posted January 12, 2015 01:39 PM            

I just met him... and I am attracted to him but ahhhh.. I dunno.. There's excitement, comfort, and lots of energy... It's hard to ignore!

Here are the charts if you would like to read them

Synastry (I'm red)

Mid pt. Composite

Davison

He's intense and makes my knees go weak...
But for some weird reason, he reminds me of my first ex... It may be that Mars on SN - I don't know my ex's TOB so I can't confirm on it. BOo! Also this new guy's bday is just one month from my first ex. So being the same Dog Year people, maybe they act similar??

I think it's karmic and fated. I feel I will get hurt though, not physically but another real bad heartbreak. Another one like I had with my first ex - 12 years of on-off, breakups and makeups.. Ahhhh

posted January 12, 2015 04:33 PM            

We don't seem to have any Sun/Moon stuff going on except that his S/M midpoint is on my 8th cusp.

Upper hand sounds nice - what are the indicators for this?

posted January 12, 2015 05:28 PM            

Composite chart; Active 1st house could mean the relationship is quite driven/active, lots of energy. Is that Sun conjunct composite Asc, pretty nice I'd guess. Chiron conj composite desc I don't know much about this but could be significant.

Synastry; some significant oppositions with venus opposite sun/moon so no wonder there's attraction. Uranus aspecting Sun/moon/merc would also contribute to attraction.

posted January 12, 2015 06:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Littleh:
I'm really just a beginner but here goes my take on it:

Composite chart; Active 1st house could mean the relationship is quite driven/active, lots of energy. Is that Sun conjunct composite Asc, pretty nice I'd guess. Chiron conj composite desc I don't know much about this but could be significant.

Synastry; some significant oppositions with venus opposite sun/moon so no wonder there's attraction. Uranus aspecting Sun/moon/merc would also contribute to attraction.

Littleh

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Thank you for your reply, Littleh!

Yes lots of energy for sure!! Maybe a bit too much attraction for me at the moment. That's why I'm scared. Lots of energy AND Sun cj. Uranus - omg nuclear bomb!!!

posted January 13, 2015 10:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Littleh:
Also interested to know why LeeLoo thinks you have the upper hand..

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She's got the upper hand all over the place

She is Pluto on Jupiter and sextile his Venus

She is Saturn on Mars stellium opp his Moon

She is Uranus in the square

She is Neptune in the trine

His Mercury is trapped by her Venus/Mars/Juno

She is the node on Moon

His Venus adores her Sun/Moon

and I'm sure I could find even more if I try to

He is your slave hehehe

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posted January 13, 2015 01:32 PM            

His bday is exactly the same as my dad and my sis's as well! Just from this, I feel cozy already. I hope we will be official one day

posted January 13, 2015 03:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Littleh:
..poor guy!

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LOLOL I almost said this in my other msg.

posted March 06, 2015 03:08 PM            

Bit of an update... I met him twice, but personal issues happened and we completely stopped communication. He remained in touch via FB here and there though...

Then, I just had my bday so I thought why not txt him... After a month of no txting, I finally initiated conversation. We chat for a bit and it was really nice. I wanted us to resume txting but he still only kept in touch via FB (commenting on my status, liking my posts...). Then one day he liked a pic of me from 4 years ago!! Then I thought... OKAY.. he's hinting something here.. So I txt him again.. Asked him what hell he's doing lol!! We chat again and finally decided to meet up tomorrow.

I'm very very scared tbh. I haven't seen him for two months now and my feeling for him has gone very deep!! He has hijacked my mind. It sucks. I don't want to fall for him yet!! I don't want heartbreaks.

Last night, he txt me cuz he couldn't sleep. I was really happy for that actually cuz he hasn't initiated conversation for the past two months.. He is such a sweet and caring person. I realized how much miss him.. Why is he so far away..

He has mercury square nodes - so that's a skipped step right? My Juno is on his Mercury, opposed by my Venus. So am I supposed to provide love and understanding for his difficulty to communicate? It's funny cuz Mercury is his ruler.. Gee, He's a damn virgo!

I have been following Auby's karmic relationship threads... Tried to do more analysis using Sidereal and Draconic charts. I'm seeing many strong conjunctions involving planets and all the axes (Asc/Dsc, IC/MC, Nodes, and Vx). Ahhhhh!!! Scaring the crap outta me...

I know I'm on the verge of falling HARD for this guy. The way he txts me now also makes me feel that he's prolly on the verge too. I'm SO SO SO SCARED. It's like a HUGE disaster waiting to happen....

