Lindaland
  Interpersonal Astrology
  Need help interpreting. Why I can't seems to let go (Page 1)

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone!
This topic is 2 pages long:   1  2 
next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   Need help interpreting. Why I can't seems to let go
CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 04, 2015 01:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi all,

I am new here and new to astrology as well.

Need help with interpreting our charts. We are both females.

We just broke up recently after 3 years together. During our 3 years together, we broke up about 2-3 times before. And it’s been 4months since our last break up and didn’t spoke and see each other at all. I just can’t seems to let go, still thinking about my SO all the time. Having a hard time trying to move on. Why is it so hard to let go of this one. I still ‘feel’ that it’s not over, but it ‘seems’ it’s over.

I’ve never felt so deeply and strongly for someone before. But does she feels the same way too?
Will she come back?

And what do you all think of this chart?

Please help

Here's our chart

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 04, 2015 05:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
anyone?

IP: Logged

ikja
Knowflake

Posts: 1327
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014

posted May 04, 2015 05:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Use tinypic to upload and post your chart.

Tinypic.com

IP: Logged

LeeLoo2014
Moderator

Posts: 11960
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted May 04, 2015 07:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello and welcome to IA
I agree with ikja, it's best to post the charts directly, through tinypic.

You have very good charts with her, so perhaps this is just another breakup. It is normal to miss your SO after a breakup

------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

LeeLoo's Esotericorner

Connect for updates

IP: Logged

astra7
Knowflake

Posts: 591
From: I live at 667
Registered: Sep 2014

posted May 04, 2015 07:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astra7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hello and welcome to IA
I agree with ikja, it's best to post the charts directly, through tinypic.

You have very good charts with her, so perhaps this is just another breakup. It is normal to miss your SO after a breakup



I agree with LeeLoo2014, good chart.
The thing I've noticed is that your Aries Asc/Libra Dsc has been hit by tPluto-tUranus square. That explains the break up unfortunately.

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 04, 2015 08:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
care to elaborate more on the charts??

i went back to office to collect my things and found out she gotten a bf already.

Composite

Synastry

will she come back? should i wait for her?

abd how does she feel about our breakup? How can she let go so easily?

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 04, 2015 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and what do you mean by good chart?

cause im still new to this. probably need some explainations too

IP: Logged

LeeLoo2014
Moderator

Posts: 11960
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted May 04, 2015 09:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It doesn't work like this, sweetie, astrological charts don't tell you if you should wait for someone, they help you understand the dynamics of a relationship, understand yourself and the other one better. But you need to be calm to study them, you are emotionally distressed now. What does bf mean? Good charts in the sense they are good, strong charts for a relationship.

------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

LeeLoo's Esotericorner

Connect for updates

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 04, 2015 10:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
It doesn't work like this, sweetie, astrological charts don't tell you if you should wait for someone, they help you understand the dynamics of a relationship, understand yourself and the other one better. But you need to be calm to study them, you are emotionally distressed now. What does bf mean? Good charts in the sense they are good, strong charts for a relationship.


bf means boyfriend. she was straight before she met me.

so will you help me elaborate our charts? what does it says?

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 04, 2015 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
anyone can help me interpret the charts for more in-depth understand of what is this all about?

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 04, 2015 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
anyone please?

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 06, 2015 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hello, anyone can help me interpret please?

curious to know what's the outcome of this relationship, is there deep love?

or soulmates aspects? or one-sided love?

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 06, 2015 01:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hello, anyone can help me interpret please?

curious to know what's the outcome of this relationship, is there deep love?

or soulmates aspects? or one-sided love?

longevity?

i have a feeling that its only me that's so affected. she seems to move on very well.

IP: Logged

LeeLoo2014
Moderator

Posts: 11960
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted May 06, 2015 02:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by CuriousPisces:
hello, anyone can help me interpret please?

curious to know what's the outcome of this relationship, is there deep love?

or soulmates aspects? or one-sided love?

longevity?

i have a feeling that its only me that's so affected. she seems to move on very well.


