posted February 24, 2015 04:57 AM            

The Cancer Sun/Venus in her chart and the Pisces Moon *plus* Leo stellium in his, are some of the most hyper-emotional placements.
Combine their already high-strung natals - with this insanely 'heavy' synastry - and God only knows where this will end up.

posted February 24, 2015 05:44 PM              

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I had a FWB relationship one time....I thought it would be easy to do because he was so much younger and I never would see him as true partner material, he was just cute. Plus he was only in town for a few months.

It wasn't long before we both started having feelings, getting jealous and had to step away from the whole thing. We made it out without either if us getting too hurt, but I would not suggest having this kind of relationship.

Someone's feelings always get involved when your being intimate with another, really it can't be helped....it's called "intimacy" for a reason.

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Thank you for your input, Gabby I really appreciate it.

posted February 25, 2015 01:01 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

There's something else very very strange about FWB: why doing it? why not dating someone you're really attracted to, someone you could fall in love with, and make love to them?

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Because we live in a fast-food society, where people (mostly men) would rather not put in the work required for that (love)& want instant gratification. Hence you have casual sex & fwb. I for one don't see a problem with it if both people have a CLEAR understanding of what the "relationship" really is.

posted February 25, 2015 01:39 AM            

It looks kind of intense-- sun/moon DW, personal planets conjunct the AC but I think this is a very superficial thing. Also, the person in the inner circle is more likely to develop feelings for the one in the outer circle.

posted February 25, 2015 12:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
That's basically what I said! I had to do a double take! When this synastry was first posted, I said, 'You're kidding, right?'

Hilarious. This is so not FWB material.

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can her pluto oppose his moon be a double whammy for his moon in her 8th?

posted February 25, 2015 12:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
one last hope for a fwb relationship without any hurt feelings: the composite

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posted February 25, 2015 12:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
Ah, you are traumatized

ok, I'll warn them and then let's see what happens.
But if a synastry/composite is that strong, do they have any chance other than dating each other? The affair must become a relationship? I thought there's a free will

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posted February 25, 2015 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
you are right, I used too wide orbs for sextiles but I am generous for trines & conjunctions.

She squares his venus (his chart ruler + 8th house ruler) with her moon (her chart ruler) by 3 deg and her venus is conjunct closely by his mc. His mars is trined by her moon by 6 deg and receives some minor aspects.
Her venus is trined by his moon by 6 degrees as well. His Moon fall in her 8h house
etc.etc.

I am not saying there's a lot but I can see the attraction they feel for each other.

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pluto moon tend to be strong and moon in her 8th.. i have been dating someone with only minor aspects to my venus, sun, mars, but his moon is in my 8th and my pluto square his moon and his venus square my moon.. other than saturn trine to my moon,

posted February 25, 2015 01:16 PM              

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
can her pluto oppose his moon be a double whammy for his moon in her 8th?

uranus oppose mars.. i see wild sex potential and intense sex, but also emotional intensity.. her saturn oppose his moon conjunct his sun... well, it is not an easy one, but i see intense attraction here and not an easy to get rid of with the saturn aspects

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yes + the aspects already mentioned. Also, I've just found out that her moon (very important in her chart, chart ruler) squares his mars/pluto midpoint, mars conj lust. Her moon/venus mdp is opposite his sun/moon midp. Also, the have venus conjunct karma very closely.

posted February 25, 2015 01:30 PM              

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Originally posted by Odette:
Honestly... now that I had another look at the synastry - I think this is a drama of magnanimous, soap-opera proportions just waiting to happen.

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Combine their already high-strung natals - with this insanely 'heavy' synastry - and God only knows where this will end up.

I don't want to doom it, but it really seems like both of them will spend their days breaking up, crying, making up, crying, breaking up again, attempting suicide, crying all over again... and... yeah... crying some more ...

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Jesus on a bicycle

posted February 26, 2015 05:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
maybe it's very simple. She doesn't put anything in his 7h house & doesn't aspect his venus too well. Have you checked the midpoints?
Has he told her that he wants sex only?

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No he hasn't. But it seems that way, they've been going at it for a while but it still seems casual between them.

posted February 26, 2015 06:13 AM              

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Originally posted by Lunae:
No he hasn't. But it seems that way, they've been going at it for a while but it still seems casual between them.

And no, I haven't checked the midpoints but well, I could pull up a composite?

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posted February 26, 2015 07:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
Jesus on a bicycle

Seriously: Do you really think a synastry can force people to kill themselves?!

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No!
But I've heard my fair share of suicide threats coming from Pisces Moon men (usually over love related problems). Not that they've *actually* done it.

posted February 26, 2015 08:01 AM              

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Originally posted by Odette:
No!
But I've heard my fair share of suicide threats coming from Pisces Moon men (usually over love related problems). Not that they've *actually* done it.

In a relationship with a Cancerian woman - I could really see this side of him coming out.
But let's hope it stays casual and friendly. I mean astrology is never 100%

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Thank you for your input.

posted March 03, 2015 10:06 AM              

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Originally posted by page one:
Another one is about it. Sun and Saturn opposite Mars? Involving the nodes? Oy!

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it's a wide orb