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Topic: My moon in his 8th house
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Astral
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posted March 17, 2015 09:49 PM
  
Who is more impacted here? The Moon person, or the 8th house person?IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted March 17, 2015 09:57 PM
It's said that the house person feels it more, but I believe it can go either way.
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Astral
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posted March 17, 2015 10:19 PM
Aries. My 1st house moon in his Aries 8th houseIP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted March 17, 2015 10:37 PM
It's that whole 'who feels it?' game that throws us all off. The feelings are mutual, but different. I've written up a bit about this, Astral. You'll want to check the archived threads. In short, the MOON directs its emotional energy into 8H matters, so this can be a naturally sexual dynamic, as well as deeply intimate. The 8H is compelled to explore this deeper intimacy, and can find that they are unusually receptive to, and equally repulsed, by the MOON. It can feel 'intrusive'. Feelings of obsession can emerge in the absence of honest communication and genuine interactions. The trick, like MOON/PLUTO, is for 8H to learn to be receptive to the presence of the MOON, as well as the MOON to allow the transformation that the 8H's influence brings. IP: Logged |
Astral
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posted March 18, 2015 01:40 AM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
It's that whole 'who feels it?' game that throws us all off. The feelings are mutual, but different. I've written up a but about this, Astral. You'll want to check the archived threads. In short, the MOON directs its emotional energy into 8H matters, so this can be a naturally sexual dynamic, as well as deeply intimate. The 8H is compelled to explore this deeper intimacy, and can find that they are unusually receptive to, and equally repulsed, by the MOON. It can feel 'intrusive'. Feelings of obsession can emerge in the absence of honest communication and genuine interactions. The trick, like MOON/PLUTO, is for 8H to learn to be receptive to the presence of the MOON, as well as the MOON to allow the transformation that the 8H's influence brings.
Thank you for that clarification. Honestly, it's not the kind of 'game' in which I would enjoy getting involved. It's just that I am already 6 months into being in relationship with this guy, and I still can't figure out how he truly feels about me. I don't get a kick out of such mind games as I am not a power-mongering person.
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Aubyanne
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posted March 18, 2015 04:16 AM
Hmm. Is he playing mind-games, or is naturally reticent and cagey?IP: Logged |
Astral
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posted March 18, 2015 05:06 AM
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Koniucha
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posted March 18, 2015 09:08 AM
I have this with someone, my moon in his 8th.He also has Mars conjuct Venus in my 8th house. We haven't known each other long, but I do feel a bit obsessed with him and very sexually attracted to him. I know he is sexually attracted to me also, but beyond that I can't tell. We also have Sun conjuct Pluto in Scorpio. Lord help me! IP: Logged |
margym0o
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posted March 18, 2015 09:09 AM
Funny because in my relationship I can say the same. Over a year in and I still sometimes feel like I don't REALLY know how my SO feels. I do know, because he tells me, but I feel like there are moments where I question it because he seems to hold back at times.We have Moon in 8th house double whammy. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted March 26, 2015 02:27 PM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
It's that whole 'who feels it?' game that throws us all off. The feelings are mutual, but different. I've written up a bit about this, Astral. You'll want to check the archived threads. In short, the MOON directs its emotional energy into 8H matters, so this can be a naturally sexual dynamic, as well as deeply intimate. The 8H is compelled to explore this deeper intimacy, and can find that they are unusually receptive to, and equally repulsed, by the MOON. It can feel 'intrusive'. Feelings of obsession can emerge in the absence of honest communication and genuine interactions. The trick, like MOON/PLUTO, is for 8H to learn to be receptive to the presence of the MOON, as well as the MOON to allow the transformation that the 8H's influence brings.
hi Aubiyanne, can you post the link to the threads you refer... i have experience with this person his moon in sagitarios in my 8H and my pluto square his moon exact.. at the beginning i was sexually attracted by also repulsed somehow... now, I am sort of obsessed.. not sure is the pluto or the moon in 8th... sex has been very intense emotionally speaking and very fulfilling emotionally. He is the only person i want to say I love you during sex. normally, that is not something i said in these moments.. LOL IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted March 26, 2015 05:00 PM
I can say that I also have this in (what is shaping up to be) a long-term relationship, (off and on 5 years, the last 2 being consistent). It's his MOON in my 8H. He's naturally cagey and emotionally reticent, very self-composed, so I do find myself -- occasionally -- longing for a more impassioned interaction. But the deep, profound, psychological experiences we've shared -- and our deconstruction of modern human sexuality -- every little nuance and feature -- has made this the most fascinating and inspiring sexual relationship I've had.Here's a collection of my exploration into lunar 8H synastric dynamics; some I've started, others on which I've posted, and a few others which I feel are greatly of note and present a strong dialogue: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000600.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/224957.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/004306.html -- And I'll add further if I find more. At the moment, that's what a cursory site-search gives me. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted March 29, 2015 06:57 AM
Thanks for the links Aubiyane... your words about 'deconstructing modern social' resonates with my experience.. not sure we are meaning the same, but my way of experiencingand thinking about sex has changed with him. in a beautiful way i should say. our moons in composite are conjunct pluto (but wide orb)although i dont have the exact time (just the aprox) but it may not change the orb more than 2-3 degrees...we have venus-pluto trine exact in composite, but i tend to believe is the moon connection...
