posted November 21, 2014 03:01 PM            

Instant attraction but we'll never settle down into a normal relationship. As far as I can tell our lives take us in very different directions all the time BUT she's one of the few (actually, only) person I'll have 1-4 hour long conversations over the phone with. That's rare for me because once someones out of my physical range I don't keep in touch too well and she's even worse with that (Mostly air, aquarius moon)

posted November 21, 2014 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
I love VENUS-NNODE. It's one of the best and most consistent aspects I've had throughout my relationships. It's never seemed negative to me. I also don't buy into the 'who feels it more' black-and-white delineations. It's just never that cut and dried. All factors should be taken into account.

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Nobody is saying its negative.

posted November 21, 2014 03:57 PM              

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Originally posted by Orange:
Nodes are points, not planets. They receive energy but don't emit one. They absorb the planet's energy that touches them but don't return it back.

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posted November 21, 2014 03:58 PM            

I ended up losing interest and dumping him quite quickly and suddenly (we had a lot of URanus in our synastry/composite). It has been 4 years and he is still sore about it.

I was really into him at the time, though.

My last relationship had my Moon on his NN. He could not handle the relationship and even though I dumped him, I felt that he was pushing me away anyway.

so, in the case of the NN, I think the planet person is more in love and the NN person is the one who dumps them. The NN represents unchartered territory, so the NN person is said to feel uncomfortable.

posted November 21, 2014 04:56 PM            

When a planet touches your NN you have things to learn from them. When that planet is Venus - they can teach you "how to make a relationship work" and many other Venus-related things. If you're not ready for the lessons... it makes you uncomfortable and it makes the other person feel like you're not meeting their expectations.
So things fizzle out if the NN is not ready to embrace that side of themselves.

posted November 21, 2014 05:38 PM              

Yesssss..
Exactly.
I'm nn and oh yes, I feel it. It being learning but I'm up for it.

posted November 21, 2014 05:46 PM              

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Originally posted by Odette:
DF is like:

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posted November 22, 2014 01:52 AM              

I found the opposite is true for Venus-SN. Currently trying to understand composite Venus-NN, where both people should feel it and be interested into bringing it forward.. yet it doesn't seem to happen too often and I wonder why..

posted November 22, 2014 04:19 AM              

This aspect is sometimes found in unrequited scenarios, when there isn't much besides it. In this case, I suppose the Venus person simply wants to be part of the other's NN (life path), but because of the rest of the synastry, the story is unrequited. It can be the other way around as well, with the Venus person being a lesson of (unrequited) love for the NN person.

The rest of the synastry tells you how this aspect plays out.

Generally, planets to nodes show what those people share on their common life path, no matter how brief. If it's brief, but still connected to the nodes, it's probably an important lesson for one or both.
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posted November 22, 2014 05:28 AM            

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Originally posted by manderin:
So... I've been reading up some posts on NN + Venus in Synastry and some say that it's the NN who is more in love, others say it's Venus who is more in love, others say the NN ends up hating Venus.... Will this be the thread to settle it once and for all?

Looking up cookbook definitions on this synastry aspect talks too much about next life stuff. Who cares about the next life! Who's into who in this one?

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For me, this is a tricky question.

1. The Nodes, imo, behave in a similar manner to the waxing and waning of the Moon. In the empty darkness of the New Moon the Sun's light is absorbed and replenishes Luna. Full, the Moon then reflects this image back to the Sun, which he loves, then releases that energy into the dark expanses of the night. The Sun, from our experience on earth, behaves in a similar way. At dawn he rises, radiates warmth and light upon the planet. At dusk he sets, rests to replenish his depleted stocks.

2. All of the planets, according to Martin Shulman in his Karmic Astrology series, radiate and absorb energy interchangeably.

3. Unlike the planets, the Nodes are more limited in scope. At each point (NN or SN) they do one or the other, but never both. So the NN is where you take in, and the SN is where you release.

It can be extrapolated that a NN + Venus contact, minus SN interactions elsewhere, can become tricky. At those times when Venus is radiating energy all is good; Venus finds a receptive consumer for her energy, and the NN have a provider. Drama arises when Venus is tapped out and switch to absorption mode; NN may view Venus as "unproductive" & Venus may view NN as draining.

posted November 22, 2014 06:03 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
There is another possible interpretation of this aspect, IMO. The Venus person loves the NN's lifestyle and life direction, the way they live, admires them, and would like to live like that or be like that.

This aspect is sometimes found in unrequited scenarios, when there isn't much besides it. In this case, I suppose the Venus person simply wants to be part of the other's NN (life path), but because of the rest of the synastry, the story is unrequited. It can be the other way around as well, with the Venus person being a lesson of (unrequited) love for the NN person.

The rest of the synastry tells you how this aspect plays out.

Generally, planets to nodes show what those people share on their common life path, no matter how brief. If it's brief, but still connected to the nodes, it's probably an important lesson for one or both.

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