posted April 13, 2015 01:02 PM            

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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:

His Uranus opposes his moo. So will he feel it?

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posted April 13, 2015 01:28 PM            

There is something else that contributes to attraction, apart from Astrology. I know a guy, he's actually my hubbies friend, who's his astro twin. Zero attraction. He's actually quite unatractive for me.

posted April 13, 2015 01:41 PM            

EmGem, the orbs for parallels and contra-parallels in synastry need to be tightened a bit just as with longitude aspects. That means we go from an average of 1* or so to about 0*45' (3/4*). For luminaries 1* is fine I think in synastry.

posted April 13, 2015 01:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
Well said, Pretty Theft.

EmGem, the orbs for parallels and contra-parallels in synastry need to be tightened a bit just as with longitude aspects. That means we go from an average of 1* or so to about 0*45' (3/4*). For luminaries 1* is fine I think in synastry.

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Are you saying that declineations are important for guaranteed interest??

I see declineations like normal synastry aspects we always check. I think declineation will add more linkages of energy between two individuals.

It is still hard for me to believe that good synastry will guarantee some sort of a (good) outcome (from my experience obv...) because I suppose if you give someone a chance loooong enough, perhaps the relationship will happen naturally and hence yes, good synastry probably contributes to forming a relationship successfully.

posted April 13, 2015 02:28 PM            

Well the guarantee here is that the astrological energies will mesh, but that is a long shot from getting a relationship off the ground.

There will be an internal response to each other (whatever that may be - and honestly, what even constitutes "good synastry"? The longer I do astrology the more I come to see that while there are some general markers, the individual needs take precedence, so what could be good synastry for me, might be a nightmare for someone else; it`s not about good synastry really, but about the right synastry for each participant)

posted April 13, 2015 08:42 PM            

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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
[B] Are you saying that declineations are important for guaranteed interest??

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No. Astrology guarantees nothing.

Astrology is a starting place, not an outcome.

posted April 13, 2015 09:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Yes, esp if it's a tight aspect. To the moon it could feel awesome or overwhelming depending on the moon sign.
Not all moons like to be electrified, an aries moon might love it but a virgo or pisces moon might need just a little time to acclimate to the intensity.
I don't think it will be too much of an issue though because they are already used to Uranus stimulating them emotionally, because in their life anything that touches their moon touches their Uranus. They are a stressor on each other but the chart owner doesn't know anything different...they live the balancing act everyday.

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His moon is in Gemini so I would think he would love the stimulation.

posted April 14, 2015 04:09 AM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
How true do you think synastry charts are? Could you have good synastry with someone but they still don't show interest in you? Or is it like an automatic subconscious response?

For instance, I have a grand trine with someone I am interested in, and a few other 'good synastry aspects' including a very tight Venus-Uranus trine, (he's Venus, I'm Uranus). We met a few weeks ago and just went on a first date but I can't tell if he's interested or not.

I am wondering if the synastry in two people's charts generates/guarantees interest from both people.

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Astrololgy is always 'true' but physical attraction interaspects do not always guarantee that an attraction will be felt. A person also needs to be your type before the physical attraction aspects are switched on... And our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses show what our 'type' is. Synastry influencing these houses increase the likelihood that attraction will develop. This includes house ruler aspects and overlays.

There are two types of attraction...

1. Physical attraction. Physical attraction is shown by interplanetary synastry in through the traditional physical attraction aspects. Most people on LL are familiar with those… Venus/Mars, Sun/Moon, Moon/Mars, Venus/Uranus, and so on. These types of aspects can make people look good to us on a physical level, but we won’t necessarily see them as our ‘type’ for a long term relationship unless other factors support it. Aspects to the Asc from planets like Venus or Mars can certainly indicate plain old physical attraction as well.

2. Psychological attraction. Psychological attraction shows when people match the traits, style, and characteristics, of our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses. That is, our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses combined show the different types of qualities we have the potential to be attracted to, and how we are attracted to them (in a 5th house way, a 7th house way, or an 8th house way). As you know, if our 7th house ruler is in Libra we are often attracted to those with Libra planets. The 5th, 7th, and 8th houses show our ‘type’ for long term love. If someone has a Libra planet actually conjunct our 7th house ruler this makes the psychological attraction to that person even stronger. In fact aspects to our 5th, 7th, and 8th house rulers can make us psychologically attracted to someone even if their planets are not in signs we’re usually psychologically attracted to. This is because they can press our buttons and stimulate feelings in us relative to the house ruler that they’re aspecting. Actual aspects to the 5th, 7th, and 8th house rulers do seem to have a small bit of physical attraction to them as well… But this seems to be mixed in with a strong psychological attraction, and is not as strong as a traditional interplanetary physical attraction aspect (for actual physical attraction that is). In my view, psychological attraction still needs to be supported by a traditional physical attraction aspects like Venus/Mars or Sun/Moon, and whatnot. That being said, if we have physical attraction aspects, and no psychological attraction connections (5th, 7th, and 8th house overlays, house ruler aspects, and symbolism matches… You have Sun in the 7th and your partner is a Leo), then while the person my look good to you, you won’t be able to imagine yourself marrying them.

posted April 14, 2015 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Astrololgy is always 'true' but physical attraction interaspects do not always guarantee that an attraction will be felt. A person also needs to be your type before the physical attraction aspects are switched on... And our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses show what our 'type' is. Synastry influencing these houses increase the likelihood that attraction will develop. This includes house ruler aspects and overlays.

There are two types of attraction...

1. [b]Physical attraction. Physical attraction is shown by interplanetary synastry in through the traditional physical attraction aspects. Most people on LL are familiar with those… Venus/Mars, Sun/Moon, Moon/Mars, Venus/Uranus, and so on. These types of aspects can make people look good to us on a physical level, but we won’t necessarily see them as our ‘type’ for a long term relationship unless other factors support it. Aspects to the Asc from planets like Venus or Mars can certainly indicate plain old physical attraction as well.

2. Psychological attraction. Psychological attraction shows when people match the traits, style, and characteristics, of our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses. That is, our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses combined show the different types of qualities we have the potential to be attracted to, and how we are attracted to them (in a 5th house way, a 7th house way, or an 8th house way). As you know, if our 7th house ruler is in Libra we are often attracted to those with Libra planets. The 5th, 7th, and 8th houses show our ‘type’ for long term love. If someone has a Libra planet actually conjunct our 7th house ruler this makes the psychological attraction to that person even stronger. In fact aspects to our 5th, 7th, and 8th house rulers can make us psychologically attracted to someone even if their planets are not in signs we’re usually psychologically attracted to. This is because they can press our buttons and stimulate feelings in us relative to the house ruler that they’re aspecting. Actual aspects to the 5th, 7th, and 8th house rulers do seem to have a small bit of physical attraction to them as well… But this seems to be mixed in with a strong psychological attraction, and is not as strong as a traditional interplanetary physical attraction aspect (for actual physical attraction that is). In my view, psychological attraction still needs to be supported by a traditional physical attraction aspects like Venus/Mars or Sun/Moon, and whatnot. That being said, if we have physical attraction aspects, and no psychological attraction connections (5th, 7th, and 8th house overlays, house ruler aspects, and symbolism matches… You have Sun in the 7th and your partner is a Leo), then while the person my look good to you, you won’t be able to imagine yourself marrying them.

The conclusion here is that both physical and psychological attraction is needed for a ‘complete’ attraction to develop. We need both. If only one is present it will feel like something is lacking. [/B]

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