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Topic: Stalker?
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Einfühlung
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From: Lily of The Valley
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 14, 2015 09:56 PM
  
I posted a topic a couple days ago about why my ex stared at me so long and it just dawned on me how much I notice him following me. Is there aspects in our relationship chart that shows he likes to follow/stalk me? Here's the link of the topic with all of our charts http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/002059.html
If you'd rather have me post charts on this topic instead of going back and forth between links, I won't mind. 
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Einfühlung
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From: Lily of The Valley
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posted February 15, 2015 12:08 PM
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Aubyanne
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posted February 15, 2015 03:30 PM
Well, PLUTO-SATURN can be a bit rough natally, but unless you're hitting certain midpoints -- such as MARS/NEPTUNE, (which is a key 'stalker' MP) his chart doesn't seem particularly primed for it.I'd say if you had anything hovering around 10º-13º TAU, as that's going to quindecile his PLUTO, but you're just out of range there. Perhaps, though it's 3º, your PLUTO/NNODE conjunction is an indication that you're to confront some of the more Plutonian features of relating in this relationship. Possessiveness is certainly one of them. Men can simultaneously give every indicator they don't 'want' you in their lives, and then privately keep such tabs on you that it might be considered stalking behaviour. Personally, I've dealt with someone who, upon my noticing how strangely 'up' with me he keeps, would immediately flip it around on me, saying 'wow, stalker much?' and similar. I'd say that if he actually uses words of that nature, or even accuses you of obsession, consider that it's actually his issue, which very well may be a part of the synastry. I'm not seeing it as part of your basic synastry, however. Any NESSUS/DEJANIRA (157) connexions? IP: Logged |
Einfühlung
Knowflake Posts: 530
From: Lily of The Valley
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posted February 15, 2015 06:40 PM
Thanks for replying Aubyanne. He actually asked me if I was obsessed with him one time when we were together. Could I maybe be the one obsessing?How do I find Dejanira and Nessus? In astro.com I only see Nessus. IP: Logged |
Einfühlung
Knowflake Posts: 530
From: Lily of The Valley
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posted February 15, 2015 06:51 PM
Never mind I figured out how to pull them up. I will post the synastry with Nessus/Dejanira in a bit.IP: Logged |
Einfühlung
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From: Lily of The Valley
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 15, 2015 07:08 PM
Here is the chart. Me on outside and him on inside:
 Him on top and me on left:
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Einfühlung
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From: Lily of The Valley
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posted February 15, 2015 11:06 PM
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Aubyanne
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From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
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posted February 16, 2015 01:52 PM
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Originally posted by Einfühlung:
He actually asked me if I was obsessed with him one time when we were together. Could I maybe be the one obsessing?
That's a deflection. Might even be a projection. He's clearly trying to take the heat off of him, so that he can release the guilt he's feeling. It's like when some accidentally reveals their motivation by attributing it to someone else. Same principle. Oh, and as to the TOB, the tMOON doesn't typically shift a degree less than hourly. Even if your TOB is 15 minutes off, it'll affect your ASC and houses to a degree, but the MOON would only be in that 'quindecile window' about 4 hours ahead. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
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posted February 16, 2015 01:54 PM
Hm. Yeah, it may be out of orb. Looks as if his NESSUS is mid-SCO, and your DEJA is early-mid AQU. It'd need to be within 3º, and it's probably 5º-7º.IP: Logged |
Einfühlung
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From: Lily of The Valley
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 16, 2015 02:50 PM
Thanks Aubyanne. He's pretty plutonian as well with his sun on pluto and pluto in 7th house. I just found out he's still with his girlfriend. They're in a long distance relationship on and off for 4 years now. Taking that into note, could he possibly still have feelings for me? That day when he stared at me for 5 minutes nonstop still bothers me. I hope he's not emotionally cheating and was surprised to see me like you guessed. I do think they're meant to be together. I've seen some aspects in their composite and one of the biggest indicator of them staying together that long is Venus trine Saturn. Pretty soon I think they'll most likely get married. IP: Logged |
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