posted August 25, 2015 10:50 AM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
I have Mars in Capricorn. I don't go on and on and talk about my decision. Once I've considered all aspects, I act and I don't explain much. It drives my sister nuts because she needs to argue.
Today she told me a problem and I suggested that she made lists. She said she doesn't use lists and as our argument goes on, she said she does but doesn't even know why she said she doesn't in the first place. She's also a libra sun-Mars conjunct Virgo Mercury. Talks about unnecessary needs to argue while my cap Mars was just trying to be helpful

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I have Mars in Capricorn too and you've summed it up quite well! My interactions with this person are very similar. I too weigh my options and do my best to make an "informed" decision but mostly on my own, and once I've made up my mind on something or am determined to complete something I will see it through. Quiet determination I would call it. Whereas he will talk out some of his decisions and try and bounce ideas off of me - "Should I go with red or blue?" "Blue is nice." "But isn't red a better choice?" "Well if you like red then go with red!" "You're right I'll go with blue." ... -______- and that's if he even takes my advice!

posted August 27, 2015 02:34 AM            

I think the reason that Mars in Libra asks for people's opinions before making a decision,is not because they are "undecided".

In all likelihood, they probably know what to do.But they are very sensitized to subjective biasness and emotional decision-making.

Libra is air after all and always wants to make a decision that is free from changing emotional states towards being more logical.

When I am about to make a decision about something, I usually take a day or two(depending on the nature of the decision as well as its long-term impact).

If the decision is not reached within that allocated time. I hold off making it until I get clarity. So I forget about it- temporarily.

The clarity usually comes when the Moon transits Aries or Cancer.Then when that comes through, I act!

posted August 28, 2015 08:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I have Mars in Libra

I think the reason that Mars in Libra asks for people's opinions before making a decision,is not because they are "undecided".

In all likelihood, they probably know what to do.But they are very sensitized to subjective biasness and emotional decision-making.

Libra is air after all and always wants to make a decision that is free from changing emotional states towards being more logical.

When I am about to make a decision about something, I usually take a day or two(depending on the nature of the decision as well as its long-term impact).

If the decision is not reached within that allocated time. I hold off making it until I get clarity. So I forget about it- temporarily.

The clarity usually comes when the Moon transits Aries or Cancer.Then when that comes through, I act!

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Spot on!! I know I hate making decisions when I'm highly emotional I like to be clear headed

It's not a compliment to hear that the most masculine planet is the least masculine in this sign when its not like that at all just wished people were more open minded to this placement