- Could you explain

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posted September 28, 2014 11:11 AM            

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Originally posted by olgatheo:
No I have not , but my current beau is Saturn/moon/Uranus conj. DEC.
Still felt restriction at first....Saturn conj. ASC I would think you might met them after 30 yrs , you start to attract peeps that activate your Asc. Will probabely bring structure in your life.

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My Asc conjunct her Moon/Mars/Saturn/Pluto.
She has Moon/Mars conjunct Saturn natally.

I don't have any Moon/Asc/Saturn affliction.

I wonder if the way I project myself make her feel insecure.

posted September 28, 2014 11:18 AM            

She's in good shape even though she doesn't work out... I've read all about the possible eating disorder, mother not showing emotions, too much discipline, but I still feel there is something missing.

Is she insecure about her feelings?
Is she insecure of being worthed of nourishment?
Is she afraid of being used, After all everybody dump their problems on them?
Is the selfishness part of this aspect?

posted September 28, 2014 12:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Virgo28:
Great feedback...

That's so Natal Saturn square Moon.

I have noticed that those with Moon/Saturn affliction play out the Saturn when ever someone plays the moon. Even if they don't share the aspect in synastry. It's as if being the cold one give them the power, and are afraid that if they reciprocate the feelings; the cycle of rejection will begin again.

Do you find this statement accurate?

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I have moon in Sag, trine Jupiter, conj Neptune. So I almost always rush in head first without first getting to know people. I turn to stone only after being burned, or feeling used. I'd like to believe I welcome every new person enthusiastically.

posted September 28, 2014 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Virgo28:
[B]Moon/Saturn afflicted is very afraid of intimacy

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I think so.

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Some times in our conversations when I turn very caring and nurturing(Venus in Cancer) she stops communicating. From your perspective as someone that has the aspect what's going on there? <--- Could you expand on this.

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I can't put my hands on it, just bugs me. I much prefer straight/sober talk.

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Another thing I've noticed is when I play the Saturn(Unfeeling) roll, she starts acting sweet.

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It's how mommy dearest was, so it's familiar, thus easier to relate to. Everything must be earned.

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What does Moon/Saturn makes you feel unworthy of? <--- Could you explain

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That nothing, especially affection, is free. You must earn it. Thus, if someone is being nice to you without effort on your part, its suspect - the bill be come due later, at an inconvenient time.

posted September 28, 2014 12:19 PM            

It doesn't help

Her Mom is Cancer Sun/Virgo Venus/ Sag Moon square Saturn.

Me Virgo Sun/Cancer Venus/Sag Moon conjunct Uranus.

My Venus/Pluto sextile her Chiron so that should help.

posted September 28, 2014 02:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Virgo28:
I've never heard of this part "finances" before but it does make sense.

She's in good shape even though she doesn't work out... I've read all about the possible eating disorder, mother not showing emotions, too much discipline, but I still feel there is something missing.

Is she insecure about her feelings?
Is she insecure of being worthed of nourishment?
Is she afraid of being used, After all everybody dump their problems on them?
Is the selfishness part of this aspect?

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posted September 28, 2014 02:52 PM            

She keeps testing me - pushing me way then being nice; having venus square pluto natally, I'm hypersensitive to any manipulative moves. So I just brush it off and act like nothing happened, super congenial, cheerful, and positive(Libra Asc).

Let's see where this leads to.

posted September 28, 2014 02:54 PM            

Can people talk about the soft aspects mention in the 1st post.

posted September 28, 2014 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by alyssa27:
moon trine saturn 0'02 i'm the moon
and his moon trine my saturn but with 6 degree orb..

sometimes he acts like my dad ..but i need it cause sometimes i'm a little bit irresponsible.he is more emotional stable than me..somedays my head is up in the clouds and these days he knows how to bring me down to earth ..i think there is a balance..
generally i feel secure
i think with easy moon-saturn aspects the keyword is emotional security!

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Great to know!!!... That's how I feel the sextile. Like this person will always be there for me.

posted September 29, 2014 02:19 AM            

My Libra Saturn conjuncts the guy I'm seeing's Sun by 1 degree so it's very close. When we first met, we were both very powerfully struck by each other. The impressions are strong, and yet we were immediately at ease with each other and found a lot things to talk about.