The best way to start is to take aspect by aspect and check their explanation. This will describe the relationship you had. her Saturn is not aspected, so she may have moved on, it is possible, but these are two pretty charts, in general. I am confused about what you said: her being straight, still being with you? Maybe it was just an experimental phase for her? It doesn't mean there weren't strong feelings, she did have strong feelings for you. Give it more time, try to focus your daily life on other things. Perhaps this is not the right moment to understand your relationship, you need to be a little detached for that.

------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

LeeLoo's Esotericorner

Connect for updates

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 06, 2015 07:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
but i cant read the chart at all, which is why i need some interpretations.

is it still possible to save this relationship? or will she come back in the future?

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 06, 2015 07:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
The best way to start is to take aspect by aspect and check their explanation. This will describe the relationship you had. her Saturn is not aspected, so she may have moved on, it is possible, but these are two pretty charts, in general. I am confused about what you said: her being straight, still being with you? Maybe it was just an experimental phase for her? It doesn't mean there weren't strong feelings, she did have strong feelings for you. Give it more time, try to focus your daily life on other things. Perhaps this is not the right moment to understand your relationship, you need to be a little detached for that.


the synastry describe both of us and the composite as an entity by itself right? does that means the composite will affect the both of us? or just me?

and the synastry, who is more affected by the aspects?

seriously too new to this. not able to understand quite well on that.

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 06, 2015 07:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
double posting, sorry

IP: Logged

LeeLoo2014
Moderator

Posts: 11960
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted May 07, 2015 07:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The synastry shows the dynamics between the two of you. Check out every aspect online, its description: for example Moon conj Mars, Venus opp Jupiter etc, that's the place to start. The composite shows the theme and purpose of your relationship, how it functions as a unit, when you are a couple.

These charts are not like an oracle showing you if she's coming back or not, they describe the potential of the relationship.

Progressions may show what is the upcoming dynamics between two people, but it hasn't been researched sufficiently to give verdicts in this respect.

------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

LeeLoo's Esotericorner

Connect for updates

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 07, 2015 09:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so does the composite 'starts' when we are a couple? then does it 'ends' when we broke up?

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 21, 2015 04:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

IP: Logged

Gabby
Moderator

Posts: 6434
From:
Registered: Sep 2012

posted May 21, 2015 07:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Who is on the inside of the synastry chart?

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 21, 2015 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Gabby:
Who is on the inside of the synastry chart?

Im the blue, she's the red. So im the inside, she's the outside

IP: Logged

Gabby
Moderator

Posts: 6434
From:
Registered: Sep 2012

posted May 21, 2015 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by CuriousPisces:
Im the blue, she's the red. So im the inside, she's the outside

This relationship will have a much more profound affect on you...it touches your deep houses, love houses..it's not the same for her. She's just not as impacted by it as you were...I'm so sorry!
Also the 12th house moon and NN in the comp, shows the feelings and life path of this relationship will not easily be felt by one or both. This is especially true since the Moon squares the Sun, your feelings do not work or come together, the ego of the relationship is at odds with the emotions another words your are at odds with each other.

IP: Logged

CuriousPisces
Knowflake

Posts: 62
From:
Registered: May 2015

posted May 21, 2015 10:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Gabby:
This relationship will have a much more profound affect on you...it touches your deep houses, love houses..it's not the same for her. She's just not as impacted by it as you were...I'm so sorry!
Also the 12th house moon and NN in the comp, shows the feelings and life path of this relationship will not easily be felt by one or both. This is especially true since the Moon squares the Sun, your feelings do not work or come together, the ego of the relationship is at odds with the emotions another words your are at odds with each other.

That means to say I've no hope for her already..

IP: Logged

Gabby
Moderator

Posts: 6434
From:
Registered: Sep 2012

posted May 21, 2015 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by CuriousPisces:
That means to say I've no hope for her already..

I've had relationships like this, and it's heartbreaking! I didn't let go for years because I felt so deeply I just couldn't believe they didn't feel it also. Save yourself the heartache and let yourself find someone you deserve, someone who feels as deeply for you as you do for them. Even better find someone whom feels more deeply for you...you know your going to be deeply involved and not mistreat anyone so make sure they are just as attached or more.

IP: Logged


This topic is 2 pages long:   1  2 

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright 2000-2015

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a