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Topic: Moon/Pluto in Synastry
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6778 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 09, 2011 10:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: Is he watery? Pisces/Cancer? (And do you have a masculine sun sign?)If he is... IMO When watery men get upset that you didn't give them enough attention - their reaction is to 'play pretend'. So even if you could care less about them - they ignore you and imagine this alternate reality - a world in which you DO care.. where you are in love with them - where, one day you'll "catch" them, save them from the scary dragons around, throw them on your white horse and ride off into the sunset where the two of you can live happily ever after..
Ok Leo Sun ,Pisces Asc, Cancer Venus Mars sq Neptune. ROFL! OMG!!! So whats wrong with all that I soooo want that... lol That is sooooo me! IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl Knowflake Posts: 883 From: Canada Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 24, 2013 08:23 PM
What happens when you have moon conjunct pluto, sun conjunct pluto and venus/mars oppose pluto?!IP: Logged |
DialecticLady Knowflake Posts: 373 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 24, 2013 09:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: You will never be the same again.. For me I never knew what "love" felt like.. Even though it was a false love, I now understand what I "should" feel to be with some one.. Now Im not settling and I have no more confusion on what I should feel to be in a relationship..
This! I only learned what love really is after Pluto hit me, like an awakening. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2501 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 25, 2013 01:06 AM
So far with my s.o. it has been drama free and we have pluto trine moon, and ascendant trine pluto (but thats our only pluto aspect) and we also have sun conjunct venus and mercury, and venus conjunct mars and mercury (and moon-opposition venus) so we kinda have it all… It feels very wonderful so far (been together for some months) and no drama, actually it's only getting better and better between us…. I could suspect a moon/pluto or highly plutonian/scorpio influenced relationship to get more and more intense until some kind of explosion, so you also need something to cool it down probably, unless you find this very close intimacy comfortable…in our relationship we are not plutonic or scorpionic (But I have venus conjunct pluto in scorpio) so I don't know if he can handle it when it gets too intense…. some good saturn/uranus will probably loosen it up, but too much could also make a distance between the couple in the endIP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9186 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 25, 2013 05:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by Canadiangirl: What happens when you have moon conjunct pluto, sun conjunct pluto and venus/mars oppose pluto?!
Depends on the orbs. If they're pretty tight (>2°), you're in for a helluva ride, m'darling. Get ready for the rollercoaster. IP: Logged |
Venus De Milo Knowflake Posts: 267 From: the planet of love Registered: Jul 2009
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posted November 25, 2013 06:56 AM
To echo everyone else... yep... Moon conjunct pluto is VERY INTENSE... possibly the most intense feelings I have ever experenced.I think amianne described it as PRIMAL.... and tender... lke the love you feel for a nursing newborn?? YES. Perfect. That's it. I'm the Pluto and my Pluto sextiles his Mars/Venus conjunction in Leo... his Moon sextiles my Venus/Neptune conjunction in Sag (which is also his NN/SN axis... my Venus/Neptune sit on his SN). I've more or less given up, on everything. Let it go to the universe. It's complicated situation and I obviously cant switch off my feelings, but... they're there and they're mutual. He's the one that has trouble hiding them. I never thought I would say this or feel this way, but I'm truly zen with whatever comes next. I used to feel a complete panic, like suffocation, if I considered he might never be mine.. but I've come to accept this as a strong probability... and its OK. Lioness is right. You will never be the same again. I am altered forever. Incidently, I am also experiencing Pluto transiting my natal Moon. The only other comparable feelings was a love affair/obsession from almost 10 years ago when Pluto was going over my Venus/Neptune conjunction. F*ck!ng Pluto! After this, I'll be done with him til he hits 26 Capricorn (my Mercury), then I have Mars/Sun at 4/5 Aqua... then I'll hopefully die before he reaches my DC in early Aries, hahaha. B@stard . IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl Knowflake Posts: 883 From: Canada Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 25, 2013 05:25 PM
Doux Rêve:Pluto Opposition Venus/Mars Orb:1 Deg 05 Min Uranus Opposition Venus/Pluto Orb:1 Deg 55 Sun sextile pluto moon conjunct pluto pluto square sun Orb: 0.12 (just noticed this one) Luckily I'm not sure for the others...its probably better that way. I have a horrible feeling I would develop a twitch from the relationship. IP: Logged |
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posted November 25, 2013 10:47 PM
I have Moon trine Pluto with my ex. We are still emotional with each other. I think I was able to bring out more emotions in him then anyone else was. And he's usually cold at times.
------------------ Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp) Cancer asc 1st Taurus moon 11th Taurus venus 11th Libra mars 3rd Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
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posted November 25, 2013 10:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Canadiangirl: What happens when you have moon conjunct pluto, sun conjunct pluto and venus/mars oppose pluto?!