I will check the links i will add comments in this IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted March 29, 2015 06:59 AM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
I can say that I also have this in (what is shaping up to be) a long-term relationship, (off and on 5 years, the last 2 being consistent). It's his MOON in my 8H. He's naturally cagey and emotionally reticent, very self-composed, so I do find myself -- occasionally -- longing for a more impassioned interaction. But the deep, profound, psychological experiences we've shared -- and our deconstruction of modern human sexuality -- every little nuance and feature -- has made this the most fascinating and inspiring sexual relationship I've had.Here's a collection of my exploration into lunar 8H synastric dynamics; some I've started, others on which I've posted, and a few others which I feel are greatly of note and present a strong dialogue: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/000600.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/224957.html
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/004306.html -- And I'll add further if I find more. At the moment, that's what a cursory site-search gives me.
There is also the sharing of confidences.. he can tell me so easily about his early experiences and wounds.. it is so easy for him to tell me about his deepest wounds.. not sure is the moon-pluto or the moon in 8th or both... IP: Logged |
LullabyGal2
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posted March 29, 2015 08:48 AM
Where is Moon is in his natal chart can also help you gain insight into how intrusive he finds your Moon in his 8th.IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted March 30, 2015 06:21 PM
his moon is in six conjunct the 7th house.. it is his moon in my 8th. not the other way around..at the beginning i felt repulsed for some of his jokes and neediness, but the emotional connection was there from day one.. my moon conjunct his AC in Gemini.. oppose (wide) his moon in saggi i ended up the relationship but i felt sad after i did it. more sad about him than about me, but it hurt me deeply. his pain made me feel in intense pain.. then we came back, but he said he cound not recover the feelings of adoration toward me he had before. he always felt anxious around me. he thought initially that it was the fear of me dumping him, but then.. after some thought from his part he decided to let me go as his original feelings were not coming back.. i suspect he just switched off, but when were intimate i could feel all the love coming from him.. so i thought he was in denial.. but what can i do.. i let go on him as well as there is nothing i can do at this point.. i suspect he will be back, but on the other hand i just dont know.. i am revisiting what i want.. sorry for the detour.. somebody wanted to know the perspective of the house person.. well, at firts i feel uncomfortable but the sexual atraction was ALWAYS intense... and i would say that is the most satisfactory sexual experience because it was lovemaking.. whoever has experience that may understand what i am talking about.. difficult to explain IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted April 28, 2019 03:31 PM
Could be that the Moon person may have the feeling of wanting to experiment sexually with the house person?IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
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posted April 28, 2019 03:39 PM
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Could be that the Moon person may have the feeling of wanting to experiment sexually with the house person?
Generally it's the house person who is affected the most but when it comes to the Moon I believe it's the Moon person.
I believe I am the Moon in someone's else 8th H (not sure about his tob) and I can feel the obsession and deep feelings but we also have Pluto-Moon conjuncrion and I am the Pluto person so it could be that. But I've been the 8th H and I didn't feel anything special.. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted April 28, 2019 05:51 PM
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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Generally it's the house person who is affected the most but when it comes to the Moon I believe it's the Moon person.
I believe I am the Moon in someone's else 8th H (not sure about his tob) and I can feel the obsession and deep feelings but we also have Pluto-Moon conjuncrion and I am the Pluto person so it could be that.But I've been the 8th H and I didn't feel anything special..
Well with me as the Moon person the house person gives me the feeling of wanting to explore my sexuality. I want to explore my sexuality with them like suppressed sexual desires. I don’t know if that makes sense. I don’t feel obsessed with the house person I do think about them yes. But it’s not like I need to be around them everyday. I’m curious about them in a sexual way. I like to know about their past sexual encounters. Yes I know you’ve always said you don’t feel anything being the house person Probably because you have 8th house placements in your own chart. Especially that Saturn in the 8th house. I don’t think I feel people’s planets in my 8th house either. IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
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posted April 28, 2019 06:41 PM
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Well with me as the Moon person the house person gives me the feeling of wanting to explore my sexuality. I want to explore my sexuality with them like suppressed sexual desires. I don’t know if that makes sense. I don’t feel obsessed with the house person I do think about them yes. But it’s not like I need to be around them everyday. I’m curious about them in a sexual way. I like to know about their past sexual encounters. Yes I know you’ve always said you don’t feel anything being the house person Probably because you have 8th house placements in your own chart. Especially that Saturn in the 8th house. I don’t think I feel people’s planets in my 8th house either.
I see.. Maybe it's the Pluto-Moon making it even more intense. We have other Pluto aspects too. It's not true that I don't feel other's planet in my 8th H. Having someone Venus in my 8th H for example.. Its description is that the 8th H feels how much attracted the Venus person is and that he/she can take advantage of it. It wasn't saying (at least the one I read) about the 8th H being obsessed or something like that. I didn't feel the Moon in my 8th H it's true. However the person that I have my Moon in his 8th H (probably) he has his Mercury in my 8th H conjuncting my Saturn.. I can't believe how his voice makes me feel. I could listen to him talking even in my sleep. His voice is so soothing, sensual and sweet, makes me feel warm and safe because it oozes stability. If his voice was a man it would be my ideal man. His voice speaks to my soul.
I'vr felt something like that with a singer and he happened to have his Mercury conjunct my Saturn too but about 3 orbs looser. The one I like has it exactly on my Saturn (in my 8th H)
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ChildofVenus
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posted April 28, 2019 07:31 PM
Yeah his Pluto squares my Moon and makes an opposition to my Sun. My Pluto is in his 5th house and it trines his Mars, Mercury and Ascendant. I might be a little obsessed but it’s not overwhelming like it has been with other people. I like him but he’s not relationship material. I don’t care about being in a relationship. I just want us to be friends and we can do things together.IP: Logged |
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