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Topic: I dunno... :( Synastry looks scary and composites looks painful!!
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astra7
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posted March 13, 2015 02:35 PM
  
I'm worried for your Chiron and NN in 7th.
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YellowGerbera
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posted March 13, 2015 02:48 PM
I know right?? But chiron is not all about the pain.. Someone else on the forum told me that Chiron becomes the healer once the pain from the wound is felt. I have yet to feel this particular "pain" - maybe it's the difficulty related to partnership? At this point, he's just my crush. We have met 3 times so far but we are not exclusive... How do you feel about the Chiron? IP: Logged |
astra7
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posted March 13, 2015 03:21 PM
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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
I know right?? But chiron is not all about the pain.. Someone else on the forum told me that Chiron becomes the healer once the pain from the wound is felt. I have yet to feel this particular "pain" - maybe it's the difficulty related to partnership? At this point, he's just my crush. We have met 3 times so far but we are not exclusive... How do you feel about the Chiron?
Yes, that's the annoying thing about astrology!! It could be pain or healing....I think you'd have to enter into a relationship and find out. Do come back and report how things are panning out. 
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YellowGerbera
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posted March 13, 2015 03:58 PM
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Originally posted by astra7:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
[b]I know right?? But chiron is not all about the pain.. Someone else on the forum told me that Chiron becomes the healer once the pain from the wound is felt. I have yet to feel this particular "pain" - maybe it's the difficulty related to partnership? At this point, he's just my crush. We have met 3 times so far but we are not exclusive... How do you feel about the Chiron?
Yes, that's the annoying thing about astrology!! It could be pain or healing....I think you'd have to enter into a relationship and find out. Do come back and report how things are panning out. [/B][/QUOTE] So true!!! Astrology is open to interpretation... All we can do is take it positively or negatively... all up to us..  I'm thinking to move on actually...
Or just not expect anything between us. lol. Getting bored of waiting around...
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Ceridwen
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posted March 13, 2015 04:13 PM
Chiron is both actually. True healing can only happen after acknowledging the woundedness, the vulnerability. IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted March 13, 2015 04:28 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Chiron is both actually. True healing can only happen after acknowledging the woundedness, the vulnerability.
If it's both then why don't we feel the healing first and the pain after? It's always the pain first and then the healing? Chiron is on composite Dsc so we need to feel hurt being together first and then we will appreciate each other's company? Sounds like a lot of work... :/ IP: Logged |
astra7
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posted March 14, 2015 09:01 AM
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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
Chiron is on composite Dsc so we need to feel hurt being together first and then we will appreciate each other's company? Sounds like a lot of work... :/
Exactly.
Chances are that you both end up feeling hurt and it will end there. OK, some couple will mend the hurt and go on but...OP, perhaps you should ask about other people's experience on Chiron in 7th house. See if they managed to heal and go on or it ended there. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted March 14, 2015 10:17 AM
It could also mean having common friends who you view as hurt somehow and whom you want to help. After all the DESC indicates whom you will encounter as a couple as well. Hurt and healing are not always in a sequential order though. It might actually happen simultaneously. By facing (and accepting) that raw wound feeling you have around whatever issue you can get healed.
Ironically by accepting that something is an "incurable wound", healing of exactly that wound takes place. It is probably cause even though there is some pain there, you simply accept it as part of who you are and that opens up venues to a lot of compassion to each others and others. Well at least that is the "high road" with Chiron. Of course there is a less high road as well, and then it can really pinch like you are constantly pouring salt into a wound. Depends on the other aspects as well though. IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted March 15, 2015 07:23 PM
Thanks astra7 & Ceridwen for your responses!I did a quick search on Chiron in 7H - it's both again mixed bag of pain-felt and healing.. Not easy to handle it feels like. Being only 3yrs apart, our Chirons both conjunct cDsc too. I also looked at a composite with my ex, and in that composite, we had a love stellium + cChiron all on cDsc. I had soooo much pain being in relationship with this ex. 12 years of break ups and make ups. I was exhausted at the end, he dumped me and I gave up fighting for us to stay together. "you simply accept it as part of who you are and that opens up venues to a lot of compassion to each others and others."
You are very right, Ceridwen! This is how I feel my Chiron now actually. By acknowledging the pain, it is so much easier to deal with it and offer healing to others - this feels very revelating and healing. I feel very empowered  Chiron is not a pain to me anymore but I don't know for him. I don't know if he has accepted the pain his chiron brings. Until then, perhaps we can't move forward. I feel that cChiron in 7H is a strong binding element - perhaps cuz being apart brings us pain too and make us seek for each other for good healing. All relationships require work and would this Chiron remind us to behave well as a couple.. maybe?? Seeing how PACKED that composite 1H is... Yeah I think we need some disciplining when we are together.. lol!! In fact, I do feel that there must be some great learning to come from our composite 1H/7H axis... IP: Logged |
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