What should I do??? Why am I so scared??? How do I handle this???

posted March 06, 2015 03:33 PM            

His natal:

His sidereal and draconic:

My natal:

My sidereal and draconic:

posted March 06, 2015 05:21 PM            

His MERCURY square NODES can be a failed lesson, (as in studentship) or something in the area of correspondence; literally a 'message' in some cases. Remember, the house it rules is very significant in regards to what's going on there under the surface.

Your JUNO there shows how your understanding of the principle of equality in relationships, as well as the concept of commitment, play into these MERCURY-ruled issues. So how your JUNO is placed is significant, too.

posted March 06, 2015 05:33 PM            

Did you see the synastry at the top?
His mercury is in 11H.. so failed lesson in social life..? His nodal axis goes 2/8H so I think the skipped step is more about his intimacy and deep emotional relationship related I guess?

At this point I'm not sure what he needs to work on.. We are still getting to know each other..

What do you think about sidereal and draconic charts..? The composites are already posted on the top of the thread if you like to see them...

posted March 06, 2015 05:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Huh. Y'know, your AMOR is conjunct his CHIRON on ALGOL, 1º. That might be aligned with your fear, as it definitely has a 'tragic' flavour to it. Probably karma, once again.

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Oops! Didn't see this.

Oh wow.. That doesn't sound too great.

posted March 06, 2015 08:36 PM            

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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
Oops! Didn't see this.

Oh wow.. That doesn't sound too great.

Yeah tragic romantic love stories.. like Romeo and Juliet.. that's how I feel it'll be like.

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Nah, this is all just unconscious. You're just responding to very old patterns which don't even have a foothold anymore. YOU can choose to LET them take over your feelings, or try and develop in a more positive direction.

I'm REALLY going to need some time to sit down and look at these more deeply. I think, at the moment, you need to pay attention to your feelings -- as cheesy as that sounds, it's true. You need to trust your intuition to guide you TOWARDS the pain. What comes from these meditative periods? Where does your mind go? What sorts of thoughts fill your head?

posted March 09, 2015 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Nah, this is all just unconscious. You're just responding to very old patterns which don't even have a foothold anymore. YOU can choose to LET them take over your feelings, or try and develop in a more positive direction.

I'm REALLY going to need some time to sit down and look at these more deeply. I think, at the moment, you need to pay attention to your feelings -- as cheesy as that sounds, it's true. You need to trust your intuition to guide you TOWARDS the pain. What comes from these meditative periods? Where does your mind go? What sorts of thoughts fill your head?

This is likely related to the outstanding karma that's causing you discomfort on a deep level. I've been there. And we were already in a relationship, so THAT was VERY awkward. Nonetheless, I had to deal with the intense feelings (the eclipse was unearthing) in order to be able to move towards healing them and have a relationship free of the negative karma.

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Go towards the pain... This has been the theme in my relationships with a few guys so far now. It does hurt a lot. And yes as you know because you've been there and done this, you wanna stay away from it so you can avoid the pain!! But no. It doesn't work that way eh? Because chances are you will come right back to the same issue again whether it's the same guy or new guy... :/

I'm just very protective of my emotions now. I get emotionally hurt easily.. I spent some time with him this past weekend actually. It was really nice. I felt peaceful in his presence (although I'm extremely shy with him still). It's too early for me to see us becoming official. The wait is killing me.. lol. Boys love to take their sweet sweet time!!!

posted March 13, 2015 02:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
YellowGerbera,

His MERCURY square NODES can be a failed lesson, (as in studentship) or something in the area of correspondence; literally a 'message' in some cases. Remember, the house it rules is very significant in regards to what's going on there under the surface.

Your JUNO there shows how your understanding of the principle of equality in relationships, as well as the concept of commitment, play into these MERCURY-ruled issues. So how your JUNO is placed is significant, too.

These are definitely indicative of a skipped step; it's hard to say exactly how. Immediately, I'm thinking of an intellectual relationship; JUNO can simply denote 'commitment' or a sense of loyalty.

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Sorry, bumping this

I was just comparing his natal with the FMC.... His nMercury conjuncts FMC North node actually.. I find it interesting. It seems like we came together to resolve his skipped-step? Communication IS big issue between us at the moment.. Bleh!!!

I'm not sure why Mercury is the ruler of Virgo... Both my sister and he have huge difficulty with communication!! They share the same birthday btw.... Drives me nuts!!