posted May 21, 2015 10:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I've had relationships like this, and it's heartbreaking! I didn't let go for years because I felt so deeply I just couldn't believe they didn't feel it also. Save yourself the heartache and let yourself find someone you deserve, someone who feels as deeply for you as you do for them. Even better find someone whom feels more deeply for you...you know your going to be deeply involved and not mistreat anyone so make sure they are just as attached or more.

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She was great, but I've let her down.

Felt her deep love for me as well, maybe not as deep as I had. But i did felt it.

posted May 21, 2015 11:00 PM            

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Originally posted by CuriousPisces:
She was great, but I've let her down.

Felt her deep love for me as well, maybe not as deep as I had. But i did felt it.

Thought a good synastry and good composite will bind us better. Read up some of the aspects, it seems quite good and binding. But my understanding to Astrology is not so much. So probably not..

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posted May 22, 2015 01:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
There is always good and bad along with it, the house overlays show how deeply things will be felt for both ppl, you were just touched more. No doubt she had love but you deserve someone with more love!

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posted May 22, 2015 01:48 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Your Venus falls into her 12th house.. that could be linked to unrequited love.

Here are some links that describe Venus in the 12th house overlay.
http://astrofix.net/2010/07/18/venus-synastry-12th-house/#.VV7CH2xFDIU
http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!venus-in-the-houses-in-synastry/c1kzg
http://illumeastrology.blogspot.com/2013/09/synastry-venus-in-houses.html

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posted May 22, 2015 02:40 AM            

I only managed to read some of the links as im still at office but I will check in more later after work.

One of the links says 'secret relationship', well, partly. She's not scare to be seen with me in public, cause she kisses me in public.

But because we are in a female/female relationship, so apart from my close friends. Our co-workers doesn't know about us.

posted May 22, 2015 02:49 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Composite Venus conjunct Pluto in in the 8th house is pretty intense.

Venus in the 8th house description.

Your bond should be characterized by great passion and touch you deep inside. Probably you will often be thoroughly shaken up by your strong feelings for your partner, which will have a positive effect once the intensity has cooled off a little and you are yourself again. Spending time together will give you an opportunity to reach important insights which may lead to such significant changes that you no longer recognize yourself. The aspects of Venus in the eighth house are very important because they tell you about the qualities of your feelings and your attraction for each other. Once this is clear, the relationship will go beyond superficialities, most likely you desire to melt into each other and place very high expectations on your partner. Especially in the area of sexuality you may experience things which others miss out on because they are afraid of losing themselves.

Once in a while it is important to pull the emergency brake whenever you have the feeling that the relationship has reached an intensity which you can no longer deal with. Each one of you has to have a strong personality if you want to get the full benefits out of the partnership. On another level, this Venus position can also mean that you support each other and like to share the possessions you most enjoy.

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This I totally agreed. But I guess just this alone, even if its intense and deep, it doesn't bind us enough. Both of us have strong personalities, which some times leads to power struggles..

posted May 22, 2015 12:09 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Id say your strongest aspect in synastry would be Moon/Mars because it is an exact conjunction.

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posted May 22, 2015 12:46 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
I edited my original response. Venus/pluto in the 8th house.

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Sorry!! Didn't see that clearly, I just missed it.

posted May 22, 2015 01:56 PM            

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Originally posted by CuriousPisces:
Sorry!! Didn't see that clearly, I just missed it.

Thank you!

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