I have sun square pluto, moon trine pluto, and mars square pluto with my ex. Definitely one hell of a ride lol.
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Canadiangirl Knowflake Posts: 883 From: Canada Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 25, 2013 10:53 PM
Uh oh, should I run now?!IP: Logged |
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posted November 26, 2013 01:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by Canadiangirl: Uh oh, should I run now?!
Keep an open heart, even if you get hurt. You'll never know until you try. ------------------ Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp) Cancer asc 1st Taurus moon 11th Taurus venus 11th Libra mars 3rd Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl Knowflake Posts: 883 From: Canada Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 01:43 AM
Mind me asking how it was such a wild ride? Has anyone possessed this aspect and stayed with that person or is it just likely to fail?IP: Logged |
Venus De Milo Knowflake Posts: 267 From: the planet of love Registered: Jul 2009
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posted November 26, 2013 06:43 AM
With mine, we don't have a romantic relatonship per se... but his relationship status is ambiguous (?) and I am always coming and going out of the country... But we are in each others obits and when I am in the same country as him, we see another multiple times per week usually. the attraction is so strong and its just this up and down, up and down. Its been torturous for me... for him too, I think. IP: Logged |
goddessofthemoon Knowflake Posts: 490 From: Manhattan Registered: Dec 2014
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posted March 21, 2015 01:32 PM
Reading this thread was SO interesting! My ex and I officially broke up 2 weeks ago after being with each other on and on for 8 months. Everything makes so much sense now.I'm wondering though... Some of you said this love will change you forever and there may be a possibility that we'll never feel this way for another person. Is it true? I don't want my relationship with him to be the last time I ever feel so deep in love again. I'm 19 and my ex is 21. The relationship was DEFINITELY a roller coaster. We have this aspect in our chart as well as many others that tie us really close to one another. We liked each other from the start. We didn't even take time to be friends, we just started dating immediately. I've never been in a relationship quite like this. I would say he was my first real love, but I'm not sure if it really is love? I've never let my walls down the way I did with him. However, it was a huge mess. There was a lot of jealousy, arguments, and the needing of space after a while. When the times were good, everything was GREAT! Simply being in each other's company was enough for us. We never were interested in doing anything fancy. We loved talking to each other. But when it was bad, it was TERRIBLE. We broke up at least more than 7 times but always wound up back with each other days/weeks later. The most we have gone without talking to each other is a month. One of us always caves and comes back. This time, though, I really do think it's over. We both did things to each other that were taken just too far and I feel like we'll never be able to forgive each other. This broke the camel's back. My family also highly discuss him as well so getting back together would just be unrealistic. Our relationship was tragic and so much like a drug. We couldn't keep our hands off of each other and we would stay up hours talking about anything. I really do believe I loved him. I never thought I'd be the type of person this relationship made me to be. I'm definitely not who I used to be... I've changed SO much. But in a way, I really do love this new person that I am. I am happy with what I have learned. Sometimes I really do feel like we have to be soulmates. But I don't know. There's just so much drama. How can love be a constant war? Whenever we're with each other in person, it's beautiful. We're so happy. But when we are apart, and can only communication through phone/texting, it's like we're not the same people that were in the room just the day before. We argue like crazy. Jealousy issues are brought up on both of our parts. If it makes any difference, he's the Pluto person and I am the Moon. He's also an Aquarius and I'm a Capricorn. Funny thing is, our venus is the same as well... We both have it in Aquarius. But our moons are definitely in opposition. He's a Gemini moon and I'm a Taurus moon. A song that reminds me of this Moon/Pluto aspect is Sober by Pink Listen to it... It really does relate. People who have had this aspect with others, have you ever found love again? A love that stays? I'm feeling a little down and am wondering if this aspect makes it that we never find someone that can make us feel so deep in love again IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 51281 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 21, 2015 03:16 PM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 5750 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 21, 2015 04:45 PM
If you both have natal Pluto conjunctions to your personal planets, it will be comfortable. If not, it coukd be to intense to sustain long term and possibly scare one or both.Pluto conjunct AC and Venus in my chart, I don't even want a relationship if it's not a Pluto energized relationship. It's boring to me without Pluto...but that's because Pluto touches me so personally that im used to it, no Pluto feels lifeless and boring. IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 191 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted March 21, 2015 08:39 PM
does anyone know how moon semisquare pluto would play out in synastry??IP: Logged |
alyssa27 Knowflake Posts: 143 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 22, 2015 11:25 AM
EmGem i wanna know this too about the semisquare,but i think that it's just a weaker version of square and the orb must be tight less than 2degreesIP: Logged |